Enemies at myLot

Love your Enemies - can you Love your Enemies?
@taztheone (1726)
India
August 27, 2009 1:54pm CST
Do you often come across people in my lot whom you really don't like or whom you find irritating or someone who tries to take revenge against you because you might have said something during discussions? How do you react to them? If you haven't yet,What will you do if you come across a similar scenario?
3 people like this
8 responses
@arcidy (5016)
• United States
27 Aug 09
Not really I have not came accross any enimies on mylot thank god. Last thing I need our enimies here which is really quite stupid to fight with people on the internet if you ask me.
3 people like this
@taztheone (1726)
• India
27 Aug 09
Even I wish that this will be nice place with nice people around. God knows what might happen, but I'm sure there might be many who gets irritated by people here.
1 person likes this
@mysdianait (64058)
• Italy
27 Aug 09
If I do find a user who misunderstands something I say, then I take my time to sort things out. I have had one episode where a user and me 'bickered'. No-one starts off as irritating but a spark flies and the situation alters. A bit of common sense, a smile and things work themselves out and everyone lives happily ever after and even form a friendship
2 people like this
@taztheone (1726)
• India
27 Aug 09
That's nice. All in fair & peace uh? I saw a Post saying that there are people who Intentionally gives negative marking's on comments on someones posts because they don't like that person! God knows why.
@mysdianait (64058)
• Italy
27 Aug 09
This is because myLot is a slice of life. Offline there are people who will hurt others and that is the same online too - and obviosly some of them have ended up here.
1 person likes this
@taztheone (1726)
• India
27 Aug 09
Oh Ya, where ever you go, yo can find someone messing up there. After all I wonder if there is a violence free public zone! The problem mainly occurs to gals & sometimes with guys the some one trying to mess with.
2 people like this
@Lucky09 (1771)
• Philippines
27 Aug 09
hello! i'm still a newbie here so i haven't encountered someone who tries to respond against my post bluntly. i usually read new discussions carefully and respond accordingly to what the discussion is all about. but i have seen many times this mylotter that respond to every discussion with exactly the same words (copy paste). when i started here, his/her number of postings were just 5 but after 3 days, he got around 50posts. and another 3days, he/she got more than 125.wow! whenever i tried to respond and read some responses to a discussion i usually see his/her responses the same and doesn't answer or actually respond to that discussion. i know i should not be acting like this and has no right to say such but...well...i really just hope he/she tries more effort to say his/her opinion! peace! happy mylotting^^;
1 person likes this
@mysdianait (64058)
• Italy
27 Aug 09
Welcome to mylot Lucky! You have EVERY right to say what you are saying and as a myLotter you have every right to report these violations. In the Guidelines it says: 'Help out when you can. The myLot staff tries to monitor the site constantly, but we also need your eyes and ears to catch problems when they arise and report abusive behavior.' http://www.mylot.com/o/guidelines.aspx These users who think they are going to cheat and get paid for cheating are wrong. The sooner they are stopped the better too. They then go on to start discussions which get deleted and we ALL lose out because we respond on them and lose our posts and earnings. Please feel free to PM the link to anything you have seen that is a violation and I will help report.
@taztheone (1726)
• India
27 Aug 09
Hi Lucky, Its really nice to see your experience which you've encountered. Sometimes Its like survival for the fittest!. The one with more numbers goes to the top provided if there is quality. You know I have started a Post & no matter how much I tell people not to respond with URL links in, they keeps on putting URL links in it. I only hope that my Post wont get deleted. One more thing that friends are really important as we can rely on them for many things, even if its that we've started a new Post, I'm sure they'll respond to it.
@taztheone (1726)
• India
27 Aug 09
Oh ya Personal URL I meant
• United States
29 Aug 09
So far I have only ran into one person that wasn't so nice. Other then that from what I have seen people get along in here fairly well. But there was that one day about a week or so ago, and that one member was attacking everyone. I don't know why anyone would just start attacking anyone, but I suppose some people are that way.
1 person likes this
@taztheone (1726)
• India
29 Aug 09
There are many people who have an Ego problem & really don't like to bend down before anyone. Also they get furious at some comments against them & sometimes takes it personally! I feel that what ever be the problem, It can easily solved over a friendly chat
@vandana7 (66001)
• India
28 Aug 09
I have not yet come across anybody who is so obsessed with the other that they forget earning money and spend their valuable time writing volumes of ill-about others. I dont think any mylotter is that smart ( read opposite). lol. Come on, beyond four lines who is paying? Even if u write profanity, nobody is even reading it. lol. So why waste ur time. :-)
@taztheone (1726)
• India
28 Aug 09
You are right & I too hoped for the same. Unfortunately because its human mind, if someone says something against your point, you may not feel good & which can carry forward to a spark. There were many cases & however I hope that such incidents won't happen much & people should take things lightly & support members here.
1 person likes this
@rosekiss (30270)
• Eugene, Oregon
27 Aug 09
I have never encountered this myself, and not quite sure how I would handle it. I get upset easily when someone says things they shouldn't, so I would probably just say what I had to say to that person, and hope for the best. I don't like confrontation, as I avoid it at all costs. I try to avoid controversial discussons so that I wouldn't have to deal with that situation. I just hope that I don't ever have to deal with it either, but should it happen, I will have to prepare for whatever comes. Good luck to you and happy mylotting.
@taztheone (1726)
• India
27 Aug 09
ya incase if you come across something like that, hope u'll share it with us. Happy Lotting
1 person likes this
@coolcat123 (4392)
• India
28 Aug 09
once i came across such a member, a word or rather cold fight started between us. It started when i responsed his discussions against his favourite personality. I gave my views of not liking the personality whom he liked, so by my response he was pinched up and the cold word war started. It was interesting too but i too made the conversation long enough as i did not want to lose against him. here, different people have different thoughts, so to say about your views must not alter the other to start war and make enemies.
@taztheone (1726)
• India
28 Aug 09
No one would like to bend down before someone, Ego problem, hence there will be argument starting up if the person didn't take it in the right sense.
• Philippines
18 Oct 09
hello tazthezone, I used to have enemies too,most specially back in my OLD account. and probably one of them had a smart head enough to have me deleted. bad day, but you know, i don't bother them much anymore since mylot did a lot of changes just to keep us in the arms way. I'd stay away if that happens, or report them since they're not worth my cent.so, you do the same, you have friends here...