Is it a common thing for men to stare at girls?

@krupesh (2608)
India
August 29, 2009 5:42am CST
I have observed that most of the men eventhough married stare at girls even when their wives are around.Is this right or wrong? I dont think there is any harm in looking but staring is entirely different. Your thoughts.....
15 responses
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
29 Aug 09
i think that men are just appreciative of what they see. haha.. they appreciate beauty and there are just stunning girls, right?! for wives, remain attractive so you will be the only ones your partners will stare at.
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
18 Feb 10
it seems to be for some reason or another. even my hubby (he tells me several times every day he loves me and we have been married for 22 years) looks at women some times. it really doesnt bother me at all.
@banadux (630)
• United States
29 Aug 09
When I am with my fiance I always make an effort to never pay any other woman special attention. If I am alone and I see an attractive woman I might look twice, if you are in love or not other beautiful women will still be around and you can appreciate them like art. It is important to be respectful of the one you love and by focusing your attention on her when you are together she knows that she is beautiful to you. As far as staring? I guess that is probably going to be a little creepy if you stare too much. A double take is about all that seems appropriate.
@Ritchelle (3790)
• Philippines
31 Jan 10
staring is staring is staring. any court would say this over and over again. no forensic evidence would prove that it harmed anybody (except maybe a fragile ego that can be avoided if a woman does what she should in taking care and improving herself). and judging by the different ways women can package ourselves it is almost an art if you come to think of it.
@taztheone (1721)
• India
29 Aug 09
I think Its absolutely common . After all opposite poles always attract each other right. If you see a Ferrari car will you just make a quick glance at at it or will you stare at it?. well to be frank, it won't be fair to stare at a girl & its just a matter of manners! well we should make the girl feel that we are looking at her however not staring at her & always should not make eye contact more than 3 seconds. . I personally wont prefer staring but definitely consider looking till my the beauty fades!! Happy Lotting
@tintukm (1102)
• India
30 Aug 09
Men always do have this natural so called ability or disability,to keep on staring at at women ,their looks,their figure and for everything from toe to head.There's no harm in doing so,may if man does it or just the opposite.Women too have this feeling that they do go for their daily makeups and the clothes they wear are just a medium to make men stare at them .Nature do holds true to this.Staring and looking are different right,but one should stay in his/her limits otherwise the situation gets a new face as such.
@rainmark (4302)
29 Aug 09
I get to used of it now, my hubby always stared other girls even im around. At first i feel jealy and nagged him but later on i just ignore it, when he stares with other girls, i think it's normal to them stare them, as long as they never fancy them.
@srganesh (6340)
• India
29 Aug 09
It is quite natural for men to look at beautiful girls even if they are already married.But staring is somewhat different.It would not be appreciated.Just they should know how to do it decently.I hope,a man good at this skill can appreciate beauty even when his wife is around.Cheers!
@cest_moi (206)
• Canada
29 Aug 09
I do so too, looking at attractive girls but only when I am alone as when my partner is around, I respect her presence, however, she too, sometime asked me to look at attractive girls and we both give nice comments on them. It is nothing wrong in doing so as long as we are under control by not overdoing it because we have to respect other persons' privacy as well as to when we start noticing that the person feeling uncomfortable being looked/stared at then we should stop looking at the person. Cheers!
@dianmelydia (2269)
• Indonesia
29 Aug 09
I think we all agree if men eyes are designed for starring at beautiful things. I don't know why but the fact men are very interesting to see beautiful girl. They can easily changing their sight point if a girl come acrossing them. Perhaps this is why the girls should appearance good and attractive. But of course as a girl, we should prevent ourselves from any unwanted things. Some times because of a man strarring at a girl, it could be a crime thing occurs. So, just act in common mode. Don't be overacting when a girl wants to attract a man. Good luck and have a nice day. Happy mylotting.
• China
29 Aug 09
Haha, I might wanna correct you that men uaually like staring at beatiful or good looking girl exactly. And I guess that is kind of human nature, you should not definite it as a kind of freak action. And for me, I always act like that, I think that is not a embrassing thing for me to act, perceive beauty is human nature.
• United States
29 Aug 09
If we see an attractive person don't we all look? Do girls not stare at other girls as well? Are we really able to go through life without noticing other people no matter what gender they are? Also, do we really know what the person is staring at? Once I saw a friend of mine, I was certain she was staring straight at me but she didn't say anything she was about a 1.5 yards away from me but she didn't see me until I spoke. We don't know what is going on in the other persons head therefore we shouldn't assume.
• Ireland
29 Aug 09
as a guy i do do that but it doesnt mean you like them its like looking at shoes your just looking you probally arent interested but your just looking i wouldnt worry
• India
29 Aug 09
man its quite natural ... there is no harm in seeing girls if a man is married... come on.. seeing beautiful things is not an offense i think.. wat do u thinh?
@UK_Shree (3603)
29 Aug 09
I do think that men have a habit of looking at other attractive women and I don't think there is anything wrong with that. But if I was married to guy I would expect him to at least try and keep it under control when I am around and I would certainly not be impressed if he stared whilst I was there!