Do you start a discussion hoping for someone out there to be able to
By hotsummer
@hotsummer (13835)
Philippines
August 29, 2009 10:46pm CST
see or read this discussion and read though s/he is not a member of this site. hoping that person in a way will feel something special about the topic though s/he may not recognize s/he is the topic of the discussion though kind of feel it in some way but can't of course think it is possible it will be him/her being talked about.
3 responses
@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
30 Aug 09
It is hard to take notice if a person is not a member of this site if she is a memeber she could get to read the discussion where he is the focus of the discussion or somehow the discussion is related to her, unless you told her so..
@hotsummer (13835)
• Philippines
30 Aug 09
yeah, i don't really expect that thing to happen. just some sort of expressing my frustration if that is the right word for it.
@wigima5 (904)
• United States
30 Aug 09
wow. this question confused me. a lot. =P lol. umm....tho i kinda get wat u mean. but no i havn't ever done tat b4. tho when i talk to my friends and we're on a certain topic which may concern them i usually say things like "well certain ppl..." and try to drop hints for them to recognize the truth instead of saying it to their face.
@hotsummer (13835)
• Philippines
30 Aug 09
yes, my discussion is really quite confusing but i know that people can or will be able to see what i am trying to point out as you do.
@Citychic (4067)
• United States
30 Aug 09
Hello Hotsummer, well that just all depends. In the past I did start a topic simply hoping to draw some attention to the person that I had in mind that I felt was in need of help. But the entire situation got blown out of proportion so I figured the next time I will just keep my opinion to myself not unless they happen to ask me for some help personally. Hope you have a nice day. happy mylot.
@hotsummer (13835)
• Philippines
30 Aug 09
yeah i agree with you. sometimes people will take things with offense things we say if we give our opinions. sometimes our message don't come across to them as we wanted it too and they take it differently as if we had this bad intention. and so i am in the habit keeping my opinion to myself also as i had this bad experience as you had too before. but i learned it early so that is why i had been in the habit of being careful of what to say and when to say it for such a long time already.
