friend please help me...

@abanerji (1026)
India
August 31, 2009 10:18am CST
hi myLotters! when would you tell your friend that you are in trouble and you need his or her help. i don't discuss my problems with my friends untill i am deep into it. i relate my story of distress either when i am out of it or when i think i am failing to come out of it. when is the right time to call upon a friend and tell about your problems and ask for help...?
4 responses
@krajibg (11940)
• Guwahati, India
31 Aug 09
Are hum hei rahi pyar ke, phir milenge chalte chalte. This is friendship. Whatsoever is problem you should relate to your friend or for what good are your friends or your friend. But remember the friend must be trustworthy.
@abanerji (1026)
• India
1 Sep 09
hi dada... very true, the friend must be trustworthy. oherwise there are people who either become happy to know that we are in trouble or some don't care about it. only a friend who empathises would understand the problem and try to give the best solution...right naaa???
@krajibg (11940)
• Guwahati, India
1 Sep 09
Yes absolutely right. Friends must be one who is trustworthy and bear both respect and love.
@dianmelydia (2272)
• Indonesia
31 Aug 09
I think the best time is as soon as possible. When you have a problem, then you must fixing that problem as soon as possible. Don't let the problem long draw out. Perhaps now we can say that is the important of having friends, especially best friend. We can't live without having any friends in this world. I think we should believe our best friend that he/she must be able to help us. Perhaps they can't help us to solving our problem due to their limited abilities, but at least we can share our problem to them. I believe that if we have someone to sharing our problem story, usually we will feel much better than we only keep the problem ourselves. So, don't feel hesitate to telling your best friend about your problem. Perhaps you have many friends, or even you have many best friends in your life. But it doesn't mean you can tell every of your friends about your problem. Each people has their own character and ability. This is vary on each people. So, you should known your friend deeply before you can share your problem with them. It's very important to find the match people for sharing your problem. Good luck and have a nice day. Happy mylotting.
@abanerji (1026)
• India
1 Sep 09
yeah1 it is important to know who the right friend is and who is going to really help you out of trouble. onlly a trustworthy and true friend can solve your problems. other people are happy to know that you are in trouble.
@mdvarghese (1789)
• Bangalore, India
31 Aug 09
If you have a best friend you can chose any time to ask him for help.As far as I concerned, we should not wait until we go to the deep of it. When we sense or smells a failure, we should discuss it with the intimate ones and formulate a solution for the problem. There will be always ups and downs in our life. When we are in the clouds also we should share it with our near and dear. Likewise when we are in problem we should share it with the intimate ones. I myself faced a lot of problems in my life and I never bothered to share it with any one because of my complex (Superiority). Then when it came to the extreme, the people around me (near and dear) smelt it. So gradually it is solved. So what I learned from my experience is that we should not wait until it reaches the bottom.
@abanerji (1026)
• India
1 Sep 09
thanks for sharing your experience... even i let things reach the helpless point then ask for help. may be if i ask for suggestions in the beginning then freinds can come up with ideas that can be helpful for me.
@madhuvamsi (1185)
• India
25 Sep 09
If a friend is trustworthy and solves the problem, then why should we hasitate to share the issue with friend. I will share without any hesitation but I am not having much trustworthy friends to share in my life. The one who I have is passed way 1 year back. After his demise I have no more friends who are trustworthy, so, do not much share with anyone much..