If your ex-boyfriend chase you again,you would accept him or not?

China
September 1, 2009 2:47am CST
Now I am still like he very much.He pronouced the broke up first. I was very sad when he dumped me,but now he chase me again,what i should do? I have no idea?
7 responses
@eLsMarie (4148)
• Philippines
1 Sep 09
well it really depends on you. that is if you want to experience another break up with the same person on the latter part of your relationship. uhmmm... what made him leave you anyways? if it's really reasonable then give him another chance, however, if you find out for yourself that he's reasons are too petty in order for him to give up on your relationship, then let him go...
• United States
1 Sep 09
No I personally would not accept an ex back. It also depends on how we broke up. Most of the time ex's are just that for a reason. Something went wrong during the relationship, and or the love was not strong enough to keep the couple togehter. You have to look at the relationship from all angles.
• Philippines
1 Sep 09
of course you have to recall whats the reason of the break up. if its not acceptable then better give him a lesson. theres too many guys out there... but if the reason of split is bcoz he need to prioritize his work or study for his future sake then let him be as he have a valid reason. if his the one who pronounce the break up then dont accept it coz that means he felt out of love from you already when he announced it. besides i dont think the guy will have the guts to say that to someone if he really cares for their feelings. tell him your not his property that everytime he wants you he can just pick you up or dump you whenever he feels like.. his a kind of guy that only love to play with your feelings only bcoz he feels like you really love him.
@patofgold23 (5075)
• Philippines
1 Sep 09
hmmm... if a guy dumps me... I would never give him another chance. I would prefer it better that he gives me a clue that he wants time out, or space, or a break up..and give me the honor to do it... it's more gentlemanly... if he can afford to dump oyu that he must not care that much about how you feel.. and then after some time, he misses you (which is normal after a break up... but he misinterprets it for love) and tries to win you back!? don't make the same mistake the second time around dear... okay..there are exceptions to everything... every relationship and every person is different... so i guess the best person to judge whether you'd start a new relationship with him or not..would entirely be up to you... but I tell you... keep your guards...and not let anybody put you down like that. A woman deserves respect. --- even in these modern times --- why would that change!? but if you do take him back... set your terms straight... ...and ask yourself fisrt if you're really ready for what's gonna happen ahead.
• Philippines
1 Sep 09
I would never think twice, if I still care and love him. But, if he is a well known cheater I may think more than 70 times before I make u my mind. It is very hard to regain and bring the trust after a heart break which is very painful experience.
• Philippines
1 Sep 09
It really depends on you. Do you still have feelings for him? It's easy to fall in love again with him, but think about what happened before. Do you think he has changed and will not leave you anymore? Would he cause you another heartache? Weigh the pros and cons of you coming back to his arms. Choose which will bring you more joy than pain. Good luck.
1 Sep 09
find out why he dumped you in the first place first. If say he dumped you to see someone else, then stay clear of him, your obviously not what he wants. Just make sure that he's genuine and not just chasing you because he knows you'll have him back, you don't want to be used and hurt again.