do you appreciate gays?

@janebeth (2034)
Philippines
September 3, 2009 3:10am CST
hi friends, i have a lot of gay friends here in the office and also at our place, but it seems they are increasing right now.. even young ones aging 5-15, they can express their deep feelings that they are really a girl.. i treasure our friendship but sometimes i hate them specially when they are so fool to the guy they love.. they really gave everything just to make the boy happy, they are spoiling the guy.. i told him that i saw the guy with a girl but he really don't believe me.. i think that if a gay will be in love to a guy, he gave everything he has.. but u think they are wrong with it, knowingly that he is not loyal to him.. can't understand them sometimes.. i love their company so much, they makes me smile and laugh always specially when i am sad and have a lot of problems in life.. they are there to help me, they are my crying shoulders.. i love them but i don't want them to be a fool with someone who don't deserve the love they give.. i appreciate them for being a good person.!! how about you friends?? do you like gays?? do you appreciate them?? please share your ideas and experience in life with gays.. please be open here and happy myLotting..
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@lilaclady (28240)
• Australia
3 Sep 09
I have worked with a lot of gay guys and girls, it never has bothered me what they do in the bedroom, I have elways gotten on well with them even with them knowing I am not gay, I have found they have a better humour than most, they are always fun to be with it.... they are ok in my book.
@janebeth (2034)
• Philippines
3 Sep 09
that's nice lila, but sometimes i hate them if they talk about their bed scenes, and it really irritates me..
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@lilaclady (28240)
• Australia
3 Sep 09
But that is not exclusive to gay people, I hate anyone talking about there bedroon behaviour and it seem a lot of people do regardless of being gay or not...I hate it too...
@janebeth (2034)
• Philippines
3 Sep 09
yes you are right.. , it's really not nice to listen them talking about that..
@sid556 (31005)
• United States
3 Sep 09
They are just people. Like anyone, some are loyal..some not. I don't see them increasing really. What makes it seem like that, I think is that they are more comfortable in just being who they are.
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• United States
3 Sep 09
Exactly. And for those who say "Oh, but I don't want to HEAR about what they do in bed..." Well, I don't want to hear about what anybody else does in bed, gay or straight.
@janebeth (2034)
• Philippines
4 Sep 09
here in our country they are really increasing, even young ones shows a bit girly thing already and their parents would be shock after they discover what their kid have done..
@dpk262006 (56220)
• Delhi, India
3 Sep 09
Hi there! Ours is a conservative soeity and recently, our High Court have stated in a judgement that being gay is not a criminal offence. I think if a person is 'gay', it is his/her personal choice and it should not come in a way of making friends.
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@janebeth (2034)
• Philippines
4 Sep 09
ah i see, different here on our country.. gays are some kinda not accepted in here (maybe in our place only) and not in the whole country.. yes you are right, it's their choice and they are happy with it..
@janebeth (2034)
• Philippines
4 Sep 09
yes, it's their choice and they are happy on it.. so just accept the fact and enjoy it.
• Philippines
3 Sep 09
Yes I do. actually i have chat with one of them and it's great but he log-out just before i would have referred him to mylot but he just left unoticed. they are just good and normal. i even had a crush on a gay back in high-school. that face, she's like a woman in a man's body..frankly, he doesn't even look like a guy.....
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@janebeth (2034)
• Philippines
4 Sep 09
that's good for him, maybe that's why he acts to be a lady because he has a lady face in a man's body.. thank you soo much..
@med889 (5958)
3 Sep 09
I believe there is nothing to appreciate with them because they are human beings like us after all so I believe they are equal to us and they have every rights which we have so I accept them as they are. I have friends who are gays and they are very good friends too.
@janebeth (2034)
• Philippines
3 Sep 09
that's good to hear med, so it also mean you appreciate them for being what they are and for being a nice friend to you.. yes we are equal, always equal.. rich or poor..!!
@flzmlady (419)
• China
4 Sep 09
i dont appreciate them or get disgusting about them, i just treat them as common couples only both are men.its not a big problem to me.but to some people i know ,they just cannot bear it.they tell me more than once about their opinions about gays saying they're disgusting.
@janebeth (2034)
• Philippines
6 Sep 09
they are really disgusting for some people who can't bare to see them or talk to them, but for me it's fine.. i accept them!!
@littleowl (7157)
16 Oct 09
Hi jane, My son is gay, he can be the most considerate, helpful, kind thoughtful person ever, yet he also has a really awful temper if he loses it. I have a lot of gay friends too and they are all really lovely people they never judge others are always there to help and I have never known of any violence in their community...if there has been it has come from straight people. In all I am thankful for everyone I know who is gay for my sister and son who are and may they continue always to live a life of harmony and peace...LoLo