I had a bad relationship with my boss

By Mae
@junmae (1586)
Philippines
September 3, 2009 3:48am CST
I dont want to open up this kind of topic but Its my only way to lessen up my my feelings because it really gets me depressed. Actully I am planning to resign with my work because my boss always blames me always if something get wrong. She is asking me to do such report that I cant make but I did my best to do this proposal and i finished it I already asked on of my senior to check it and it was ok. But my boss keeps on asking me to revise it and I dont know what was wrong to her. I am really sad for the attitude that she had shown me. She always yells at me if there are many people around us. I dont know whats wrong with her.
7 responses
• Philippines
3 Sep 09
i, too, am having a subtle bad relationship with the boss. she cannot yell at me because i guess she knows that i won't tolerate being yelled. i always speak my mind when i am right. what pisses me off is her utter disregard for being fair and unbiased for her staff. some staff just go out of the office and returning above the hours permitted (maximum of 2 hours a week), go on leave without even filing a leave of absence beforehand or not calling in sick for the day. she is too lenient for staff who just bows down and take every task and word she tells them. i have noticed that she treats me differently. there was an instance in the past where i fought for my right when my salary was withheld by the accountant ... went on to file a case with one governing body but they clearly sided with the accountant for their seeming fear that their requests for reimbursements or fund releases will not be expediently processed. i always stand for my right and for what is the truth and i do not allow myself to be "used". she had my support as an employee even doing things not my job but when the time came that i needed her support in the accountant's intention delay of my salary, no support from the lady boss was given. i go to work as required by my schedule, do my tasks as required of me, leave the office when it is time to leave, in short, i exercise all duties and responsibilities as required by employees. sometimes, employees have to assert their right and show the boss that he cannot just be "used". as to ur boss, the problem is with her and not with u. so, keep on working nonestly and diligently but be alert of job opportunities elsewhere.
@junmae (1586)
• Philippines
4 Sep 09
Thank you, you are lucky because you have a strong personality, and your right the problem is with my boss because i am dedicated with my work and i know that Im not doing anything wrong so i dont have any reason to be afraid. thank you for the advice it lessen up my luggage.
@wwkeen (247)
• Malaysia
3 Sep 09
i think you should have a one on one with your boss to actually communicate and clarify what actually she expect from you. Thing can become worst if both of you and your boss keep on going for a cold war. If you really do not like this job, my advice to you is to quit and find a new job
@junmae (1586)
• Philippines
4 Sep 09
that is the very first thing that comes to my mind when i run out of patience with my boss. i cant talk to her one on one because im afraid of her because she always yells at me. She looks like a monster (joke)
@subha12 (18441)
• India
3 Sep 09
Most boss are like this. they always find problem with one or few reporters. My boss does this from different perspective.He thinks himself insecure because the client knows I work better than him.He always wants to find defect in my work
@junmae (1586)
• Philippines
4 Sep 09
thats foul it seems that your boss is threatened because he noticed that you are much better than he is.
@med889 (5941)
3 Sep 09
I wonder why bosses are like this though.I have a boss too and whenever he is angry we are very afraid because we know he will vent out the anger with us. He has scolded me once infront of his guests and I was like nearly crying so it is just impossible to work with such a boss, I am planning to quit job this month. Hope I get a better one.
@junmae (1586)
• Philippines
4 Sep 09
my boss does that everytime when she is upset she always see me and embarassed me in front of my officemates, and it really gets me depressed.
@sugtant (21)
• Indonesia
3 Sep 09
be patient and search for the annother job :D
@junmae (1586)
• Philippines
4 Sep 09
Its really hard to move on and search for another job and start all over again, but I guess its the very best thing to do. thanks guys
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
Try harder what she wants and if she still doesn't likes what you did, then better resign...
@qqyyzk469 (108)
• China
10 Sep 09
It is terrible!Maybe it's her who she is!Be patient and find a new chance,a better job,and of course,maybe she thought you can be a big one and give you so many chances..