Are you keeping in touch with your ex. boy/girl friend?

China
September 3, 2009 11:20am CST
My colleague told me that she will go out for dinner with her ex. boy friend this weekend. It really suprise me, as I don't think I can keep the friend relationship with my ex. What do you think of it? Can you keep good friend relationship with your ex.?
6 responses
@mastinet (467)
• India
4 Sep 09
Keeping relations which your ex is different and being in touch is different. If your ex. is really faithful to you even after that incident then being in touch is not a bad one but keeping relations is not faithful. And if you are involved in another relation after that, then meeting your ex. is really bad and unfaithful. One should just avoid that relations and be faithful.
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• China
8 Sep 09
Thanks for your sharing, Mastinet. Someone can keep in touch with their ex. and be faithful to their present partner, as to me, I do not want to hear anything about him, we have a bad ending...
• Philippines
4 Sep 09
yes, we still have communication but both of us already have boyfriend and girlfriend. good thing because sometimes he give me some advise though i also do the same to him. maybe because we were friends first and that we already know each other more. deep inside we know that we can't be together because of some differences and we already admit it. besides, we already happy with our own relationship. he will be getting married soon so i'm happy for him. though i told him that i will be gone for good once his married because i dont want any problem to occurs with him and his wife just bcoz of me.
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• China
8 Sep 09
Hi Homeshoppers, that's great you can still keep the good relationship. It's heart broken that love turn into hate :(
@ds6413 (2073)
• United States
3 Sep 09
Hello, one ex-boyfriend I can keep in touch with and have no problems. As for my ex-husband...no way! I have no desire to stay in contact with him.We had a very bad ending.
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• China
4 Sep 09
Hi Ds6413, Thanks for your response. Yes, sometimes, it's hard to get over of it. I can understand.
@gelibean (159)
• United States
3 Sep 09
my ex and I talk everyday. We're actually pretty good friends. At first we only stayed in contact because we have a child together but now I find myself talking to him like I used to when we were dating.
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• China
4 Sep 09
Hi Gelibean, you are quite open minded. Yes, it's good to keep in touch for kid's sake. Have you ever think about getting back together with him/her?
• United States
3 Sep 09
I really only have had one ex so I can't speak from too much experience, but it lasted for 4years. He ended up cheating on me and we stopped talking. Eventually he started calling my job again and we would talk here and there. To make a long story short he has no one and I had no one where we lived so all we had was each other. We were looking to get out from a bad experience and then he just totally stopped talking to everyone. Actually just recently I was thinking about him and wishing I could call just to say hi at least to make sure hes okay. I think I could keep it at a friendship level where it would be like 5-10min phone coverstations with him. But actually going out with him and to dinner, I am not sure I could handle that. But I think it depends on the length of the relationship as well as the reason why the both of you broke up if you could keep a friendship with that person.
• China
4 Sep 09
Thanks for your response, Flirtykumquat. Yes, it's quite true. I has only 1 ex. also and now I am married, I have forgot and forgive him, but never think to get in touch with him again.
• India
15 Sep 09
Hi, Keeping in relation with your ex depends on how bad or worse was the breakup and the reason thereof.Its very tough to keep in touch with your ex as you always think of the past and that is the issue that makes it more difficult.
• China
15 Sep 09
Hi Tanay, thanks for your response. I feel the same as you. Actually, I do not talk to my ex from the minute we brokeup. We have a bad ending and do not want to hearing from him again. This is how love turn into hate, so sad :( Have a nice day and happy mylotting to you.