Would you cheat on your partner?

@suchi60 (913)
India
September 4, 2009 9:57pm CST
If you had the chance to go out on a date with the person of your dreams, would you ditch or cheat on your partner? This is hard to say, but most of us would hide behind our guilt and say no.I've had my chances to do so, but have never done it, because it could break my family, who are dear to me.
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@lhsy2k (227)
• United States
5 Sep 09
Absolutely not, I am the faithful type. I am not married yet, but in a serious relationship with my girlfriend, I'd never do anything that would hurt her so badly. Also I could never keep something like that from her, I wouldn't be able to live with myself. Cheating on your partner is the most selfish thing you could ever do.
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• United States
5 Sep 09
I would never do it , simply because I have respect for my partner, and I treat him the way I want to be treated . Once you do something like that how does the other person ever trust you again? I would hate to think that my partner would never be able to trust me again. Nope I would never do it .
@suchi60 (913)
• India
5 Sep 09
That's true. Nobody could think of double-crossing their partner and expect their undivided affection and respect. I have come across some women who have expressed their relationships with dismay and sought my company. I have always maintained my position that they should sought out their trouble with their partners and not get into troubled waters which could become dangerous later on. Thanks for the post.
@sk66rc (4261)
• United States
5 Sep 09
Quite frankly, I'm already with the person of my dreams, my girl-friend. We've been living together for now 5 years. She has all the qualities I've been looking for in my dream girl. Matter in fact, I'm living with 2 of the most beautiful girls I could ever ask for, my daughter & my girl friend. Everyone else is just that, "everyone else".
@suchi60 (913)
• India
5 Sep 09
That's great. Just the way it should be. Remember, they're the only ones who'll stand by you all the time. Thanks for the post.
@prinzcy (5058)
• Malaysia
5 Sep 09
No way. Once I start being in a serious relationship, there's no turning back until the end. I won't betray my partner even if I used to fancy a particular person and suddenly he ask to date me. It's his fault not to notice me before. I am taken. I value my relationship with my partner.
@suchi60 (913)
• India
5 Sep 09
A very good stance indeed. Its better to turn a blind eye to any overtures which come after you're in a relationship. The more you respect and trust your partner, the more the respect and trust you get in return. Thanks for the post.
@cream97 (29169)
• United States
11 Mar 11
Hi. suchi60. No. I would not cheat on my partner. I will however, divorce him if I feel that this other man makes me feel like a woman is supposed to feel. If my husband acts as if he does not want me anymore, but this other man does, then I am going to go for what makes me happy, not for what makes me unhappy anymore.
• Germany
10 Sep 09
That is what relationship means in the first place, to be loyal. When you are not that, there IS NO relationship... Infact loyalty is the first thing in a relationship.. I wouldn't do that, though i've had many chances, but i know how hard it would feel to be cheated. One just has to put oneself in his/her partner's shoes, thats it.
• Philippines
8 Sep 09
i would not for the following reasons: 1) if u love ur partner, how could u do that? 2) if u did try to cheat or had cheated, don't u feel guilty? 3) what happens to ur promise before God to love and support each other and be faithful to one another? 4) i always believe in karma. i believe that when a partner cheats, the children suffer. i have seen lots of families where there are unfaithful partners. the children get sick and their family is always in disarray and disagreement.
@killersss (639)
• India
5 Sep 09
it depends, like if i am serious in my relationship then no i would not cheat my partner but if am not so serious in my relationship then may be i will cheat on my partner, rite now m not into any relationship so this question doesn't apply to me rite now. but i seriously don't like cheating on partner, it shows who you are and where you belong from.
@dodo19 (32869)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
5 Sep 09
No, I would never cheat on my fiance. It's just not the sort of thing that I would want to do. I love my fiance and I would never do anything to hurt him. I really don't want to do anything that might jeopardize my relationship with my fiance. Cheating is just not worth it.