It takes..

@kun2349 (23477)
Singapore
September 9, 2009 1:18am CST
one second to meet someone, one minute to know someone, one hour to get used to someone, one day to fall in love with someone, but... it takes one lifetime to forget that someone.. How true is that?? Be it for frenz or any partners, has it ever occur to u yet?
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@zed_k4 (17640)
• Singapore
9 Sep 09
That's just so true. Another one that often I hear is one can forgive but one can never forget. It takes probably an entire lifetime to forget someone, I agree..
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@kun2349 (23477)
• Singapore
10 Sep 09
Yeah.. Love and hatred are just the same.. Or maybe, they go hand in hand together.. lol =D I think only those ple involed in such situations will realise it.. If not, it's gonna be difficult for them to know how it really feels like, or know the difference of 'forgiving does not = forgetting'.. hehe
@zed_k4 (17640)
• Singapore
11 Sep 09
That's right, bro.. The burden is always felt on the shoulder of the person suffering, instead of the person looking and pitying at it..
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@kun2349 (23477)
• Singapore
11 Sep 09
YEah, there's always this chinese saying, 'A 3rd party knows best on what's happening in a realtionship'.. haha =D BUt i dun agree fully to it.. haha =D Because they are not in the relationship, and what they see might not be the truth after all.. Besides, it's much easier for them to say, rather than doing it.. lol =D
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@ahgong (10088)
• Singapore
10 Nov 09
Well, when I say I am the luckiest man on earth, I am not kidding you. My first girlfriend is also my wife now. I never needed to experience a breakup. And I never needed to have to heal a broken heart. And I am grateful for that. There is some truth in what you said though. That it takes one second to meet someone. One minute to know someone. One hours to get used to someone. And one day to fall in love with some one.
@kun2349 (23477)
• Singapore
11 Nov 09
INdeed!! UAre really really lucky!! Being able to marry your first love, and never ever have to nurse a heartache!! If possible, nobody will like to go thru that painful process of forgetting and moving on when those memories are etched inside of us.. hehe ^_^ BUt u are so lucky, without needing to go thru that at all, in your life, is actually a blessing to u!!
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@ahgong (10088)
• Singapore
11 Nov 09
Yeah... and I am appreciating my wife for it as well! Heh heh... Hmm... dunno why, suddenly, my rating fell from a 10 to a 6 leh. I wonder who the joker is putting so many negatives in my replies to govern such a lousy rating. Anyway, back to the topic. I am sure you will be able to say the same thing I do one day too! Once you get married to the love of your life, you will want nothing else... much... of course the other loves (gadgets, giant flat screen TVs, monster capable computer, that all in one so good universal remote control, that super fast and sleek laptop, that super zoom lens...) mustn't be too neglected either!
@kun2349 (23477)
• Singapore
11 Nov 09
IT's not only happening to u, but to everybody in mylot as well!! haha =D Hopefully it's only a glitch and tomorrow will be back to normal lol =D Love will always be in the air, regardless of them they are or what they are.. haha =D By time i say, I do, it means i'm ready to commit, as in really commit and sacrificing everythin, including my dreams, if i have not fulfil it
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@ckyera (17202)
• Philippines
14 Sep 09
i already hear this one way back college...hehe and i think its true somehow... i agree that it takes a lifetime to forget someone who have been part of our lives...especially when they are someone that we love and have been loved...hehe friends, partners...they will always be part of our memories and of who we are...that's why they are always remembered...
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@kun2349 (23477)
• Singapore
14 Sep 09
YEah, this is such an old saying now.. lol =D But i only came across it recently in a movie.. hehe I like the way it's being described, and the true meaning behind it.. JUst like one of the responses i have, forgive does not = forget.. hehe ^_^ BUt that's for the hurting parts in life.. As for happy memories or someone close to us, there's no way we can forget them, for it's an experience brought to us, in an unique way, only by them ^_^ hehe THus, forgetting them is not quite possible, as every little things we do, will tend to remind us of them
@ckyera (17202)
• Philippines
14 Sep 09
and what movie is that? hmmmm... well, true, we can forgive but difficult to forget...but i also believe or i want to believe that "to forgive is to forget" hahaha but again its not easy... and i agree on what you have said there...that people who have been part of our happy memories are hard to forget coz even small things can remind us of them...haha and i really believe in this coz i'm like that...i can easily connect some things even smallest things to people from my past even from my present...hehehe
@kun2349 (23477)
• Singapore
14 Sep 09
It's a chinese local movie.. hehe ^_^ To forgive is to forget, is true, and i believe in your belief.. However, i have not done so successfully yet.. lol =D And there are times, we might not even wanna admit to it to others.. haha =D YEah, same goes for me too!! hehe As such, there are times i might suddenly go into a daze when certain situations appear in front of me.. haha =D Because i'm thinking back of the past scenerios.. hehe
@thaMARKER (3098)
• Philippines
3 Sep 10
i believe in it. hehehe.. hate to admit but it's true. walking around or being anywhere, you might bump with someone.. get to talk about whatever.. you may fall in love with that person or simply likes him as a friend. but once u want to stay away, it'll take every ounce of your skills if needed just to do just that.. i mean stay away. sad thing for me.. because i'm going through this right now. so help me God. i want this person out of my life.
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• Portugal
5 Sep 10
wish you can forget that person that hurts you and find someone better^^ believe you can bcs me i also loved a guy too much and he was my best friend and then was so bad :( he ignored me, didnt care when someone humiliated me bcs was in love :( and i thought i can never love a guy again. but i put in my head he just ignores me now. the guy that was so sweet and caring to me wasnt him anymore. he was caring to others but to me not anymore. so i put in my head i have to forget him and i could. you can also. dont waste your time thinking about this person anymore. life is so short please dont waste time with people that dont even care for our feelings^^ cheer up im sure you will find a great person^^
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@kun2349 (23477)
• Singapore
7 Sep 10
THat's just so sad for u, thaMARKER! BUt i believe u will be able to walk right out of it very soon. YOur friends and family members around u, will be giving u all the emotional support u need
• Portugal
5 Sep 10
this is true^^ but about forget someone if we really understand that that person is not for us bcs hurt us so much we can forget this person with time^^ i thought one time i couldnt forget a guy bcs liked him so much really did but i could bcs he hurt me so much. he is happy and laughing and dont even care for how hurt i was with what he did. so i wont care for him. he can be happy bcs he didnt worth my feelings. i cried and was sad bcs of him and all he did after we be best friends was ignore me when i didnt deserve it :( it really hurts me so bad but i cant just cant humiliate myself even to be his friend. i just dont know why he act that way bcs i always been so sweet to him. thats why i wonder why are we so sweet and people are mean? whats the reason? :(
@kun2349 (23477)
• Singapore
7 Sep 10
IT's sad to hear that happening to u. Well, some ple are just that heartless, and it's our luck to be with them in the past. Count ourself lucky to have ended that relationship before we fall any deeper, and causing us to do lots of foolish things, in the hope of getting them back, but in reality, we will only be pushing them further away, LEave some dignity for ourself, and move on in life. Painful as it is, but we have to be strong ^_^
@flower21 (767)
• Philippines
13 Sep 09
is that like a song like i've know i love you before i meet you, i have dream of you tonight. guess who?:D
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@kun2349 (23477)
• Singapore
14 Sep 09
lol =D I guess so?? Are there two different songs in your comment?? hehe ^_^ Because i do only about one, which is, I knew i love u, by savage garden.. lol =D
• United States
9 Sep 09
That sounds nice and most of the time it is true. But at the moment I have two years with my husband and so far I don’t know him and the getting to used to him not so sure about it. There are times that he is really annoying actually most of the time and so far I have not got used to him being that way. I do love him even if most of the time I want to be away from him since he gets to be more annoying than a kid crying all day for a toy that he can’t have.
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@kun2349 (23477)
• Singapore
9 Sep 09
haha =D BUT one day when u really get away from him, i'm sure that u will miss him alot after the initial few days.. hehe ^_^ For, u might already gotten used to his annoying ways in the past 2 years.. haha =D
• Philippines
24 Nov 09
that very true most of the times and the faster i meet them, the faster they go away..lol.. well, that applies to all and the mind is made of billions of cells which stores a lot of memories be it sad or full of joy.. though, in terms of friendship it already happen to me that it is easy for me to approach it but in the 2nd last lines it is hard for me to fall in love.. it take a lot of time and by the time i learn to love it is then the persistence ceases... though, the saying is only true to those who already experience it.. as if it only based on admiration or true love.. i think I am always blinded many times coz it easy for me to appreciate beauty and charming personality... though, the last line is true it is hard to forget those who gives a lot of meaning to one life.. as love bring colors and without it life would be dull.. just what i think anyway...
@kun2349 (23477)
• Singapore
25 Nov 09
Is the whole thing about 'It takes", close to your own personal life?? hehe ^_^ YEah, it's only true to some ple, while some do not really agree with it.. Alot depends on the ple we meet in life, and how the process goes.. but it's always definitely difficult to forget as compared to deliberately trying to remember, when things are not as 'interesting' enough for us to be captured.. haha
• Philippines
26 Nov 09
yeah.. will probably no one yet have the courage as they may be missing some gems..lol.. yup and all depend on the length of seriousness and length of intimacy... of course forgetting is hard and it just easy to say you forgive and forget what the mouth say but the mind is thinking the opposite things...
@kun2349 (23477)
• Singapore
26 Nov 09
YEah, most of the time, we tend to be talking about things, and opinions which is so different from what we are thinking, as we just dun wanna hurt.. haha