Has he ever hurt you?

United States
September 11, 2009 2:47pm CST
My hubby and I play fight a lot! There've been a few accidental injuries over the years. One time we were messing around, and I hit him a little harder than I meant to, and just happened to hit him in the right spot!! He fell to his knees from the pain, and came down hard. His knee landed right on my big toe. It bruised and swelled immediatly. A few days later the toe nail ended up coming right off!! It did eventually grow back and looks fine now, as if nothing ever happened. Do you guys play fight? Has there ever been any accidental injuries?
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@mtdewgurl74 (18118)
• United States
13 Sep 09
Me and my hubby don't wrestle or play fight at all. Now my sister in law and my husbands brother do alot and someone always ends up hurt or really mad..same goes for my brother and his girlfriend..things start out fun..then end up big fights and someone is sleeping in the dog house a few days..
• United States
13 Sep 09
We've never gotten in a real fight after messing around. We both realize that if a boo boo happens, it was totally accidental. And if one of us starts getting ticked off over something, that's when we stop so it doesn't turn into a real fight.
@mtdewgurl74 (18118)
• United States
14 Sep 09
You totally go about it the right way then..I wish they would do that around here..lol it can get scary sometimes if I am at their house when they go at it I am all up for leaving because things really do start to fly...things get broken and then they get mad and then break something of the other persons even if it was an accident..
@cynthiann (18619)
• Jamaica
11 Sep 09
[b][/b][b]MAYBE I TOLD YOU THIS STORY BEFORE? I MAY BE HAVINGA BLONDE MOMENT! MY HUSBAND WAS IN TOWN AND i RE ARRANGED THE BEDROOM FURNITURE. before HE LEFT WE HAD A LITTLE TIFF SO i WASN'T SPEAKING TO HIM. SO WHEN HE CAME IN FROM TOWN LATE IN THE NIGHT HE OBVIOUSLY WANTED TO MAKE UP AFTER THE LITTLE TIFF. HE ENTERED THE HOUSE AND UNDRESSED IN TH BATHROOM AND THEN CAME TO OUR BEDROOM. HE CALLED MY NAME SOFTLY AND I RESPONDED. HE THEN TOOK A RUNNING LEAP AND JUMP IN THE DARK TO WHERE HE THOUGHT THE BED WAS. BUT I HAD MOVED IT. SO HE LANDED ON TH FLOOR. HE BARELY SPOJKE TO ME UNTIL THE BRUISES STOPPED HURTING. I LAUGHED AND LAUGHED AND HE WAS MAD AT ME. OMG I HAVE TYPED IN CAPITALS. AH WELL. NO TIME TO RETYPE. HOPE THAT YOU LIKED MY STORY[/b]
@cynthiann (18619)
• Jamaica
11 Sep 09
The heat is getting to me. Not only did I type in caps but somehow put it in bold. Deffinitely a blonde moment. Will proabbly be offline for the weekend as am going to town for a wedding
• United States
11 Sep 09
You did tell me that story before, but it's still funny to read it again! Have a good time at the wedding.
@dawnald (84146)
• Shingle Springs, California
11 Sep 09
I prefer not to play fight actually. No accidental injuries just a wee bit of slight pain from being held too tightly or whatever. He can play fight with the kids. They like it...
• United States
11 Sep 09
Yep, mine all get rough housing with him too. I usually join in. It's lots of fun.
@mommaj (22894)
• United States
12 Sep 09
I can't play fight with mine. The doctor I take my autistic son to doesn't want him to see violence because he feels it might encourage him when he gets frustrated. I don't know if it will or not, but I know I really don't want him "fighting" even play fighting because he may hurt someone. He's going to be a big boy. My family the guys are all six feet or taller. I would hate to have to explain as he gets older that he is just "playing" when the other kids don't know that. LOL Worse, I would hate to have to break it up. He looks like he is going to be pretty tough.
@Opal26 (17690)
• United States
12 Sep 09
Hey kats! That can be a very dangerous thing to do! My bf and I play fight sometimes and I am always the one who ends up getting hurt! He never realizes that he is way stronger then me and that I bruise very easily! And then I get really angry and when I try to beat him up I still get hurt! So I try not to have to hit him because I still get hurt and he never does!
• United States
12 Sep 09
Sounds familiar! That's why I go for his sensative areas!
@twoey68 (13651)
• United States
11 Sep 09
Hubby and I don't play fight. I bruise too easily and I have physical abuse issues from a previous marriage. [b]~~AT PEACE WITHIN~~ **STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS**[/b]
• United States
11 Sep 09
Sorry to hear that. I've always been a little too playful, but I only "fight" him when I'm in a silly mood, never when I'm upset.
@jesssp (2742)
• Canada
11 Sep 09
A long time ago when we were still in high school I accidentally hurt him pretty bad. Well, made him hurt himself is more accurate! We were watching a movie and he was leaning over the end of his bed fiddling with the VCR when I started to tickle his feet. He went to reach behind himself to shoe me away and he ended up slamming his elbow into the wooden bed frame really, REALLY hard. It was a lot worse than the typical funny bone feeling and it was numb and tingly for a long time. He actually ended up going to the doctor about it. He says that it still hurts sometimes and is convinced that it's 'nerve damage'.
• United States
11 Sep 09
You cannot be blamed for that one, it's totally his fault!! Good story though.
@jillhill (37383)
• United States
11 Sep 09
SInce I don't have a hubby I'd have to say no....but when the kids were growing up on Sunday after church we would have a big lunch and watch Kung fu theater after it.....well usually that ended up with our own version of kung fu and there were several related injuries! LOL
• United States
11 Sep 09
Ahhh... such wonderful memories! LOL
@ersmommy1 (12600)
• United States
23 Oct 09
Well hubby and I don't play fight. But one night my hubby was having a really bad dream. And I got kicked hard. I woke up with a BRUISE! That is really the closest he has ever come to hurting me.
• United States
22 Oct 09
The only sort of play fighting that my husband and I do is a bit of tickling or he will try to pick me up and fake toss me but it never works. There has never been any situation where we have hurt one another playing around. My husband and I have been together close to 11 years now and through those 11 years then has only been one time when we argued and it was because of an outside situation and not something between us and in that time there wasn't any hurting we just raised our voices at one another for about 10 minutes and that was it. We have always been able to talk to one another openly and that is what has helped us stay and keep our relationship strong plus fighting has never accomplished anything.
@bunnybon7 (37707)
• Holiday, Florida
9 Oct 09
hey my first hubby used to want to do that and once he was twirling me round and round and we both fell. my back hurt so bad for days that after that i would never play fight again with any man. even if he looked like he was going to i'd say NO!
• Philippines
8 Oct 09
In my case I'll say no, me and hubby play fight a lot and the worst is most of the time I'm the one who started the fight. We been married for almost 8 years now but even single hit I didn't experince it. Before we got married he promise me two things he would love me forever and never hurt me. As of now he's holding his promise. I'm so lucky with my hubby!
@ravinskye (8242)
• United States
13 Sep 09
We play fight some and tickle fight even more. Usually there are some injuries but usually just hurts a few minutes. And usually it is him lol. I tend to hit him in the "right spot" by accident and he is hurting for a few minutes. i think it is fun to be playful like that. And i love the way my husband laughs when we do it.
• Philippines
12 Sep 09
For 10 years of being together, we fight only once when i scolded my daughter that accidently i spank her, i got so panicked when my hubby also scolded me. That was the time that serious fight happens between us. Good thing that there's no physical injuries.
@xannebull (1806)
• Philippines
12 Sep 09
yeah we do it a lot, play fight is our favorite past time because we enjyed it a lot. we were just like kids, but we just make sure that nobody gets hurt seriously and so far nothing has hurt. but if do, i think that it will be patch up as soon as possible because it's just a play fight and not really a true fight between husband and wife.
@syankee525 (6294)
• United States
12 Sep 09
not like that.. that's crazy... i wouldnt even think about playing around with my wife like that knowing i could hurt her, by accident or not
• Melbourne, Australia
12 Sep 09
Let me put it this way. I ended up spending 2 weeks at home with a black eye that I got tired of explaining for & people giving my husband dirty looks about. It did look like he had beaten me up...but it was in fact a result of play figting that will never happen again.
@Rainegurl (2158)
• Philippines
12 Sep 09
hi, katsmeow. I do not dare play fight with my husband. He's far larger than I am. Too solid that I certainly would not win He steps on my toes every now and though and even accidentally hit my eye with his elbow once. I also closed a car door hard on his hand. There was a lot of blood. I panicked then because aside from being guilty, I know he is terrified with blood Have a nice day!
@erikmama (12929)
• United States
12 Sep 09
Me and my now ex were play fighting one day and I accidently hit him really hard in the stomach. it was am istake i did not meant o hit him hard. But I hit him so hard it bent him down and took his breath away. So in return he hit me in the stomach back. AND IT HURT more than anything I have ever felt. I dont think we play fiht much after that!!
@pandayu (18)
• China
12 Sep 09
Hi, dear, i think maybe you should have more communication with him and tell him that the fight will hurt you not noly of your body but also of your heart. If you want to last the relationship, good communication is a must, which is just i did several days ago. i found a completed communication would be better to both of family members.
• United States
12 Sep 09
Im in a different type of relationship so its not really fighting but wrestling around does come into play. Not that big a deal but i like alittle pain makes me feel grounded or type of focus. Really no serious injuries that i can remember.