Arguments

@sedel1027 (17846)
Cupertino, California
November 13, 2006 9:57pm CST
Is there a subject that your significant other/fiance/husband got frustrated with you over and refused to talk about that was something huge to you, but not so big to them? How did you get around it? If you cou;dn't work it out, what did you do?
4 responses
@greenmango (1019)
• Philippines
3 Dec 06
her being late always
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
3 Dec 06
Do you do anything to help her to not always be late?
• United States
17 Nov 06
There are few things we have different opinions so I just start the conversation like " I know you dont want to hear it or talk about but I really want you to listen" for my hubby, it usually works.
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
17 Nov 06
That works? Wow. Normally when I start off like that, my fiance automatically closes his ears.
@sutan74 (1112)
• Philippines
16 Nov 06
Well, there are so many things that my husband and I argued about. Like finances for example, we often argue where our money should be spent first. At home we also argue about his ways of littering his things all over the place and my being so forgetfull. As for the kids, since I am at home I feel like I'm the disciplinarian while he is so lax in dealing with our kids.
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
17 Nov 06
Thankfully, we don't argue about finances. After the bills are paid money is pretty much at anyones discreition unless we know we have a major event - like Christmas - coming up. We are much more careful with money around times like those.
• United States
14 Nov 06
Yes, arguements about how our money is spent and how the kids are disciplined. We have a hard time finding a compromise
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
14 Nov 06
Do you find a way to compromise though?