What the biggest turn off a guy or girl can do while on date?

United States
September 13, 2009 9:42am CST
Talking about ex relationships can be a turnoff while on a date. I also hate it when on date and they start talking about themselves as if they were the best person on the earth. I also had it when they start talking about what they have. I think boasting makes a person look bad and could also make another feel bad for something they don't have. It's not respecting your date when you do these types of things. Some people try to impress other by doing stuff like on date but if they only knew how big of a turn off it is.
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5 responses
13 Sep 09
I was on a date with a guy who kept complaining about women being stupid. I mean, he hadn't really given me a chance at that point. Not only did he keep offending me, but he then put his hand on my knee, so I asked him to leave. He didn't have a chance!
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@lumenmom (1996)
• United States
13 Sep 09
To me the biggest turn off is for a guy to come to you before he even knows anything about you. I can't stand to be talking to a guy, thiking we are having a good conversation and then realize he is thinking of how he can get something physical out of me. As soon as I spot it, for me it's over. Now it's different of the feelings are mutual and you dig each other like that very early on. I am not like that, I'm slwo burner and would like to get to know you better as a person first.
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@prinzcy (5058)
• Malaysia
14 Sep 09
The biggest turn off is when we thought we're having a good time, suddenly he started talking about his ex. That is so irritating. Worse, he start reminiscing the good old days. What's the point of dating me when he need to bring that subject up. Instead of I am spending a pointless time there, he better pick up the phone and call that woman for a date. They can pick up wherever they left behind because I am leaving.
@stephcjh (32328)
• United States
14 Sep 09
I think one of the biggest tunr offs is when they start talking about their ex and how much fun they had and what they used to do etc. It is rude of them to talk and never let you get a word in also.
@ladyhope (377)
• Canada
13 Sep 09
I hate when people talk with their mouth full! It would be such a huge turn off. I also agree that talking about an ex or about themselves is also terrible date discussion!