Can this work-out?

Philippines
September 13, 2009 10:33am CST
When there is not TRUST, but there is LOVE, can this work-out? What do you think,I just really need your opinions... :-?
3 responses
@asweetie (1187)
• India
16 Sep 09
hi asthonjohn, i want to eat my cake but i dont want calories. Is this possible. Love and trust are two tyres of a bike. These are like you left and right hand. They can never exist alone in true sense. If you dont trust then you donot love. Love can never be suspicious. Love is trusting and letting your partner glow in that trust and love. Love never puts restrictions on the loved ones. If you love someone from heart, it touched that person's heart but would the heart of that person feel touched if she knows you are thinking what is she doing behind my back. how many beds is she warming up? never she would feel humiliated and insulted. So before learning to love a person should learn to trust. Only insecure person love and dont trust and we all know the insecure person soon become ex.
• United States
13 Sep 09
NO, absolutely and definitely not. Love, trust and therefore honesty are all connected and are very important things to have in a relationship. If you cannot trust someone you will always be wonderng when they are going to lie next and were they really where they said they were and how do I know they are telling me the truth. Eventually, you will resent them and all of the stress that they have caused in your life. I have been through this and it is not a good relationship to have.
• India
13 Sep 09
Well, to be really honest. You can not love some one if you dont trust them. Yes you may think you are in love or just want to believe that you are in love with that person. What i could never do is love someone if i dont trust the person. If i dont that means there is something wrong and that means he or she lie's. So where is the love then. There has to be complete and total faith to make a relationship work and for you to love somone.