What's the best way to you relax yourself

@Ruby722 (798)
China
September 14, 2009 7:49pm CST
Life is hard and complicate.We live in a high tech world and a high speed rhythm city.We always feel tired from work ,study,life details,relationship.Whatever.So what is the best way that you relax yourself .In my opinion tired of sitting in front of the computer whole day.I want to lie on the couch make a couple of coffee reading my favourite book or listening the radio.It really make me feel comfortable and peaceful.I know everyone have different mathod to relax.Like take a SPA,Liste music,do some sport,shopping,take a walk.So would you love to tell me what's you secret way to relax.I would be appreciate you share. Have a nice day...My lotter
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30 responses
@aprces (1083)
• China
15 Sep 09
So long as we can balance our life well,then I think there doesn't exist the way of relaxing If we are finding something that can relax us,is that means there has another opposite which give us uncomfort.Maybe it's empty,maybe it's stress or maybe something you can't make it clear. Why we can't deal with ourselves better,Go for learning about some stuff of GTD system?it really can control us well? In the most of time,our brain is unconscious,give it some detailed goals,thus,in order to make our brain run more efficiently and soberly.Brain is brain,you are you,although your brain is yours,we must learn how to optimize it day by day
• Philippines
15 Sep 09
Whoa! I love your idea. What a wonderful idea. I agree with you.
@Ruby722 (798)
• China
16 Sep 09
Hi there Of course you do have a good piont,But anyway in this world most of human including me .I think a lot of people can't control ourselves very well.If everyone can control themslves very well.There will no war, no quarrel,no fight ,any more right? but the thing is we are human.we need find another way to relax balance our life.
• Malaysia
8 Oct 09
Hi Ruby, the best way I use to relax myself is by watching my favourite tv programme-korean drama. Everytime after I read book, I will relax myself by watch these interesting drama.
@Ruby722 (798)
• China
2 Dec 09
Yeah .I like Korean drama too.
• Australia
15 Sep 09
Hello, I enjoy reading a good book,or sleeping in front of my wood fire when I have the spare time. I find the heat warm and comforting. I also find gardening a great way to relax. If I am feeling tense or angry I find pulling up weeds helps me to release the tension I am feeling. On a warm sunny day I will sit outside with a coffee and just listen to nature and let my mind roam free. This feels really good. I try and do these things as often as I can.
@Ruby722 (798)
• China
16 Sep 09
Hi Gardening right? I like gardening.But i do have a poor workmanship. Good luck and thanks for your responding.
• India
15 Sep 09
hi ruby, its very interesting title i never came cross. in this world, every body got tried in their doing work , education and etc. so every one should relax their self by doing some thing else. whenever i feel some hard or tough, then suddenly i go for relax by the way of going to church and hearing good melodies songs from my home. and taking good food and sleep for a long, after that i go for my normal tied working life. that what i enjoying my life.
@Ruby722 (798)
• China
16 Sep 09
Well.It jsut come into my mind.Hope you like it.Thanks for you responding
@lcainiao (201)
• China
15 Sep 09
I'm working at a call center and working as a call agent. If you know the call center industry you should know the pressure is very hard. 6 days in one week and 30 calls in one day, nearly 200 calls in one week. My customer satfaction target is 90% and the first call close rate must meet the 82%. When I felt that I can't stand the pressure, I always go swimming in a swimming pool or play guitar in my room. Of course, talking with others is also the good manner for relax.
@Ruby722 (798)
• China
16 Sep 09
oH.Ture it is.Call center worker must be very tense.You need service a lots of costomer as you can right? the telephone just ringing and ringing.If it was me i think i can't take this job.It's really hard.
@beaushell (339)
• Philippines
15 Sep 09
My favorite way of relaxation is watching a good and inspiring movie with my husband. Movies that makes us laugh is my personal favorite. For me laughing out loud is a great way to relax and have fun. Another way is having our favorite coffee in our favorite coffee house and just having a chat with my husband. We especially love the peaceful ambiance of the coffee house and the privacy we enjoy in that place. Third way could be just lying down in our bed with my husband, sometimes reading a book together or just hearing his stories for the day.
@Ruby722 (798)
• China
16 Sep 09
I'd like the kind of way you did.Sometime you just watching a funny show after work when you arrive home and get some cookies.sitting on the cough.Make a good pose whatever you like make you comfortable and watching the funny show.And then you are laughing out louder.Haha.you find out the tired was gone.
@greenline (14865)
• Canada
15 Sep 09
Hello Ruby. Yes, the days can be very long and very stressful. We need to have breaks to relax. My favorite way to relax is listening to classical music and easy listening music. I listen to those music just about every evening after I get back home from work. That's very relaxing and excellent way to get rid of all the stresses of the day ! I would then be well prepared to go for a nice relaxing sleep.
@Ruby722 (798)
• China
16 Sep 09
Yeah.You are right..Thanks for you respoding
@Frederick42 (2020)
• Canada
15 Sep 09
The best way to relax oneself is to sit quietly, doing nothing. Whenever you do something, you are bound to feel tense. Even if you like what you are doing, you cannot avoid stress and tension. It is only when we sit still can we really feel relaxed.
@Ruby722 (798)
• China
16 Sep 09
Yeah.Everyone have different opinion.I have to admit be quietly is also a good way to makfe yourself relax.Whatever the way is.The important thing is the can make it work.Am i right?
@Hatley (163813)
• Garden Grove, California
15 Sep 09
hi ruby hatley here. I relax and get ready for bed and I listen to a ton of Mozarts piano and flute and violin sonatas, they are soothing and exciting and just wonderful to listen to. classical music always'soothes me and I love the old beatles songs too they are'just wonderful, really wonderful. i love music so much. When I am uptight I sometimes listen to some good jazz and hum along its another way to relax. sometimes I like to curl up and read a good book thats also relaxing to me.
@Ruby722 (798)
• China
16 Sep 09
Hi Hately. Well .I love classical music too as you said they always can soothes people soul Sometime you just listening the music.You will find out everything is so nice and you will feel peaceful right? I like this feeling~
• India
29 Oct 09
Hi Ruby.... When i get tired, i mostly go to sleep or listen to music. But of all i like going to beach,sitting there watching the sea, sun, sky...It is the only place where i feel world comes to a steady, northing running, northing rushing...cool, calm, peacefull... Take care
• Egypt
11 Oct 09
sit in a comfortable place and leave everything does not thing of anything in life . Find your head is empty. start breathing deep. Deep inhalation and exhalations quietly and you find rest and activity. continued per day, or in spare time
@EliteUser (3971)
• Australia
1 Oct 09
Hey, Well the best way to actually relax myself is to turn on the computer and sometimes reply to discussions on myLot, that helps me to get relaxed. Then I either play Age of Empires 3 online, or watch YouTube videos. Make sure you have a good day, God bless and Happy Lotting!!
@EliteUser (3971)
• Australia
19 Sep 09
Hey, I would say the the best way to relax myself would be to just open up my computer and just have a browse on YouTube about some funny videos, or something that will make me laugh. Also MyLot is pretty relaxing too. Make sure you have a good day, Happy Lotting!!
@berith (27)
• Philippines
16 Sep 09
We're almost the same ruby.. I also love to read books, it's a form of relaxation for me... Every time I read books, its as if my mind is beginning to bring me into a different world... I also love listening to classical and mellow music. it pulls out the stress and nerve racking moments in my body...
@veejay19 (3592)
• India
16 Sep 09
Everybody has a different way to relax and de-stress himself/herself. There are many methods befitting ones nature so one cannot standardize them. Personally i like to read books and since 20 years or so i read only spiritual books which calm me down and take me to a different plane altogether. I also like to listen to music and that too soft music and classical too.This definitely relaxes me to a great extent.One of the best methods of relaxatio which i did for about 4 years when i was woking in one of the Gulf countries was to look at the night sky studded with stars, planets and constellations. I would look at them through binoculars and telescope and feel greatly calmed down.
@fabbie (3)
15 Sep 09
I like to soak myself in a bath of warm water with my favourate bath salts and radox and just lie there and forget everything for that short time .I find my bath soak very relaxing.I feel as if the water helps my body to relax .I also make sure i have my favourate drink with me there.
@Bloggership (1118)
• Indonesia
15 Sep 09
Things in this world does consuming our energies and we need to be saved from a stressed and depressed feelings... Self relaxations becomes our mind and body demands after so much activities in long of hours... Sleeping is the best to relax for me... hehe
@Bluepatch (2481)
• Trinidad And Tobago
15 Sep 09
I read or pray but the best way is to sit out on the porch with a drink and a book or newspaper. Where I live is on the 3rd floor of an apartment building and I have a view of a valley with tall trees and cultured lawns with pretty flowers. At night you see all the lights and the cars moving on the road below. That's the best.
• Germany
15 Sep 09
If I was personally the best way to relax is by using "brainwave". By selecting the program to enter the mind of natural beta, alpha, to theta. A lot of music that can we choose according to our needs. Regards, elhadiry
@ravich (243)
• India
15 Sep 09
the best way we can relax is to have a comfortable positioning with a fresh breath and pleasant mind with fresh smelled perfume and pleasant cool air with dim light.