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Hey, I dont really know what u mean by better luck next time? . Well I really dont want to accept that I was molested and he got away..lol. I hope he wasnt sick and wanted help. If that was the case, I would have loved to help him. I respect old people and we all should think twice before making fun of an old man. After all we all are going to reach that age some day. Cheers, Tutul

Hi, Yes definately he was feeling comfortable with me . I scared him other wise i dont know what he had stored for me, lol. Well yes i need good luck and hopefully dont meet anyone like that again. Cheers, Tutul

What I meant by better luck next time is, hopefully next time it will be someone that you like or find attractive! lol.. I wouldn't say you got molested, he just felt comfortable... Or maybe a little to comfortable with you!

Hi ranvir, As u r a male, I dont understand u being scared of such people. Instead of getting scared u could have told yr parents, or some one like yr elder brother or even a friend. If u guys ignore such things its not going to solve the problem. If u had slapped that guy then and there it could have solved problems of so many other victims. If i find some one touching even not me , an another person I have the courage to ask him to stop, and if still he is not stopping then probably knock him down. We all have some moral responsibilities and we got to fulfill it. Avoiding and scaring away wont do any good. Cheers, Tutul

Hi ranvir, Well sorry to know that u were shy to share your problems with others. But hopefully u have changed now and can solve your problems on your own. Taking help of some one doesnt make any one small, so please do take proper help from right authroities whenever needed. Like you i have respect for old people too. Not only old people I have respect for every one. But then if iam not respected, there is no meaning of respecting others. When i was starting this discussion I had this feeling that, should I start such a discussion? It may hurt a lot of mylotters as many of them are in that age range. But now after reading so many responses of being molested, I think i have made the right decision. Cheers, Tutul

Hi Tutul, I might have specified in my previous discussion that i was so introvert in childhood. Sorry i forgot to specify here. I have lots of respect towards older people and that respect always stop me to behave like you say. I don't what type of person I am which growing defect has made me like this that I am today. Most of the times I think about it why I am like this. Due to my introvert nature I face many problems. Yes i am male but can't oppose just change my path. Have a nice day!!

Hi, Well iam not jumping into conclusions here. I would love to give him the benefit of doubt. MAy be he wanted some thign else. He was old and it is possible he wanted to get hold of something and then may be it was really his stop and he got down from the bus. So there are lots of if's and but's . Anyway just wanted to say I respect old people. I will help some one if he needs help and i will punish some one if he is trying to do some thing rubbish, lol. Cheers, Tutul

Hi ruby, Iam confused just like u. I dont want to bad mouth that man as iam not sure what he was upto. If he had some thing sinister iam angry that he got away. If he was sick and wanted some kind of help iam upset that i couldnt help him. Dont know really , it was an unusual evening for me. Cheers, Tutul

Hi, He liked me? Well everyone likes me . The thing is there are differant type of likings.. Cheers, Tutul

Hmmm.. he wanted to do some thing, like what? Would u like to share?

Hi, If that was the case, then i was lucky. But honestly i dont think he was looking to steal some thing. Y would a theif rub yr leg before stealing anything? The only thing which concersn me is he could be sick and wanted some kind of help or some thing. May be he wasnt feeling good and wanted some thing to hold and in the process rubbed my thighs. Hmm..its all assumptions and i will never get to know the truth Cheers, Tutul

Hi med, That’s so awful to hear. As a friend I request you not to take such incidents lightly. U should report such people to the cops. U never know whom they will target next. Avoiding them is not the solution. Think about the innocent victims he may target next time. It reminds me of an incident in which I was involved in my teen age. Me with my other friend was traveling in a very empty train. Now there was a girl reading some thing and also there was a psycho man sitting. That man went to the girl and started to bite her hand. The poor girl started to scream in pain and for help. My friend who himself is quite a character punched that psycho and we both threw him out from the moving train. Whenever I recall that incident, I feel very uncomfortable but somewhere down the line I think we did the right thing. We saved an innocent soul being harassed. So please be strong next time and slap the guy hard, if anyone tries to touch u inappropriately. Cheers, Tutul

Hi dori Well i narrated this incident to my friend whom i was meeting that day. And he is such a prankster pulled my leg entire evening. I really invited trouble by saring this incident to him. Well it was really a funny and unusual evening. Cheers, Tutul

Hi jen, Thats awful. I dont understand ignoring such incidents. Dont u guys think a lot worse can happen if some one innocent falls prey to such molestors. Just becoz u got away doesnt mean everyone will in the future. It may spoil some ones life. Its our moral duty to report such people. Plz do it next time. Cheers, Tutul

Hi, Look iam not sure whether he ran away from me or he really wanted to get down in that stop. The way he looked at me , it was like he was surprised and then wanted to move away from me. May be it was the stop he wanted to get down. So Iam only assuming and cant get into any conclusions.. lol Anyway I told this incident to my friend whom i was supposed to meet and he was rolling in the floor laughing Cheers, Tutul

Hi, Hmm... i dont think he was a theif. Y would a theif let a person know that he wants to steal something by keeping his hand on his thighs? Dont make sense to me. cheers, Tutul