would ending my life make her see the truth .....

hi helscream, don't do that.. .. i hate people doing that thing, or just thinking that thing.. that's not the solution on that problem, you are just making another problem or issue to both of you.. maybe you are down right now and you don't know what to do to let her come back to you.. but all i know is ending your life is not the solution to that, you are just making yourself a fool to her.. and don't let that happen, why did you end up thinking that thing?? what happen?? pls. explain. janebeth.

Okay..i have to be honest with you... maybe she's falling out of love... Do not put yourself in a situation whre she will belittle you... pick yourself up dear! if you have tried your best..and nothing can make her change her mind....maybe she doesn't really want to........ move on! Yeah i know it's easy to say...but hard to do.. I've been there..I even thought I was gonna die myself.. I almost took my own life many instances already... but guess what? i didn't... there's more to life than letting all my time and emotions revolve for only one person who doesn't return my love.... It is gonna hurt.... I know. But keep yourself busy and try to find new friends... keep your mind off her... it might still hurt in a few days... in a week..in a month... but if you think of it..it won't be as painful as it is the day you tried to move on... Time will heal

ending your life.. sounds like you want more revenge then anything. that's pretty selfish. I know you are down, and you probably dont want to hear what i have to say, but i was really depressed for a long time too, and it will get better. I dont know your situation, but if you move forward slowly instead of dwelling, your life will go on and you will feel better a little bit day by day. You wont believe me i know. i didn't believe it when people told me either. but.. you have to keep living. The thing is.. you'd probably hurt other people more then you'd hurt her, like your parents, siblings, friends that care for you, co-workers.. I think taking ones life is the easy and selfish way out. please dont take it lightly.

Hi bro it's been awhile since I've seen you around. I'm sure you are under stress and I'll take it that you don't mean what you said about killing yourself. What the others say are indeed true, no one is worth our lives. If they can't have that special trust reserved, then it's too bad for them and not for us.

Ending your life huh?Well,all i can say is that you will be the loser.Why take your life just because a person won't believe that you have a clear conscience?As long as you know the truth and other people don't believe that you can do such thing,why bother with one person who is so narrow minded?(Sorry for that) Please,try to think things over and Pray to God for guidance on what to do with this problem of yours.Talk always to some of your friends,i know they will be able to give you some sound advice. Take care and GOD BLESS!

Killing yourself would not solve this problem!! I see that you are trying to show her some how that you are serious and that you are telling her the truth..If you killed yourself the only thing that would change; is you are no longer here... It can be hard to deal with when someone just will not take your word for it; regardless of what others have said to the same person.. Question for you?? Have you tried to just let things calm down for a couple days.. And then try talking with her, when you both have a little time to sort things out within yourselves... Its not avoiding the problem, but taking a step back and looking at the situation... In some situations time is what heals those wounds of the heart... yes it will still be there the pain will be the same.. but may be if you both calm down and then talk; the two of you will really hear what the other is saying... it doesnt always work, but everything is worth a shot once..

such insensitivity is not worth giving away ones life... i don't what happened between you guys but dieing is never an option..you are also a part of someone else's life your mom dad your siblings..family so think about it ending your life is a very very bad way to make her realize

I you cannot think of anything to convince her that you were telling the her truth then maybe, you just ask her if what you need to do for her to believe that you are telling her the truth. Of course, she has her own ways for her to believe in you. Just do your best and show to her that you're not guilty. Show her that you are sincere and honest person. Now, if she still refuse to believe in you after all the things you have done, I guess you just need to stay out of her life until she realize that she's wrong. I think she knew how much you really love her and no matter how she'll hurt you, you will not leave her. Think about yourself also.. It doesn't mean that you love her, you need to put yourself down. Ending your life will only makes her think that your guilty and easily surrender with simple problem. Show to her that you're strong. Hope the best for you..

That's not the solution. Just accept the fact, move on and have a better life. If it matters about love life, there are many fishes in the ocean. There are other things for her to believe in you but not taking your life away because one mistake can never be solve by another mistake.

No, this is definately not the way to make anyone see the truth in our words. The fact of the matter is, if she wanted to believe you, she would. Chances are, whatever you need her to know, deep down, she already knows, but she may need time to think about the matter. You may be hurting right now, but take it from smeone who has been there, if you simply move forward for yourself, things will be mch better in the end and they really do worl out for the best. Right now, I think that you should focus on yourself. You obviously care deeply about his woman, but for whatever reason, she is having trouble accepting something that you feel she should accept. Let me tell you, the last thing you want to do is to hurt yourself or anyone in your life that you love and takign your life will only accompish that. You would leave behind you many grieving people with many unanswered questions, and it would not accompish anyhting good at all. Try putting some space between you and this woman for a while. Leave it in her hands and tell her that if and when she is ready to talk, you may or may not have the time to listen. Simply put, take time out, move forward with your own life and if/when she is ready to talk about things, then, make the decision as to whether you really want to listen and talk or not. In my case, by the time he was ready to talk, I had figured out just how much better off I really was without him in my life. I am so much happier as a result even though it was a hard thing for me to go through at the time.

This is not the solution to make someone realized what she has done, why don't you think positively and act reasonably too because the girl is immature and you cannot let yourself be carried away because she is acting childishly. Just do not talk to her some days and you will see how she realizes everything.

No one is worth ending your life for as long as you know the truth why even bother.You may care for this person,i am sure you will find someone else that cares for you rather than you just care for that person.You may even find that the person you care about may find out the truth and then wants to say sorry.Give it time i am sure you will feel different or they will in a few days.

A man experiencing scorching heat would most certainly say that the most important thing in the world is water. A man drowning at sea would quickly say it is air that makes life worth living. For you HelScream, it just seems to hurt because you see that person as the most important.. at least, for the moment. However it feels right now, it's just like anything else: fleeting, temporary, changing. Nothing as simple as this is worth ending one's life.

I'm trying to find a way to convince you that we're here only temporarily (a life time!). If she doesn't understand you nor accept your apologies or explanations, then let it be... she's not the right person for you and nor worthy of your love. You better let her go and take your precious time to find someone more suitable for you rather than wasting your life for her! There are many more others who are even worthier of your love! So cheer up, look forward and march on, soldier!

Well, actually....no. It will convince her that you were a nut job and so glad she didn't get too mixed up with you. I don't exactly think that's what you're out to accomplish.

Hi HelScream, Please, ending your life is not the answer, nothing is worth that. Take things one day at a time and see if she learns the truth, but never, ever, consider ending your life. There is always another way. Blessings.

Ending your life will only prove, that you had one! If you haven't convinced her by now, you never will. Time to move on my friend, she is not worth losing your life over. cd

hi helscream, you're honestly love this girl that you really feel upset and even thinking to cut off your life, which a terrible sin to do. Life is a gift from God and he is the only one who have the right to cut it. At present you are really very emotional, hence no advices would really relieve what you are being experience now. However, you still have more life ahead of yours, and if this girl are not easily forgiving type. I must say she really have a cold heart, and a person like you could not be proven guilty unless supported with credible evidence. In your cases you insisting on your innocence which the girl should accept you when she see no evidences. A true love wait, forgives and forgets. Why making the day longer in sorrow, when both mind and hearts shouts for the two of you to reunite? No need to take it longer as you just both suffer but once she open her hearts again to you it would be endless happiness for both of you.

women are really hard to understand.sometimes we don't say what we really feel or think.your girlfriend maybe just want you to feel more guilty if you done wrong to her.just give her time to realize on her own that you're saying the truth. sometimes, the more you want to please her,the more she ignores you.

Its not the solution that would make her believe on all that your saying. Ending ones life will never put an end to what ever your issues are. It would only make things so complicated. So my friend live your life, no matter what difficulties there in its the essence of life.