How do you feel when you get hurted by your love?

You need to realize that you are doing this to yourself. No matter what someone else does, we are each responsible for our own reaction. We also do nothing without personal gain even if it is negative. Maybe you just need to dissect the situation. I always make list, pros and cons. Somehow the truth always sneaks into the items I list even without my knowledge, it may be painful but then I can deal with the real thing not just the symptoms. Blessings

I have heard a lot of similar stories. Fortunately I am on the other side of the bridge and so I won't be able to give much input.

When I am hurted by a love of course we feel lonely. We feel sorry for ourselves by failing with love. We can’t eat, we can’t think of our selves. We make it hard by crying everytime we remember it. We suffer a lot from a broken heart. What we have to do if that happen is clearly to move on from the pain. We only suffer, our vital organs will suffer. The best way is to cry it out all for whole night and let yourself live after. Eventhough its hard, you have to forget it and go on with your life. We accept we made a choice about love and we have to make a choice again to go out from it. Just take it as a part of a lesson in life for sure will learned from it and grow.

hi satish .. there is much more in life than love and girls ... you have just started your journey into life ... i wish you all the best and do not come across much more pain then this .. i have gone across many .. i have walked on the fire, on the ice and on the stones ... now when i have to go tru something, i just tell myself that it is only 2 or 3 days and back to normal cheers

when i get so depressed just because my partner hurts me, i just do all the girl stuffs just for me to look beautiful... :) i don't waste my time ruining myself.

i will feel very sad and very lonely if my bf cheat on me.since i am not deserving to be treated like that.i hate liars and dishonesty in a relationship.

I feel sad and it hurts alot when someone that I love, hurts me. I give them my heart and soul and I expect the same in return from them. It makes me want to cry sometimes when they hurt me because I do not deserve it and would never hurt them.

I do not feel anything when I get hurt by love. If am in true love with somebody, then I have to give that person total freedom. If that person cheats me, that is also fine. The reason why many people feel painful about love which fails is because of the tendency to possess the other.

Yes I feel hurt. Cannot bear the pain as he is the most important person in my life and so cannot take it. But the best thing to overcome this is to forgive him. Life has to go on...

I donno how i feel because i still didn't get my love so far.So living happily now.I donno in the future..Hope i get soon...;)

being hurt by the one we loved is like being stabbed with a knife and poured with vinegar right directly in our open heart. this feeling is so indescribable that everything seemed to stop and you just right there left alone going nowhere. the feeling is very strange its like everything is against you.