why can't they hold their pants?

@nuemann (332)
United States
September 20, 2009 6:53pm CST
I meet some nice girls that I get on a level of respect and friendship which might lead to romance, but in the end I want to maintain the relationship on a neutral level from that but when they meet my showy friends, with loads of cash to spill, they just broke and give in to their advances and the next thing, they are in bed and that kills me every time. I am not bothered though but it kills something inside about women generally. I need advice and suggestion to stop the thing that is eating me up.
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• Australia
21 Sep 09
And you put this all down to "loads of cash to spill"? Perhaps your problem lies right there. Maybe a new perception of what actually is happening might give you an answer. Lash
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@sharra1 (6342)
• Australia
21 Sep 09
I quite agree. The problem may well lie in his perception. I am wondering just what he means by a 'neutral' relationship. If he keeps the girls at a distance they may assume that he is not interested and seek elsewhere.
@nuemann (332)
• United States
21 Sep 09
Well spilling the cash shouldn't be for the for the fun for it. If you think because you are woman, a man has to always foot the bills then you better do a reality check and start thinking like a human than a woman. A man and a woman relationship should be something that should be mutual. take control of things like a living being and not see yourself like a weakling or a second fiddle. Fend for yourself and try to be independent so that the majority of the decisions you make should be something that appeals not only to your heart but to your role as a mutual benefactor.
@lilaclady (28240)
• Australia
21 Sep 09
I say it is their loss, unfortunately some people don't realize the things that they should appreciate until they are older..one day you will meet someone that appreciates you for what counts...you.
@nuemann (332)
• United States
21 Sep 09
Thank you very much but waiting for that particular person seems a task that is very daunting. What I do not understand is why they can just say this is what I want and stick to that for real! I realize that most are actually the cause of thr tears that they sometimes shed. Nothing is wrong with being them...Jesus was tempted but holding back is something that someone should be telling the female folks. you have a life with money, children, a man or not its a life of choices and decisions that they should make be able to stick to.