Mood Preferences When Success is at bay

Thiruvananthapuram, India
September 21, 2009 5:02am CST
All of us desire to gain phenomenal success in our chosen field of activity.We strive hard to bring our dreams to fruition.But when things go haywire and success is rather kept at bay, sudden shifts in behavioral patterns gain ground.The best option in such state of affairs seem to be trying to accept defeat and hoping to gain success as and when it comes.If success evades it is evident that you are destined to accept defeats.So why not realize the grim realities of DESTINY.......
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6 responses
• India
19 Oct 09
Hello my friend sukumar794 Ji, I do agree with existance of 'Fate & Destiny', but one should never be idling that fate will come and do its own way. Everyone has to be mobile, and keep trying by working hard enough to reach to goal. Nothing will come without doing and making best efforts. May God bless You and have great time.
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@whyaskq (7532)
• Singapore
23 Sep 09
It would be futile to keep accepting defeats in the hope of gaining success. What is more important, I feel, is to be able to accept defeat, learn from it and captialise on it to garner a ray of hope, even if it is only a gleam.
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@paula27661 (15899)
• Australia
22 Sep 09
I guess it is a matter of accepting what is and realising that sometimes a failure is not a failure at all but a stepping stone to something better. It is hard to let go of results and allow whatever is the best thing for us to manifest; I think the problem is that we often get into our own way while trying to achieve our desires.
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• United States
21 Sep 09
putting your hopes in the things of this world will inevitably leave you grim.
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@catdla1 (6005)
• United States
21 Sep 09
I think a lot depends on how we view defeats, which are part of every path to success. Everyone experiences some defeat along the way. Some people stop at the defeat, and can't get beyond it, those are the people who ultimately lose, blaming their fate on defeat. Other people look at the defeat to learn whatever lesson it teaches, and keep going. Those are the people who will ultimately win. Just as we learn from success, we also learn from defeat. Defeats that we all encounter from time to time are not the end of our story. They are only the stepping stone towards the next chapter.
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@zandi458 (27952)
• Malaysia
21 Sep 09
If our desires are not granted in a timely manner, anger, tension, and desperation will arise, and finally we will lose all heart and accept defeat. We should adhere to our Divine Maker that we, His children, learn to fine-tune our understanding of His timing. We must learn to accept that the Creator gives according to His own schedule, regardless of our demands. When we learn God's timing, we learn to live and work in harmony with ourselves and others around us. Most importantly, we understand the art of communion with the silent voice of the universal will.
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