is it ok to fall to a man shorter than your height or not?

@amyson (3509)
Philippines
September 22, 2009 12:09am CST
for my experience i find a man attractive when he is more taller than me.but it is not the issues how to deal a man or who loves you and who will care take of you and understand your ways.for me it doesnt matter if the guy is shorter than my height for me if he loves me and i love him i will accept him.love cannot be measured with heights.do you prefer a man shorter that your height?
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31 responses
@aerous (13475)
• Philippines
24 Sep 09
I don't see any big deal whether you are short, small or tall in a relationship. what I know is that it is Love...not matter how it is big or small when love is all around and in your eyes...love's will gonna be happen. It is okay! my friend, height doesn't matter for love...
@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
11 Oct 09
yes,lol,definitely love comes around and why not accepting it...thanks for sharing.
@aerous (13475)
• Philippines
12 Oct 09
Love is all around. Thanks for your response with my comments. Have a nice day!
• Philippines
20 Oct 09
Yeah, and when it comes to love all are equals but the case is not yet close on me. The height differences should be a less inches not like a midget height as it would really look akcward on my cases so I do not like to become the object of laughter too. Thus, I prepare most of the times having a man with average height the same things with me.
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
24 Oct 09
yes midget is a way far.so there are also exception to the rules.
@nra091501 (176)
• Philippines
16 Oct 09
it's always a preference to have the man taller than the woman. i agree with you that it's not an issue when you fall in love to a man shorter than you. i am as tall(?) as my husband if i'm wearing flats. good thing i've always preferred flats than high heels i don't have to look down at him! :D
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
18 Oct 09
good for you,well,i wanted to be taller but asian are petite and small in heights.
@babyish13 (228)
• Philippines
11 Oct 09
when you're in love, nothing matters dear.
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
11 Oct 09
well,i am 100% agree with you lol,loves comes around..
@udnisak (610)
• Australia
11 Oct 09
yes my answer is YES.. it is so okay to fall to a man shorter than your height.. and for us (i represent men} it is okay to fall to a woman taller than our height.. if you love the person that is it... it is as simple as that... and i feel exciting to hang with a taller chick lol...
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
11 Oct 09
hehehe,good to pick lol,taller girls are such wonderful because it is advantageous most taaller girls are models and beautiful.i also wish that but unfortunately i am shorter lol..
@Eisenherz (2912)
• Portugal
26 Sep 09
Well, I don't think physical attributes should be limiting to what you feel for another person. At least not something like height. I'll even confess you something I might have already said far too many times before, but I do have the hots for 'em shorties ;)
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
3 Oct 09
well i know others have their preferences and qualification.
@sid556 (31018)
• United States
26 Sep 09
Heighth is just superficial. When you fall in love you are or should be looking for meaningful qualities. What does it matter on how you "look together". What really matters is on how you are together. Who cares if one is taller or shorter, one is big & the other small. None of that matters. it is how you get along and enjoy each other. Anyone that place too much importance on looks when choosing a partner has a limited capacity for love. They really do. Think about it. Looks can change just like that. An accident can disfigure someone. Things happen. Our looks change. We age, we gain weight, lose weight. It's life.
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
26 Sep 09
yes this will test the relationship if it is really can work it or not.it needs a lot of patience and understanding..
25 Sep 09
falling in love has no limits but for me imm not atrracted to short men this is because i am already short and if i will fall for a guy shorter than me i really can't imagine how our offspring would look like. and also we are like kids playing around.
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
26 Sep 09
well it depends on you.others do not matters it as long they love each other.it cannot be a problem.
• India
24 Sep 09
height doent matter ..the things which shud have seen in person ..how he cares fr u ,,is he giving timet to you..sharing good and bad with u..,mutual understanig..,giving respect to u or not..thez things mattrs not hte height ..like if a person iz veri tallbut his mind is in his knees so hw u make relationship with him..so things which mattrs r hw u both feeling about eachother..
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
yes how you feeling to each other,love is all matter in a relationship.
@ivygrey (550)
• Philippines
24 Sep 09
Most people would love to have a partner taller than them, yes I'm one of them, But my My husband is not taller than I am, We're just about the same height, I guess If he would be shorter than me, It would fine. I'm ok with that, Love is blind. It's like some beautiful women fall for ugly guys but it doesn't matter at all. It's the love..
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
24 Sep 09
yes i do believe love is blind.many people fall in love because cupid have done to make them fall in love.love is all around and you cannot prevent it and it will come to each one of us.
@flower21 (766)
• Philippines
22 Sep 09
all is fair in love. height or weight doesn't matter the importance you both love and understand each others despite the differences.
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
24 Sep 09
yes love do not measured how the person physically figures outside the important is they love each other and share many things in common.trust,love,fidelity,respect matters.
• China
22 Sep 09
In China, a saying is "for a man, tall covers up hundreds of shortcomings; for a woman, white skin covers up hundreds of shortcomings." For me, I don't pay special attention on it. If a man is in good shape, that's okay for me. The problem is if he is care about it or not, because I won't give up the high heels. Some men will be comfortable when being with a woman higher than him, especially walking or standing together, as it's so abvious. And frankly speaking, a woman usually seems taller than a man, if they are as same as tall each other. I don't know why indeed. Of course, a man who is tall is usually more popular!
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
24 Sep 09
well many women prefer the guys to be taller,they just only looking the outside looks but not into the inside.for me it does not matter i do not usually looks on the physical structures of a man i am very particular with the attitudes and how he is behaving.
@xchyler (258)
• Philippines
22 Sep 09
hi amyson good day! I think It's not the reason if you love somebody ,it doesn't matter if he taller than you or not ,the important is you love each other and respect each other GOD BLESS xchyler
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
22 Sep 09
HEHEHEHhi too same here,i do choose the person even his not taller than me lol,i want who can make me feel good by taking care of me and loving me unconditionally.
• United States
22 Sep 09
I used to want someone to be taller then me but now I am with someone who is shorter then me and I love my partner just the same. The insides are what counts the most but everyone does have their preference.
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
22 Sep 09
yes..well it does not a big issues for me even his not taller than me.but i do like a man who is midget..hehehehe lo...
@shajerrl (311)
• China
22 Sep 09
i think it doesn't matter for a girl if she really love that boy, but i am man and perhaps i don't have any confidence for my answer,,love should not be measured with height, money, or culture etc. and love without boundaris, if you love each other, everything is possible.
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
22 Sep 09
yes love cannot be measured with money or even beauty outsides.if i am gonna love a person i will have to take into consideration his inside heart,good heart..i find him very attractive too as well.
@buping (954)
• China
24 Sep 09
hi amyson, it is a classic question. many people asked me about this question, and my answer everytime is no. i need some one to love me and take care of me, as he is shorter than me, how could he protect me? but if shorter a little is ok, what i can not accept is that being short too much. that would be acward standing together.
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@Nobody4me (165)
23 Sep 09
I had an ex who is taller than me but it's okay because relationship really counts.
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@kitty42 (3912)
• United States
23 Sep 09
Hello I am tall so I don't want anyone shorter than me, I looks weird and I don't feel comfortable, some short men like tall woman not sure why, if I had my way I want him to be really tall Thank you.
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@oinkgiz (862)
• Singapore
23 Sep 09
hi, thanks for sharing this discussion... regarding to ur question, if i can fall for man shorter than my height?? well, my answer would be YES,. actually im realy attracted to a tall guy especially when i was much young.. but when i had a boy friend his not that tall, his just as my height, & its not my ideal guy... but of course height really doesnt matter in terms of love... the most important is that u both love each other... thanks again.. have a nice day and happy mylotting... ^_^
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@LittleMel (14059)
• Canada
23 Sep 09
well I'm not tall to begin with so most men are taller than I lol I'm only 5 ft not less not more
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