Do you share your secret or keep it to your self?

Philippines
September 22, 2009 7:38pm CST
There are other secrets that I share it with someone whom I truly trust. But most of them I kept it to my self. It's not that I'm afraid that it would be revealed but it's something that I have for myself.LOL But I have some friends who like sharing their secrets to me. And even when were apart and lost communication I've never told their secret to anyone. And I kinda smile every time I remember them and their secrets. How about you, do you share your deepest secret, or keep it to your self? Whom do you often share your secret, your family, friends or love ones?
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@shajerrl (311)
• China
23 Sep 09
it depends what types of secret that you want to keep. I believe everybody should have his/her own secret. i also believe that the secret that can be shared with your friends, colleagues, or family members etc is not the true secret, the true secret only exist in the depth of your heart.
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@med889 (5958)
23 Sep 09
Never share your secrets with anybody. If you cannot keep secret with you, don't expect that other will keep it. "It will destroy you." I share only light secret with friends and my sisters know me too well so no secret from them or my boyfriend too.
@malamar (784)
• Canada
23 Sep 09
I rarely share secrets with anyone. After all, aren't secrets meant to be kept to yourself? Dreams, hopes, aspirations, and that kind of thing are just begging to be shared with someone you love and trust....those I willingly spill! I don't have very many secrets, but no matter how many I had, I would still be inclined to keep them..well, uhm, secret.
@KrauseHome (35507)
• United States
23 Sep 09
Well, for me, it really would depend on who the person is, and what type of Secret, etc. you are keeping as well. If it is something of real importance the Best thing is to keep it a secret unless it someone that you can really confide in and trust. Because many will say they are your friends, but most are only saying this, and you might regret it if they are not someone close to you for sure.
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• Canada
23 Sep 09
To me, there are many kinds of secrets, including those that are meant to be shared with friends, those that are meant only for families, and those that are meant to be completely hidden. I like to share a secret with my friends if it's really fun to talk about and it won't disturb them in any way. But I actually find myself sharing secrets with my brother the most. I don't know why, even though he is very annoying most of the time, he seems like the person I can trust the most.
@EARLZHAN (934)
• Philippines
23 Sep 09
I don't share my secret to my friends not because I don't trust them but because I want to keep it on my own. I only share my problems to them to ask some advice.
• Philippines
24 Sep 09
Yeah, it's good to kept secret to our self than sharing with others. But when it comes to problems it's best to share it with others than to keep it to our self. It's not healthy to keep problems. Thank you for sharing with us and have a great day!
• United States
23 Sep 09
I only share my secrets with my husband because I know he is able to keep secrets. If a friend asks me not to tell my husband, that it is kept with me only. They all know I tell him if they don't put in that clause. As for my secrets, I like to keep most of them to myself. I like to keep my past in the past... good discussion!
• Philippines
24 Sep 09
Yeah, it's better to keep secret to someone who is very close to us, someone whom we can truly trust. Well we're old enough to decide whether to tell or not. And past should be better left buried. Thank you for sharing with us jodylee and have a great day!
@Debkie (45)
• Philippines
23 Sep 09
It depends on the secret...but usually I kept it to myself because of fear...I have a lot of secrets as a child that I keep to myself even up to now.
• Philippines
24 Sep 09
Well who doesn't have any childhood secrets? Me, I have some, that until now, I kept it to my self, but I share it with God. God can keep secret! Thank you for sharing with us Debkie, and have a great day!
@mzz663 (2775)
• United States
23 Sep 09
I'm good at keeping secrets for myself and other people. I don't tell a lot of secrets, seems when you do, everyone finds out. Whether it's something for them to talk about or they think they might be helping you out, the secret doesn't seem to stay a secret for very long when you tell someone one. It does let me know not to tell that person a secret again and that I can't trust them.
• Philippines
24 Sep 09
Yeah, once you share a secret there's possibility that it would be known. It only depends on the person that you shared. Sometimes a friendship would be tested through sharing secret. Because sharing secret is a matter of trust. Thank you for sharing with us mzz663, and have a great day!
@kutedarsu (254)
• India
23 Sep 09
It depends on the importance of secret and What it means to the person who is concerned with it. Parents can always be trusted. And its better to share secrets with close friends rather than anyone.
• Philippines
24 Sep 09
Yeah, it's also matter on the importance of secret and those persons who's involved and affected. Anybody whom you truly feel that can be trusted well do. I don't tell secret to my parents especially to my mom, it's not that I don't trust her, its just she can't keep secret, she loves to talked anyway. Thank you for sharing with us kutedarsu and have a great day!
@Capsicum (1444)
• United States
23 Sep 09
Once you tell your secret ,it is no longer a secret,it only takes one person knowing to not be. But I am also guilty when ,It comes to my best friend.I to tell some secrets that ,I feel safe enough to in trust knowing it will go no where.I never spoil someone Else's secrets either ,I think of it as privileged information and respect that they picked me to trust in to tell.I tell no one in my family my secrets. They are the worst for keeping ,them from other family members.My deepest secrets are mine only,sometimes wondering how another would react. But I need safety on my side and have a closed mouth when it comes to others.The secrets of those that have left my life are long forgotten.
• Philippines
24 Sep 09
Yeah you're right, it's a privilege when someone trusted you and share their deepest secrets. Since people nowadays find it real hard to find someone they can truly trust. So I think it's better to keep secret to our self if we really want it to remained a s secret forever. Thank you for sharing with us Capsicum, and have a great day!
• Indonesia
23 Sep 09
Nope, i always keep my secret for myself. And sometimes i share my secret with GOD, and pray for mercy.
• Philippines
23 Sep 09
I keep my secret to my self. It wouldn't be a secret if anyone knows it. But if ever I will share it, it would be to someone I really really trust and know for so long like my boyfriend or best friend. Other people can trust me with their secrets too.
• India
23 Sep 09
I will share my secrets only to my very closed ones. Iam having enough trust on them that they will give me good suggestions and will not disclose to anyone. They will bring lot of smiles to my life
@Tantrums (949)
• Philippines
23 Sep 09
I keep them to myself, that's why it's called a secret. I believe keeping it for myself, hence the saying "There are things better kept unsaid". Happy myLotting!
• Philippines
23 Sep 09
well, I mostly share my secrets with my boyfriend.. with us I think , that's the best thing we got.. totally open communication. And what's beautiful is, even before we started going out, we were really good friends, and even then, I always call him whenever I have problems or secrets to share.. It's just much sweeter now, cause he's my boyfriend, and we got to laugh about our silly secrets. hehe.
• China
23 Sep 09
As I see it, if you share a secret with someone, then the secret will not be a secret anymore. So, as for me, I seldom share a real secret with anyone unless I can stand it when everyone knows it. Secret is secret, I don't think is a good idea to share with someone, even your closest friend. But when you do it, you had better concider the consequences first.
@riyasbass (121)
• India
23 Sep 09
I always share my secret as i have many friends caring our company ....My friends are very friendly,not because they are sharing,also they know me , they kow my feelings....And are emotional when they lack my peseence ..... I WISH YOU TOOO HAVE SUCH LOVING FRIENDS......
• India
23 Sep 09
A Secret Is Not To Share .. - Secret Has To Be Kept Under Wraps ..
Secrets Are Told To Another Person With Secrecy In Mind .. You Are Not Expected to Talk About It With Anyone Else .. A Secret Has To be A Secret For Ever .. I Believe And Practice this ..
@prinzcy (5055)
• Malaysia
23 Sep 09
I do share secrets with others but not all of them. I only shared them with my closest friends and family, not all of them. I don't open up just to anybody. I don't believe others will keep my deadly secrets well. Even if they can, it's better if they don't know. They might slip it out unconsciously.