wha are true friends for you?

Philippines
September 24, 2009 6:12pm CST
i have friends but they always back bite. I'm just their friend when they want something and im just his friend when i have money. they are very happy when i trait them to go outside to drink beer. and when i don't have money they snob me. but i don't have a choice because i have no other friend. why people are like that.
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4 responses
• India
25 Sep 09
TO be frank enough I don't have any true friends of course I have lot of friends but they are only for having fun and hanging out.In my opinion that is not true friendship and true friends show up when you are in troubles and when I passed through such a phase none of my friends showed up.I never blame them because I learnt something that is I have no true friends.From that day I stopped expecting from my friends and even now I hang out with them but emotional attachments I have with none.. Thats my story.... Anyway we can't people for being like that.It is we who selected them to be our friends.so it should be us to face the consequences of their behaviour.Anyway don't worry avoid emotional attachments and stop expecting that they would help you then you may feel better.
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• Philippines
25 Sep 09
yeah your right it should be us to face of their behavior. thanks a lot for your advice. =)
@Jennlk84 (4219)
• United States
24 Sep 09
A true friend to me is someone I can count on. Someone that I know I can trust and that will be there for me when I need them. They of course have to be someone I get along with and can talk to. I of course in return am a good listener and always trustworthy. A friend too of course must be someone that you have something in common with. Having similar interests is somewhat necessary too. You of course should have differences, that's what makes you a unique person. But if you don't have any similarities the friendship probably won't last long.
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• Philippines
25 Sep 09
yeah your right we need a true that we can trust. =)
@1yudh123 (65)
• Indonesia
24 Sep 09
fate like me. but i chose to leave them than i was devastated because they. because im very confident that the world many people can better understand us and can understand our situation. your parent looking money for you,not for they. try to think clearly. whether they are fit to be your friends?if not,leave them. remember that not only their friends. look better than them,that what will make your future bright.
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@angadp (203)
• India
25 Sep 09
True friends for me are those people who help me when i in need. They bring out the positives and negetives in me by looking into our lives. The negetives may hurt us but we come to know our inabilities and can improve them. Real enjoyment is with friends only .
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
but not all enjoyment can be found in your friends. thanks a lot for the response.=)