Do you have a bestfriend?

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@shadow41 (2356)
Philippines
September 25, 2009 5:37am CST
Everybody has friends but i think not all of us have a bestfriend. I think i don't have one. What is a bestfriend for you? How does it feel to have a bestfriend? Do you have any?
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18 responses
@leebeet (20)
• China
25 Sep 09
i have,we knew each other since our high school,and then,we aparted when we graduated from school.he went abroad,and i still stay at my city.we both have come into our college now,but we couldnt hand in hand like the past.also,i have no best friends so far,i cant meet someone who can know each other,who can talk about anything each other,who can share anything with each other,who,.....sometimes,i get some void and hope that have a best friend to hang out...yeah....really...
@shadow41 (2356)
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
me too. i really love to have a bestfriend to tell my problems with and seek good advices from. it's sad not to have a friend whom you can fully trust.
• China
25 Sep 09
yeah,that's true.it's hard to get a best friend now,not like our high school.why,huh?
@shadow41 (2356)
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
it's hard to trust someone. i've been betrayed before and i don't want that to happen again.
@taripres (1499)
• United States
25 Sep 09
I have a best friend and a close friend! The difference is, my best friend is my, I guess you can call her, my girlfriend. We've been dealing back and forth for over a year and kinda stay together. We talk all the time and do a lot of things together and for each other and care much for each other! We don't label it as a couple, just as best friends. My close friend is my homie! She is so cool, we always talk! Tell each other just about everything, I got her help when she attempted to end it all (if you know what I mean) we do things for each other and so forth! She need something I got it, and pretty much reciprocal! I haven't had any enemies in years, since I was in the streets being a knucklehead years ago! So, I wish not to have any. But we all have unknown enemies, people who just go for bad, random stupidity! Taripre$
@shadow41 (2356)
• Philippines
26 Sep 09
well i think i can consider my girlfriend as my bestfriend since she's the closest person aside from my family that is always here for me. But there are times when we have some issues and i can't always turn to her. So i need a friend to share my problems with. I don't have it. anyway thanks for dropping by. happy myLotting.
@shadow41 (2356)
• Philippines
26 Sep 09
Thanks for your nice advice. Maybe we should really erase our communication gap. I'll definitely try. Thanks again :)
@taripres (1499)
• United States
26 Sep 09
no doubt, that's what we're all here for, a lil more insight; well to make a lil extra money too... Hope everything works out very well for you 2, I admire happy couples, love to see it!! Especially when kids are invplved Taripre$
@climber7565 (2579)
• United States
28 Sep 09
Well you may have a best friend already and not know it. Who around you treats you the best and who around you shows care enough to always be there for you when you need someone. Some people love to and need to have a best friend. Some people do fine without one. Is nice to have someone special for sure.
@shadow41 (2356)
• Philippines
28 Sep 09
Yes you're right there. Some people love to have a bestfriend whom he can trust and i do want to have one. I have one before but we're not that close now. He betrayed me. Well im also fine having no bestfriend. I just want someone to lend an ear and can keep a secret. But i think i can express my feelings and some of my secrets here at myLot. :p
• United States
30 Sep 09
OH yea, well I think little by little people get to know more about you and if you are sincere you are bound to have some cool friends here too, I would not count on real friendships here but I bet if you just open a little to your close friends near by you. You may find that you have more friends then you thought you had to begin with.
@vingyan06 (2489)
• Malaysia
27 Sep 09
Hi Shadow, I have a very best friend, the only best friend I have ...I know she has best friends other than me. But it does not bothering me. We know each other since 13 years ago. She was my secondary school mate. we were in the same class for 2 years time and from there we built our friendship from friend to the best friends. Now we had married and we both have our own family. We hardly meet each other too often as we are busy with our own living life. But sometimes we will call and chat or texting. She is thoughtful and she remember my birthday every year... She sends birthday card for me every year with all the birthday wishes.
@shadow41 (2356)
• Philippines
3 Oct 09
Hello. I'm glad you have your very best friend. Stands tall among the rest. Very best. I'm happy for you. Hope your friendship will last forever. Thanks for sharing vingyan06. Take care.
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@vingyan06 (2489)
• Malaysia
4 Oct 09
Hello Shadow, Yeah, she is such a thoughtful friend. She cares , she shares, she is a nice lady,. Just a week ago, she handed a birthday card to my hub and a Channel lip gloss as my birthday present. What a surprise from her. I will keep her birthday in mind and I hope to buy a birthday gift for her as well.
@kitty42 (3912)
• United States
26 Sep 09
Hello I have one person I actually considered my best friend, we lost contact and I miss her so much, she was older than me, but I learned so much from her, I hope one of these days we meet up again that would make me really happy, I just hope everything is going great for her and her family she is a wonderful person and she helped me in ways she may never understand, if it is meant I will get the chance to tell her these things. Thank you.
@shadow41 (2356)
• Philippines
26 Sep 09
Hi there. I know how if feels to be far from our love ones. I hope you will see each other again. Thanks for dropping by.
@kitty42 (3912)
• United States
26 Sep 09
Hello Yes its not easy, thank you so much. Thank you.
@ahba99 (2)
• Kazakhstan
25 Sep 09
Better an open enemy than best friend.
@shadow41 (2356)
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
well i think i know what you're trying to say. as others say that your bestfriend is your worst enemy. you can't be so comfortable with a bestfriend for you'll never know when he/she will turn against you.
@taripres (1499)
• United States
25 Sep 09
ahba, hear you go! First off, welcome to MyLot! Now, what do you mean by your response, could you please elaborate?! Oh, and I mean with more than 7 words more like 2 to 3 sentences please Taripre$
@ayebelle (368)
• Philippines
30 Sep 09
Some people come to our lives and quickly go. Some stay for a while and leave footprints in our hearts. And we are never ever the same. - unknown I have many friends,but same as you i don't have Best Friend. Best friend meaning its top of your freinds list, and i dont like it, i like to level my friends equally. And i treasure them all.
@shadow41 (2356)
• Philippines
3 Oct 09
You're right. We're the same. I treat my friends equally. I don't have any favorites. Though I want a friend whom I can share confidential issues with. Nevertheless I like what I have right now.
• India
28 Sep 09
I only have one best friend and honestly believe that we can only have one true friend.There is a difference between having friends and having best friends. I believe you can only have one best friend, but many friends, which I do have many friends, but only one best one.My best friend is my partner.It is very difficult to get a best friend and every one look money for creating friendship.If we have enough money,so many friends gathered around us and make use of us for their advantage.A real friend ca understand all our problems and help us in all our difficulties.A friend in need is a friend indeed.
@shadow41 (2356)
• Philippines
28 Sep 09
haha. you're absolutely right. Money does brings a lot of friends. And relatives too! I have a lot of friends too but not a bestfriend. Not so long ago i have a friend whom i considered my bestfriend. But he betrayed me. we're still friends though but i can no longer trust him that much.
• China
27 Sep 09
Yes I have one,and maybe his my only best friend.You can make a lot of friends.But make a good friend is not a easy things.We have been friends more than 7 years.And for so long a time,I haven't made a good friend that I can put my heart to.
@shadow41 (2356)
• Philippines
28 Sep 09
yes we can make a lot of friends. I have. I hope you'll keep your friendship forever. you've been blessed to have one. thanks for dropping by and happy mylotting. :)
@cjfoust (614)
• United States
26 Sep 09
I do have a best friend. We first met when we were in the third grade. We were in the same class and I don't remember exactly how it all began, but I know that was 16 years ago now. She is a great person. I trust her and we tell each other pretty much everything. We can always count on one another. She is always there when I need someone to talk to whether I'm glad, mad, or upset and vise versa. We have definately had our ups and downs, but I think every relationship does whether it be best friends, relatives, or husband and wife. We are very close with each others family. She is just like another sister to me. I wouldn't trade her for the world. I feel lucky to have a best friend.
@shadow41 (2356)
• Philippines
26 Sep 09
well you surely are lucky to have a bestfriend. They can be like a stress absorber right? thanks for dropping by :)
• United States
26 Sep 09
I have a best friend as well. We used to hang out with the same group of people, but didn't become friends until we were adults. It was 5 1/2 years ago when she and I started working at the same place and realized who each other were that we became very close. We became close quick and have been that way ever since. She is easy to confide in. I am one that finds it hard to trust, but I trust her and she has never proven me wrong. :)
@shadow41 (2356)
• Philippines
26 Sep 09
I'm happy for you to have one true bestfriend. Sounds like a lot of joy to you. :) Thanks for dropping by.
@vdhaval (119)
• India
25 Sep 09
yeah i do have a best frnd and infact i have 3 for me a best frnd is not somebody u hang out with all the time or talk to all d time a best frnd is a person whom u can talk n share about ur thoughts n feelings without feelin akward and wierd as to how hey wud react. it is someone who is ther to help u out in ur time of need and is supportive of all ur endeavours. a best frnd is a person who will advise u wether wat u abt do i rite or wrong.he is somewhat like a conscience out of ur mind and body. ofcourse u hang out with them,enjoy life with them but for me what i have written matters more to me
@shadow41 (2356)
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
Oh. that proves more to me that i don't have a bestfriend. I can't share my feelings or thoughts to the closest friend i have now and he gives bad advices too. wahahhaah. Good thing i know what's right and what's wrong.
@machai (23)
• China
25 Sep 09
Hi,shadow,I have a best friends that we know each other very much.when i was in trouble he alaways help me with great cordiality.when we were in high school,we were together whatever do,and now we are both in colledge and i missed him so much Good luck!
• China
25 Sep 09
lucky guy
@coolcat123 (4392)
• India
25 Sep 09
I had many friends in my school as well as college but they kept changing.Since we were not in connection for long so the friendship got dim and finally no touch again since I moved to my new house. In school I had a best friend, very best I can never forget her,while in college I had another best friend but not as best as the earlier.In tuition I had many others too.
@shadow41 (2356)
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
wow. you seem to have lots of bestfriend but i think it depends on how you view a bestfriend. so how do you view a bestfriend? can you trust your so called bestfriends with your secrets?
• India
25 Sep 09
My hubby and god are my best friends
@shadow41 (2356)
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
hmmmm that's great. Very religious :)
@med889 (5958)
25 Sep 09
I have a best friend and she is my very good friend since our first year of the Law degree. She is someone who is just like me and she has some differences too though which we have both learn to cope with. We trust each other and we have some very good interests too.
@shadow41 (2356)
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
oh the trust part is where i have issues with. i have really good friends but i don't consider them as my bestfriends coz i can't trust them. It's really hard to trust someone.
@SHAMRACK (8443)
• India
4 Oct 09
Dear friend, I do have some best friends and very few best friends whom I value more than a just a best friend. Moreover best friends are always an asset if they have really those qualities of best friend.
@today2009 (160)
• China
3 Oct 09
I have servers good friends,we have no words to say,the least frequently together. When youare unhappy,he will be on your side to accompany this your.No returns will help you.