Do you feel mad if your friend upload your pictures to Facebook?

Hong Kong
September 25, 2009 8:43am CST
I really do. Just today, my friend upload some pictures of me that I am without makeup. She even tag me. I am so mad about this. But I didnt tell her about that. I think it's okay to upload to pictures but not the pictures that without any makeup or look bad. And you guys? Do you have the same experience? Tell me about yours~~
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@Lucky09 (1771)
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
hi chelsea^^;; It didn't happen to me on facebook but to another site called friendster if you know that. My friend posted me and my bf's pictures exposing it to a previous stalker of mine who was still added to her friends' list so that person can view all the pictures. I never posted my bf's pictures in my sites but she did without even asking me so i was furious thinking that it might cause another problem. The stalker didn't know my bf's face and i was protecting it but to my friend's insensibility was just exposed like that. I asked her to remove it but she didn't do it immediately so i was more disappointed anyway, i don't mind much more about bad looks but i was just worried. I hope friends would try to consider our feelings first before posting. Happy lotting
• Hong Kong
25 Sep 09
I know the site Friendster. But I dont use it but my sister does. You are right. Sometimes I dont like taking pictures with my friends. My friend she not just post my photo to the internet she even tagged me. And so everyone ccan see my look bad picture~ I am so agree with you. Why people dont consider our feelings before uploading the pictures.What will they think if we do the same on them~~ Thanks for sharing~~
@Lucky09 (1771)
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
i guess this happens when we are very close to someone and sometimes they don't consider our privacy... I think it's good to warn friends about posting pictures since there are many sites that are coming out on the web and sometimes pays for uploaded pics...
• Hong Kong
26 Sep 09
Really? Sites that pay for uploading pictures? What site?
@climber7565 (2579)
• United States
28 Sep 09
oh your friend should not have done that without your permission. That is lack of respect. What kind of friend does that!
• Hong Kong
29 Sep 09
No matter it is ugly or not. At least he should obtain my permission. Thanks for sharing~~
• United States
30 Sep 09
Yea I am with you on that. Its wrong for someone you trust to do that and use your photos without permission. What does he think he gain by doing that? I hope you have cut off that friendship. I would for sure
@aerous (13474)
• Philippines
28 Sep 09
Yup! If don't have permission uploaded my picture. Because that is consider a private things in one person...Because as experience there are many complains about uploading personal videos that make someone else being a victims of scandal...You must kept those things in your personal, for not being a victim someday...have a great day!
• Hong Kong
29 Sep 09
Yup, people always catch the ugliness of others and post it on the internet. It is very bad. Thanks for sharing~~
@aerous (13474)
• Philippines
30 Sep 09
Agree with you, my friend. That is really true...some people will not look on the beauty of something but it's ugliness. Thanks for your response...Take care
@CALLIBAN (278)
• Portugal
26 Sep 09
LOOOOL! Sorry, but you made me laugh. You wouldn´t mind if she puts "normal" pictures of you, but you do mind if she puts pictures without make-up! LOL Well, I you fell mad no matter what the pictures are. I don´t understand why you don´t tell her you didn´t like it! She is a friend , right? So. what´s the problem? You still have another way of doing it: You can report the picture to my facebook...
• Hong Kong
26 Sep 09
I think you dont understand. I just wake up at that time so I look not good without makeup. And I dont know why you laugh...
@CALLIBAN (278)
• Portugal
26 Sep 09
:( Oh come one, forgive me...You took me wrong... I was not making fun of you! I swear! I was only laughing because you remind me of some friends of mine that are always so vain. I am pretty sure you don´t need make-up to be pretty.
• Indonesia
26 Sep 09
My friend covertly take my picture while im sleeping. My mouth is open and my eye is close, i am in such a mess condition. The worst part is, after a short while he take my picture, with out wasting his time, he just upload the pic in the facebook. After that he tag me in the photo. When i woke up i suprise with so many comment of my picture. Well thought it is funny, i still mad at him. But there is no use for being mad to him. So instead of being made, what i do is revenge. I have a pic from the old time that can embarrassed him. Well at last i do that revenge. And after that, either of us upload an embarrassing pic. :D
• Hong Kong
26 Sep 09
Then you have a very good personality. If I were you. I think I will be angry. But I understand sometimes stupid fac taken by good friends is fun and even dont hve to be upset. Thanks for sharing~~
• Indonesia
30 Sep 09
If the one who upload a picture is not a friend, off course i will be mad. But with them, i dont really have to be mad, because what they do was simply a joke, and if we mad for every stupid joke that they make, it will not be good right. So i prefer just do some revenge instead of wasting my time mad at some one. At least we had a good laught.
@Craicha (801)
26 Sep 09
nah mad but get upset with my friend uploading pics n facebook or n other sites...coz not just mean were close 2 eachother she will do what she likes, like invading my privacy... if your friend have respect in you she will not do that without your consent....shes nah a good friend afterall
• Hong Kong
26 Sep 09
Thanks for sharing~~
@Craicha (801)
26 Sep 09
and your welcome:)
@mermaidivy (15415)
• United States
29 Sep 09
Yea... I don't liek it either when my friends upload some pictures that I don't look good :-p Idon't really care whether if I have make up or not in that picture, just don't like if I look very strange and weird facial expressions in the pictures.
• Hong Kong
30 Sep 09
You are so right. Sometimes I still looks good if I am without any makeup. Thanks for sharing~~
@jsitko (1169)
• United States
27 Sep 09
A while back my sister uploaded pictures of my husband and myself in our yard. I had a picnic and she took some pictures that day. When I looked at her photos and I saw us in there, yes I was very mad. I asked her to take them out off there and she asked why. I told her that if I had wanted pictures of my husband and I on facebook, I would upload them on my facebook myself. She did not understand why I wanted her to delete them and then she tried to act stupid and said she was new with facebook and she was not sure how to delete them, I said if you found out how to upload them then you will find out how to delete them. By the time I logged on to her facebook she had them deleted. To this day she does not understand why I did not want my picture on her facebook. I do not know many of her friends that are allowed to look at her pictures nor do I know her friend's friends. I just do not want my pictures or anything else of mine on her or anyone else's facebook.
• Hong Kong
29 Sep 09
Thanks for sharing~~
• Malaysia
27 Sep 09
I think they should seek your permission before uploading pictures of others on to Facebook. If it is a group picture, there is not much you can do about it. This is more an issue of ethics. As for me, I am not a really big fan of Facebook. Only one of my photo is there. There are some people following me on Facebook. I do look at new pictures of friends on Facebook when alerted on my email
• Hong Kong
27 Sep 09
I like Facebook very much. And I always ask my friends to join it. It is a very good social website. Thanks for sharing~~
• United States
26 Sep 09
I am not particularly fond of any pictures of me, but I have had several people post photos of me and tag me. I am not bothered by it too much as I don't really care what I look like or what others think. If the picture is something I don't want my other friends to see, I just untag it.
• Hong Kong
27 Sep 09
Just like you, when I find some bad pictures of mine. I just simply romove the tag. Thanks for sharing~~
@Eisenherz (2911)
• Portugal
26 Sep 09
I would, if I wasn't smart enough to constantly avoid to look bad on pictures :) I'm pretty sure I'm only in one if the scenario and my apperance are top notch. Besides, most my friends fear me out of whatever reason so they'd never do such thing anyway.
• Hong Kong
27 Sep 09
Yup, it is hard to avoid or I should say we cannot avoid. So I always be the camera holder;-) Thanks for sharing~~
@murtuza89 (513)
• India
26 Sep 09
I just hate it when someone uploads my images without my permission. If I find someone doing so, I just tell them to remove my picture imediately. Otherwise I just report them to the site owner.
• Hong Kong
27 Sep 09
I have never report it cuz I think it is too much to do it. Tell them to remove it is a better way then. Thanks for sharing~~
@angemac23 (2005)
• Canada
26 Sep 09
I don't know if I feel mad, but I am not happy when a photo of me pops up on facebook without my permission!
• Hong Kong
27 Sep 09
Yup,, I think so~~ Thanks for sharing~~
@mikeysmom (2092)
• United States
26 Sep 09
i do not blame you for being mad and i think you should tell her and nicely ask her to remove them. i would not want someone to put picture of me on a social networking site without my permission.
• Hong Kong
26 Sep 09
But I think it is strange to do that.. Thanks for sharing~~
@bdugas (3581)
• United States
26 Sep 09
No I do not believe that a person has a right to upload anyone else's pictures to a site without that person's permission. Way I see it if they wanted the pics on Facebook, they would of put them their themself. Last night I found out that a person in Yahoo canasta, somehow got into my facebook and took pics off of the friends that I have and now posting them on yahoo message boards. To me this is an ivasion of privicity. People do these things to try and make you look bad. Soon as I hit canasta last night, I was jumped onto that I gave pics to this person. What I can't understand is they used a name of my best friend as invite and people put them on their friends list because they said they know me. Funny where did they get this friends name as this person has no computer. YOu must watch every thing you do on the net anymore because of people like this. Seems that this is stealing and something should be done about it.
• Hong Kong
26 Sep 09
Thanks for sharing~~
• Pakistan
26 Sep 09
A friend of mine did the same thing and I felt very bad.. But I shared that with my friend that I don't like you uploading my pictures on facebook without even asking or telling me..
• Hong Kong
26 Sep 09
Thanks for sharing~~
@BlueGoblin (1833)
• United States
26 Sep 09
Yes. Friends always want to post the most unflattering photos. People should always ask permission to post your photo on the internet. Friends should know better than to do something like this without permission.
• Hong Kong
26 Sep 09
I agree. But I seldom ask for permissions. I know I am being selfish that dont ask permission but post other pictures. Thanks of sharing~~
@Melbee11 (233)
• United States
26 Sep 09
I wouldn't get mad if a friend uploaded my pictures. I mean picutures are just pictures. It's okay for me to know that a friend uploaded pictures of me. I don't really care, I just hope some of the pictures my friends have of me is ambarassing. Than again if they did have any I wouldn't mind I would laugh just thinking it was fun!
• Hong Kong
26 Sep 09
I am mad is not bacause the picture is stupid is cuz I really dont look good. Messy Hair, stupid face. Thanks for sharing~~
• United States
26 Sep 09
I would feel absolutely horrified if it was an embarassment picture but if it was one that I actually posed for and smiled happily. It makes me feel happy when people can see my beautiful smile. Hahahaha (= . I love being ini group pictures but somehow, I don't really enjoy taking pictures indivually. The camera is all up in your face and your friends would say one more, and one more, and one more, etc. But it's a good experience with other people to be in pictures and upload them. As long as the pictures is not bad or embarassing, it's alright for me. Have a good day MyLotters!
• Hong Kong
26 Sep 09
I am so agree with you. It is fine that to take pictures in a group even I look crazy. Thanks for sharing~~
@schulzie (4064)
• United States
25 Sep 09
I don't really mind. I guess I am at an age where if I'm not wearing makeup or my fat shows in the picture it really isn't such a big deal as it used to be. Now obviously I do prefer my pictures where I don't show off the horrible portions of my body or I am wearing makeup or my hair looks good but there are some times that I take bad pictures and the other people look good. It is what it is. Have a nice day and happy myLotting!!!
• Hong Kong
26 Sep 09
I can be look good even without makeup lol. But sometimes I really look bad when I am without any makeup. And that picture my friend tagged is taken when I just wake up. So you can understand why I was mad. But I was not really mad just as I said. Thanks for sharing~~