I Like Her, But She's Never Available

United States
September 26, 2009 11:36pm CST
There's this girl that I've had a crush on since middle school. We didn't really start talking to each other since high school. I always wanted to ask her out, but she's never available. I'll talk to her and she'll be dating someone, then I'll wait and see if she's broken up with the guy, but then she's in another relationship and I don't want to put myself out there and get hurt. Should I just give up on her, or keep waiting?
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7 responses
@robert19ph (4584)
• Philippines
28 Sep 09
hello ShortyAkbar, i think it's much better if you let her know about your feelings towards her. better get hurt than she never know at all. who knows she might be waiting for you for a long time. try your luck.
@eLsMarie (4148)
• Philippines
27 Sep 09
you mean she does not spend time moving on? after she break up with her recent boyfriend she found another one immediately? wow! maybe she's really that attractive... actually the choice depends on you. if i were in your case, i wouldn't wait, instead i'll find someone who's worth it to be loved... :D
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@Sleong (46)
• New Zealand
27 Sep 09
To be honest with you, i wouldnt give it a chance and wait... it would be wasting your time if you did... clearly she may not be interested in you and you could see that by her intentions and actions... unless she is innocent and not know that you like her... and even if in the end she did end up with you, it will probably be that she is using you as a substitute to not remain unsingle... there are plenty of girls out there that you can seek for and im sure you deserve more respect and better opportunity that is out there for you to reach... move on and dont wait on someone that does not respect you.
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@amybrezik (2123)
• United States
27 Sep 09
Honestly, I wouldn't wait. I would move on. If it's meant to be it will happen when you least expect it. I know that sounds very cliche but there is truth to it, and you don't want to waste your younger years waiting on someone when you could be experiencing things with someone else, who may not be "the one" but may help you learn something about yourself and give you life experience that you wouldn't get other wise.
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2 Oct 09
I wouldn't hang around, i would date other people, and just get on with my life. I am a bu believer, that if it is meant to happen, it will Bide your time, and see what happens, you might just be surprised. good luck!
• Philippines
1 Oct 09
well ShortyAkbar, if you are really determined and deeply in love with her go for it! do not lose hope do not falter ^_^ but my other advice is, if time really separates you two or perhaps fate wont do within your relationship with her, i'll say you must find a new one. it may sound hurting but it is for your good ^_^. find somebody else better than her, find someone else that is right for you and you think that she'll love you for the rest of your life so that all will be happy ^^ good luck on your decision ^^
@anna728 (1499)
• United States
29 Sep 09
I don't think I would waste much time if I were you. Go ahead and date other people, if they catch your attention. Just do whatever is right at the moment. Either you will find someone else who is really better for you, or you will have enjoyed yourself until you and this girl are maybe both single at the same time. Should that happen, then feel free to pursue it, if you are still interested. But I wouldn't count on it. Don't hold out for her- if it happens, it happens.