are men not really satisfied with one woman?

September 27, 2009 7:34pm CST
me and my co league had a chit chat last night and she told me about her unfortunate marriage. they have been boyfriend and girlfriend for 2 years and then they cohabitate. later they got married. she did not expect that her husband will cheat on her because she trusted him so much. the sad thing is they have 2 children already and her husband left her for some ugly woman which was her husband ex girlfriend. worst among the worst the woman also is married. i don't know what gotten into them why they did that. they are very stupid and very selfish.
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@agmp26 (21)
• Philippines
28 Sep 09
Things such as this really did happen. What your friend must know is her world should not end to her husband. Everything happens for a reason. Time heals all wounds. She deserves a better person and she deserves to be happy. She should show to the world and to her husband that he's the unlucky one because he lost good wife. I hope she'll get over it. She should!
@agmp26 (21)
• Philippines
28 Sep 09
Sorry, my husband is only interested in me so not all men cheat.
@laydee (12814)
• Philippines
28 Sep 09
First and foremost, about your friend. I'm guessing, the guy wasn't really over his ex-girlfriend in the first place. It's obvious that they haven't gotten over each other when they got married, that's why they decided together to run-off with each other. It may seem like a romantic (Romeo and Juliet) thing for now, but don't worry, regrets will come soon. As for men not really being satisfied with one woman, I think it's just an illusion. They can't even satisfy one woman. Yet satisfy another. They just gather a lot of women to compensate for their inability to satisfy anyone at all.
@leoling (173)
• Singapore
28 Sep 09
It's really sad to hear this news. For me I can't give you my answer for the future. But now what I think that I will satisfied with one women who I love her to the extend that I don't know how to express my feeling of love toward my girl. And I am those focus of achieving my dream kind of person. I alway think that one women is enough, and focus on the things I want to do. So I don't really have time think of other girls
@Craicha (801)
28 Sep 09
maybe for some men but i dont agree in all men.....coz theres still men that honest to there partners.... even women cheated to there men that is good to her in other words it depends upon the person...coz not all are the same..:)
• India
28 Sep 09
You can find so many men who are satisfied with there wifes we cannot point every men by seeing a few like that.
@tvb2009 (237)
• Singapore
28 Sep 09
Not all men are like that, but i think its because they are bored of facing the same woman. But that is not a reason to cheat on his partner, i believe in staying true to each other in a relationship.
• India
28 Sep 09
I Have a Few Friends(male) Who Have A Life Outside Marriage .. But Their Life Outside Marriage IS For S*x And Nothing More .. They Have a Family Which They Care For And Look After .. But This Story You Narrated Is Totally Bizarre .. A Husband Leaving His Wife For Another Woman, How Much Worse Can Life Get .. I Have Heard Separations More In Couples Who Were In Love And Later Got Married .. So I Feel It Is Better To Marry And Then Fall In Love Like I Have .. Not That I Had A Choice ..
@paulit03 (93)
• Philippines
28 Sep 09
hmmmm.. im sorry for what happened to her. honestly it is not only us guys who are doing that kind of wrong doings.. for me it depends upon the way that people treat each other. i mean if you and your partner have a beautiful treatment and having a good time with one another and with your family then why look for another one ? aytt? maybe they have a problem with one another that's why her husband looked for another woman which he could lean on and be happy again. another reason is that which i have realized some quite of a time. maybe this guy or girl have fell out of love. thats why he/she looked for another.. this is what we call love..
@cherrc (666)
• Philippines
28 Sep 09
me and my friends are always discussing that issue. we even came up with the 80% quality and 20% lacking that's why the husbands go to the latter, but why? most of my guy friends merely said maybe the wife needs to put up the fire and act like a girlfriend again or worse, act like a mistress. ΓΌ
• India
28 Sep 09
hi cute, well if ur talking about men then yes they can be satisfied with one woman all their life provided woman make them feel satisfied enough not only sexually but also the way she treats him and how she keeps his home and how she brings up children. It is so easy to be a girl friend but so difficult to be a wife. SO if a girl can be wife in true sense then hardly any man would cheat. same goes for the girls too..they too cheat as it is clear from ur question that the his ex too cheated her husband.
@schentil (98)
• India
28 Sep 09
hi, it is nature for both men and women to have their attention distracted to some other persons after a period of time even though if they have become spouses with love and like mind. After passing years, our mind searches something new, I mean change in what have been doing. No one likes stereotype kind of things which has no change. But this is not acceptable because it could hurt each other in such a way that nothing else in the world. Instead of trying different things, try your own thing differently. Got it.
@m2ponce (103)
• Philippines
28 Sep 09
most of the times we observe men are the ones who ruins a relationship between a couple. i do agree, but sometimes, women also have their shortcomings. it is not about men and women, but how did the relationship go? are they really mature enough to be married? are they willing to sacrifice their personal interests for their children's future. having a family is a big sacrifice and a couple will go through a lot of misunderstandings during their lifetime. communication between the husband and wife is always the key.
@manong05 (5030)
• Philippines
28 Sep 09
Men by nature are polygamous creatures, and given the opportunity, they will grab it. This is not my idea, I just remember it reading from somewhere. I'm sure there are several factors involved why people cheat. There was even one who thinks that cheating increased exponentially in the advent of cellphones. I tend to agree with this since I know of several people who actually shared with me their experiences and that they all started in harmless texting and later developed into committing extra marital relationship. Most men I think are satisfied but there are only sinister forces at work that tend play on the lower sentiments of men. It needs extraordinary committment or love of the partner to overcome this.
@offlimits (601)
• Philippines
28 Sep 09
I think the culture has something to do with it in any way. It has always been a problem in societies, most especially that this issue was addressed way back the time of our ancestors where men have numerous wives or something. And until now it is just sad that this problem has never been eliminated eversince. I was just wondering the same thing, on why men have to complicate things when they can actually live a stable life with the one they truly love. But I would say that we can never judge a person's thinking because it might be a sign of dissatisfaction with their partner or they felt like there's something wrong about their relationship. It is also a question of how mature a person's thinking is. I am just sorry for women who get hurt because of this kind of situation.
@feodda (579)
• Philippines
28 Sep 09
Most of the guys are not contended to one woman. They wanted to taste different kinds. It is the nature of the guys to do that because they are boys as they always tell to us. But there are some guys choose to be faithful. I have a boyfriend for almost 4 years. I never think of infidelity or he will cheat on me. And I trust him so much. But he time goes by, i found out that he has an affair with an ugly duckling. So foolish of him and stupid of him. They are really selfish and stupid. That kind of a guy is a BIG B*LLSH*T.
@spalladino (17926)
• United States
28 Sep 09
Both men and women cheat and, as you've already read, there can be any number of reasons why it happens. I have always believed that communication is an important part of a relationship but, since I'm a woman, I'm more inclined to communicate. There's really no way to tell who is going to end up cheating or why it happens. The best thing you can do is to be there for your friend.
@arunmails (3013)
• India
28 Sep 09
According to me, not all the men are like that.. humans go in wrong way only because of the media and TV's.. they always portray dramas on wrong relationships between a man and woman.. and even in cinemas, they do that... this makes the human to go with the wrong relationships....