My Best Friend Doesnt Forgive me anymore for what I did to her unintentional...

@irefed (200)
Philippines
September 28, 2009 2:49am CST
My story is very complicated which start of having a misunderstanding between me and my best friend. We've been friends for 9 years already and we've took those obstacles and trials in life.We've together in times of happiness and sadness. Our story starts when someone came " a guy" that treat my best friend someone special to him which make her expect that the guy really her more than a friend which she learned to love the guy. A friend of mine travel to a place for work in a month which she told me that she aren't interested with the guy. In doing so, we've been seeing the guy always for party and sometimes he invite me for dinner. Until such time that we become more than friends. I accept him because I though my friend is not interested with him and I fall in love with the guy. My best friend came and she got angry with me because she though that I betrayed her. I give her reasons to consider but she never listen. And now, we're not friends anymore. I always try to make up with her but she still still consider me as her enemy. Now, the guy which is my boyfriend is celebrating our 8th months..
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3 responses
28 Sep 09
I think your frien is being daft...give her time, and she might get over it, just be happy with your guy, if she cannot accept that, then she was never really a true friend.
@irefed (200)
• Philippines
29 Sep 09
She told me that we lied to her well in fact I told her when she got back but she never listened. Hope we can still make-up.
@irene3184 (900)
• Philippines
28 Sep 09
Irefed your story sounds complicated but I will you that you must treasure what you have today. Your best friend will soon understand and realize the value of your friend. Just let go for a while and try to make up some other time.
@irefed (200)
• Philippines
28 Sep 09
It is really that complicated and I was trying to cope up this misunderstanding between my friends. I keep asking myself what and how would it takes to make up to her.
• Indonesia
28 Sep 09
Dear, it happens everywhere. It's unintentionally happened yet it hurt the feeling. It's like a coin that fall into a murky water. You cannot find it whilst you stir the water. But try to make it calm until all the mud sink to the base and you can see the base. There you will find also the lost coin. I know it sounded like stupid. But It's as simple as that too. So, just let it go for a while, let her be angry with you, even true friends will have a fight some times. A best friend fight will be like brothers fight. But remember if you are true best friends sooner or later both of you will realize that you have just receive a good lessons from life that is to apologize and to forgive. Life is trying to tell you that both of you are still human with errors. One thing I want to tell you that You can go on with the relationship with your boyfriend. You have realized you were err, and have apologised to your friend about that. yet it doesn't mean that you can easily give your boyfriend to her. My question is will your bouyfriend understand and accept your decission. Imagine this when you say, "Honey, can we break up our relationship now. Because unintentionally I took you from my best friend. I want you to be hers." or so. But for me that sound silly. I am a man, I know how your boyfriend will have in mind. For me I will always keep what is today. Why? it's not easy to build such a lovely relationship. Beside your friend never tell her true feeling to that young man, did she? Be happy with your life.
@irefed (200)
• Philippines
29 Sep 09
Yes.. We still hang-on together me and my boyfriend. And I was hoping that I can still make up to my best friends. I know it that time will come she accept what really happened and befriend again.