How important it is to know ur lovers friends?

@asweetie (1187)
India
September 28, 2009 10:02am CST
How important is for you to know your bf or gf's friends? Are you friendly with ur lovers best friend and good friends?
4 responses
Capsicum
@Capsicum (1444)
• United States
28 Sep 09
My hubby always introduces them ,but I don't need to hang out with them.I know he is a good judge of car/actor .Then we have friends that have become ,both of ours over the years. I am friendly with all !
asweetie
@asweetie (1187)
• India
30 Sep 09
hi capsicum, thanks for the response and it is very good you know all the friends of your husband and it is wise too. I would definitely demand to know all the firends of my husband when i would be married simply because i just want to be sure he doesnt hang out with someone he should not .
Craicha
@Craicha (801)
•
28 Sep 09
for me its important to know the friends of my honey , if who they are, where they live, if you can ask home no. in them its fine at least i know whom he goes to ...
asweetie
@asweetie (1187)
• India
30 Sep 09
hi craicha, thanks for the response and yes even though i am still never have been in relationship yet but one day i know i would get married and i know the guy who i want to marry and though i know his many friends and i am ok with them except one but i would want to know all and as man is known by comapny he keeps , i wont like him to be hanging out with questionable company.
Katak
@submerryn (1304)
• Malaysia
28 Sep 09
asweetie, It is very important to know your partner's friends. That is the only way to get to know your partner better. You can actually see your partner through the company he hangs out with. And by knowing his friends, it will be more comfortable in case he invites you to hang out with them. I am buddies with my husband's friends and vice versa. :)
asweetie
@asweetie (1187)
• India
30 Sep 09
thanks for the response submerryn, yes it is nice to know his friends as man is known by the company he keeps and when i would be in a relationship i would definitely like to know the kind of people he hangs with. It would be nice to invite his fariends and their families to our home for dinners .
gracefuldove
@gracefuldove (1668)
• Malaysia
28 Sep 09
sometimes you get the know your paramour's friends when you both are courting. Getting to know them as well creates fun outings when you do not want to be alone with your boyfriend all the time. The same goes for friends you have after you already are getting along fine with your lover. Friends are the icing that makes life sweeter.