how many children do u want??

@oinkgiz (863)
Singapore
September 30, 2009 11:16pm CST
hi guys, im just curious... how many children do u want to have?? some people wants only 1, some whats 2 some wants 4 or more... as of now i only have 1 and i dont want to have more... ahihihi... its a big obligation & responsibility if u'll have more children... 1 is enough for me as of now... how about u.. have a nica day and happy mylotting... ^_^
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43 responses
• India
1 Oct 09
I have one kid..i am happy with him..this is so much responsibility on parents for earning also...so if there is more u cant look after them too..i am happy to have one.
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@oinkgiz (863)
• Singapore
1 Oct 09
hi, thanks for responding to my discussion.. i agree with u.. the more kids u have the more responsibility that u will shoulder... have a nice day and happy mylotting... ^_^
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@zhouxi (1752)
• China
1 Oct 09
I have only one child ,i want to have two children.it's impossible in our country because of the only child policy.otherwise i would lose my job or have to pay for a larg sum of money.
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@oinkgiz (863)
• Singapore
1 Oct 09
hi, thanks for responding to my discussion... oh, im sorry about that... by the way what country do u live?? have a nice day...
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@zhouxi (1752)
• China
1 Oct 09
China.today is our the 60th national day.so we are having our holiday and celebration now!
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@oinkgiz (863)
• Singapore
1 Oct 09
wow, china... i want to visit ur country soon... ahihihi. happy holiday... have a nice day.... ^_^
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
1 Oct 09
I think one is not enough for me.. lol =D Maybe 2 or three will be great as they have siblings or companions for each other.. hehe ^_^ BUt then again, it's not cheap to be raising kids in singapore, and thus i might change my mind in the future again?? haha =D NO matter what, i will still have at least 2, so that nobody will be spoiled by being the only child, and also, teaching the elder child about responsibility etc.. hehe
@oinkgiz (863)
• Singapore
1 Oct 09
hi, yup i agree with u..in singapore its too expensive to have so many kids... everything are so expensive... very high standard of living... u need to think twice if u want many kinds or not... but if want more kids its ur choice, & of course u need to ask also ur future wife about it.okay?? ahihihi :P
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
2 Oct 09
YEah, number of children i want, does not depend on me alone, for it's a family thing.. hehe ^_^ ON top of financial support, one has got to see if their wife has got the capability to be bringing up so many kids too.. hehe ^_^ Well at least, u have a choice to bring up your kid in philippines now ^_^ hehe
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• Indonesia
1 Oct 09
Hi oinkgiz, now i have one beautiful daugher. She's 1 year old right now. Me and my wife plans is to have 2 or max 3 children in the future. But we want to make some range between our first and second children minimum 2 years.
@oinkgiz (863)
• Singapore
1 Oct 09
hi, thanks for responding to my discussion... wow...that a really good idea in having a baby...giving them range before u have another one...thanks for giving me an idea in the near future... ahihihi
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@iamfine (740)
• China
1 Oct 09
in china, there's One Child Policy, but i really want to have 2 children, and no more than 2. if only one child, he/she would feel lonely during the process he/she grow up, because we adults have to work for live and may not able to keep them accompany very often. But if you have 2 children, they can be together, and when they grow up, they have their classmates, so they won't feel lonely. If have more than 2, then the burdom is too heavey, and women who have more children is more likely to look older. So to think my children and myself, I think 2 is the perfect number I want!
@oinkgiz (863)
• Singapore
1 Oct 09
hi, thats a good thinking... u have a point... its good to have two...which ur two kids will be friends... hmmm.... thanks for ur bright idea... have a nice day and happy mylotting.. ^_^
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• Boston, Massachusetts
1 Oct 09
i want six kids but i am only blessed with two loving sons. i am still hoping that we can have another one and hopefully a baby girl, but with the present economic situation... it's really hard to think of another addition in the family but if we will be blessed with another one? why not? god will provide us all the blessings that we need to support our kids.
@oinkgiz (863)
• Singapore
1 Oct 09
hi, wow, six kids...that too many for me...ahihihi... oh u already have 2, that good.. well, good luck... i hope u'll have another baby but hopefully it would be a girl.. have a nice day and hapy mylotting... ^_^
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@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
12 Nov 09
Well, if I can afford it, I wouldn't mind more kids. I'd be happy with one too. It doesn't really matter how many you have. What matters is you are happy with them. one, two... ten... don't make a difference if you have the means to care for them and love them unconditionally.
@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
1 Oct 09
Hi there oink... i only have one..he's 14 years old now.. and I am not ready to another one yet... i dont know when i would want another one again..i'm so busy with work and I am saving and saving money.........
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@oinkgiz (863)
• Singapore
1 Oct 09
hi, thats ok if ur not ready for another one at least u already ur son with u... have a nice day and happy mylotting.. ^_^
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@iceydon (342)
• Philippines
1 Oct 09
hi! I wish I could have seven children.It would really make home a happy one. Its a big responsibility though but it would really make life more exciting.There will always be reasons to make life worth living.
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@oinkgiz (863)
• Singapore
1 Oct 09
hi, wow... seven kids...that so many.... ahihihi...but i gues it would be really fun to have a big family.... have a nice day and happy mylotting... ^_^
@ample03 (403)
• India
1 Oct 09
I always wanted one. And I have my daughter now. She is only 3 months old. It is a great responsibility. So me and my wife both have decided that no more is better.
@oinkgiz (863)
• Singapore
1 Oct 09
hi, wow u already have ur daughter & she's still so young 3months... ahihihi iremembered my son but he's much younger to her... he is 6weeks old now... ahihihi.. have a nice day and happy mylotting... ^_^
@gnase99 (172)
• Philippines
1 Oct 09
i like kids but not for me.
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@oinkgiz (863)
• Singapore
1 Oct 09
hi, u dont want to have ur own kids?? why??
@gohigh00 (65)
• China
1 Oct 09
I want to have 2, one boy and one girl. Only from the wishes in my heart. Everytime I saw the parents have one male boy and one girl, I am envouse of them so much. Even I can feel the happiness of their family. \\ I would like to have an elder boy and a younger girl. If the boy have a younger sister, I will teach him to potect her sister when they are little kids. This will very be helpful for the boy to develop his sense of duty and responsiblity.Also I will teach the girl to learn to be thankful for her brother. Of course, abobe is just the good wishes in my mind, I really agree with you that children means obligation and responsibilty. Feeding,taking care,education, communication and so on.I have not got married up to now, How many children will I have will really depend on the time coming. \ At last, best wishes to your kids.
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@oinkgiz (863)
• Singapore
1 Oct 09
hi, thanks... and i also hope that ur wish will came true... have a nice day and happy mylotting.. ^_^
@getbrowser (1708)
• China
1 Oct 09
Only one child is my better choice if I would have one. You konw, more chileren mean spending more money on their education, life and so on. But if just having one child, the situation will be better and parents can enjoy a better life too for they don't need to cost more to children.
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@oinkgiz (863)
• Singapore
1 Oct 09
hi, thats right... as of now its not practical to have many kids except if ur too rich, ( im not so only 1 is enough for me...ahihihi) & u also have a good choice to have only 1 child... have a nice day and happy mylotting... ^_^
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• Philippines
1 Oct 09
i want 2, a boy and a girl, because i have only 1 sibling, a girl, i'm a boy, and it all went well.
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@oinkgiz (863)
• Singapore
1 Oct 09
hi, oh really... thats good... hope u'll have 2 kids in the near future... have a nice day and happy mylotting... ^_^
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
2 Oct 09
If possible, lots and lots of children to make merry! LOL... but the decision isn't mind to make for sure, ha!! 1 sounds good too; it can be the only and only mommy and daddy's darling. I think I'm not a fussy person in this matter.. good discussion.. -''-
@oinkgiz (863)
• Singapore
2 Oct 09
hi, wow... u really want to have many kids?? ahihihi... & now u change ur mind to only 1?? ahihihi.... have a nice day and happy mylotting... ^_^
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@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
5 Oct 09
Hehehe..can lah be like you..
• Quezon, Philippines
2 Oct 09
I'd probably want to have 3 kids at most. Due to hard times, I guess 3 is the most I would want to have to properly care for them, give them what they need and stuff.
@oinkgiz (863)
• Singapore
2 Oct 09
hi, yes... 3 kids are good... not too little not to many...just enough... ahihihi... have a nice day and happy mylotting.... ^_^
@anjanabs (127)
• India
2 Oct 09
hi,now i am 8 months pregnant.i also prefering only one.i am expecting my first baby. so i am very thrilled.
@oinkgiz (863)
• Singapore
2 Oct 09
hi, congratulations... take care of urself... do u already know the gender of the baby?? ^_^
@shimanaja (493)
• Indonesia
2 Oct 09
Hi there Oinkgiz, i am pregnant now and it's my third pregnancy, i full of joy, Thanks to God to believe in me to have one more baby. There is no other feeling than love and happiness.
@oinkgiz (863)
• Singapore
2 Oct 09
hi, thanks for sharing... wow... congratulation... i know what ur feeling right now.... the joy and the excitement to see ur little one... ahihihi... take care of urself always.... have a nice day and happy mylotting... ^_^
@sredith (239)
• United States
1 Oct 09
I don't want ANY children. I live with my young nephews and niece and they're enough to make that decision for me. I don't have the kind of energy it takes to keep up with kids, nor do I have the patience!
@oinkgiz (863)
• Singapore
2 Oct 09
hi, oh.. really?? but having ur own child is different from taking care of ur nephews & niece... i hope u'll change ur mind about it... but its ur decision about it.. have a nice day and happy mylotting... ^_^
• Philippines
2 Oct 09
If ever God will allow us, we want to have two. 1 girl and 1 boy.
@oinkgiz (863)
• Singapore
2 Oct 09
hi, i hope u'll have what u've wanted....have a nice day and happy mylotting.. ^_^