Tell me what you think iam i wrong? need some smart advice and i love mylot

United States
October 3, 2009 2:53am CST
DISCUSSION! every now and then i go around my friends and family, they judge me about what i wear, now dont get me wrong i dress very appro for my day but say if i wear tube socks and they say i should wear ankle cut socks or if i wear v shape tee shirts instead of round neck they say its not in style, i have even had kids laugh at me for wearing reebox instead of jordan sneakers, i dont know , maybe if i was like everyone else then i would be cool but i think that you do you and let me be me and that what makes me who iam, if anyone have time to talk hit me back and lets start some conversation today?
3 responses
@deniblue7 (122)
• Indonesia
3 Oct 09
If you feel comfortable with what you are wearing why not? Maybe they want to see your performance better, so sometimes you just listen to them and look at your appearance. if you do not like to leave it and your back with your own style. Sometimes we follow the trend but the trend is not suitable for us.
• United States
3 Oct 09
so your saying that i shouldnt care but sometimes it hurts my feeling deniblue7 ?
• Indonesia
3 Oct 09
Yes, it will feel painful, but if you think the way you dress better over time they will understand. You berabitampil different and it will become an example to everyone. Example in my country, one of my friends use clothing as stuyle usual in Japan called "Harajuku" (or crash). At first they laughed at my friend, but after they knew that it was biaa in use in Japan, eventually the style became a trend in my country.
• United States
3 Oct 09
I say dress how you feel comfortable. I get laughed at too. I think I just don't dress like the others around wear I live. I understand if you want to look good, but to care or if you want to try and impress someone, really, do you want to live your life for someone else? On your dying day are you going to say to yourself I should have worn the green sweater with the black pants, not the white ones??!!!
• United States
3 Oct 09
so your saying dont care what they say as long as iam happy about how i feel. but sometimes they make me so angry, how to control my toung so that iam not a --hole?
@Rite17 (773)
• United Kingdom
3 Oct 09
im not for fashion... I wear what i like and what im comfy with... but i think in UK people wear what they like and isnt too judgemental... I mix and match my fashion.. Got pair of heels over 6yrs ols and match with all sorts of new add-ons.. I love to find new cardi's and tops that wud go with allsorts that I've already got!! Tell them u have UR OWN FASHION!!! Dnt follow their advice unless for covering unsightly skin like i have... Baggy 80's top are in at the mo so got a few of them.. and tend to buy ALOT more... LOL I've evan got a cardi that my mum used to wear that is comfy and great for around the house but I think it's still in fashion.. Not one she knitted but its grey and quite good with white shorts and white top.. But fashion isnt for in the home its for showing off out of the house! Wear what U like... Tell them otherwise!!!
• United States
3 Oct 09
some times i try to explain but people atleast some are so judgemental i think we should just love eachother for who we are. but it does hurt sometimes you try so hard to be who you are but the just dont care , i take it you dont have friends like that?