why you start loving the person you love

@1anurag1 (3580)
India
October 3, 2009 2:14pm CST
there was a time must be when you have seen him or her first time. and gradually some thing must have taken place. but what was that . what made you love him or her. have you ever thought it again. what was the thing or whatever. which turn you to love her or him
6 responses
• United States
3 Oct 09
This is a loaded question considering we're all going to have different answers. None of us can really say "this that or the other thing" really drew me to this person. There's just something about that person that made us love them. Whether it be their humor, their crazy hair, their beautiful eyes, their funky clothes or dance moves or maybe you just have a lot in common. For me, I have to feel utterly comfortable with that person, like I'm not trying to impress. When I found that, I knew it was love.
@vandana7 (66828)
• India
4 Oct 09
Well, a good smile, followed by a good sense of humor, honesty, generosity, helpful nature, gentleness, maturity, logical thinking, and ability to sing and listen patiently sums up the perfect person for me to love.
@1anurag1 (3580)
• India
4 Oct 09
Dont you think that it is very hard to get all these things in a single person. to get all these things you have to love many. lol
@vandana7 (66828)
• India
4 Oct 09
Hi anurag, it is easier to have these qualities than to have a hefty bank balance, and an island of ur own. LOL. And to think I was making it easier for u guys. LOL.
• United States
4 Oct 09
It was friendship. We were incredible friends and actually saw each other through different relationships. When I realized that I loved him (more than just being my friend) I was already so comfortable and he had everything I was looking for and the best part was he loves me the same way!
@anurag3786 (6275)
• India
4 Oct 09
I think if you love a person..then one thing is in her/him.. whose attract you.. and for me.. this thing is her simplicity.. i attracted by a girls simplicity.. a girl looking very beautiful when she has no make up..and that time it is her original beauty... or say.. natural beauty.. so i attracted by it..
• United States
4 Oct 09
His singing made me fall in love with him. I was really depressed for years. When I get depressed, I stop listening to music. When I met the man I love he would sing all the time while he was working (we met at his place of business). After hearing him sing, I put on a Joni Mitchell record while I was vacuuming. A few days later I was listening to music as much as I used to, then I realized I wasn't depressed anymore. His singing cured my depression!
@Jhaszy (236)
• Philippines
4 Oct 09
i usually begins to like a person when he shows he cares sincerely not just by saying but doin something abt it..then if he kept showing it eventually it will develop into love...