do couples make out after quarrelsome?

quarrel - couple quarrelsome
@amyson (3509)
Philippines
October 5, 2009 11:22am CST
oh well i have done things many times we have some arguments but later we make up.we find that almost couple have same experiences that i have.tell me about your story?
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• Philippines
5 Oct 09
Yes, most couples have practices that they could not go in bed without having reconciliation as it is bad feeling to wake up in the morning then have not talk with the other partner. It makes the situation much worst. Their is a need for every couples to learn to hear each other sides despite the arguments as it is then the two partner could make up to reconcile and fix a solution to the sources of their disagreement. They need to have a ingredients of love, peace and trust as when the latter is absences it is the beginning of misery to happen. Thus, couples need to hear each other sides and gives exchanges of ideas gives and takes for the relationship to succeed..
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
5 Oct 09
well yes same here,disagreements happen anyways.just give him time to talk and you listen,understanding,respect,love,support made the couple more stronger in their relationship and make-up by end of the day sizzling up the night.
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@shia88 (4582)
• Malaysia
5 Oct 09
Hi Amyson, Quarrel is a common issue in a relationship. Be it girlfriend and boyfriend or husband and wife, everyone still will have a quarrel sometimes. It is like a way to make the couples get to know each other better and have a closer relationship in future. A relationship without any quarrels going on is a bit weird to me.At least the sparks has to be there.Once there is an arguments going on,then both party will try to understand each other better and solve the problems. When I was dating, I used to quarrel with my boyfriend once a while,not everyday or every month.Sometimes ,it is just a small issue that we quarreled about and within the next few hours, we patched back again & it even make our relationship even get more closer. Now, I am married and we still do quarrel sometimes.Everyone has a stress and sometimes due to stress, we might have a different opinions in certain issues.It can lead to a small arguments going on. What we have to do is to talk to each other calmly and solve the problem.Avoiding each other won't solve the problem,it might even lead to more serious condition. From my opinion, the best way to patch back is to stay calm and have a nice talk with each other after our mood is back to normal mode.
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
5 Oct 09
well yes you are right too,we just need to listen each other and do not interact when when one is talking give him time to talk.listening is very important in a relationship whether to agrue or not.i also gave him space for the meantime so he will calm sooner.when all things are back into normal that is the time we make-up.that is how love grows.
@dlr297 (5414)
• United States
5 Oct 09
All couples have quarrels, and it is a good thing to make up afterwords. I have found that never going to bed angry is the best policy. It is best to make up right away and to never hold a grudge. if you want to have a long relationship.
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@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
5 Oct 09
yes,i same here,we have make -up by end of a day.then were fine again well as you said it make relationship last.
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@Hatley (164640)
• Garden Grove, California
5 Oct 09
hi amyson oh yes when my hubby was alive and we quarreled we often made up by making passionate love and I think that is a very normal thing with most couples. Also my hubby used to love to make love after massaging my shoulder muscles.
@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
6 Oct 09
yes,same here quarrel is normal and making out after is good.