i am sad

October 12, 2009 3:52am CST
in my mind i still think love and friendship is more important than other things, so i have many friends, every day i will be happy woman. in recent days i am sad, and cry sorry i don't know how to express my mood, maybe crazy? last week i met a little problem, so i seek a help from my friends ,but most of friend s are far away me, they are firectly refuse me, they did't consider, including my fore-BF, i don't know why he become so realistic. is money more important than love and friendshiop? i want to change my telephone number, is it necessary?
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@laydee (12814)
• Philippines
14 Oct 09
There will always be ups and downs in life, and perhaps you are just experiencing such. Friends who reject you doesn't really mean they are not your real friends. If you're having problems now, how much more them? Perhaps you're just being unrealistic with your requests with them and perhaps it's not the right time to do so. Changing your number doesn't help either. You're just isolating yourself more to your friends. What do you mean by fore-bf? ex bf? Sad to say, money is indeed more important these days, love and friendship is important too but without food and our basic needs what can support your love and friendship? It's not being selfish, it's reality.
14 Oct 09
ladee, hello maybe you are right, i am unrealistic, i should understand them, not explain them; money is not being selfish, it is reality in our life our knowledge still teach how to accept the reality
@calai618 (1781)
• Philippines
13 Oct 09
if you change your telephone number, you will be cutting the lines from you and those "real friends" you have. since you said you have plenty of freinds, i am sure not all of them are fake. just find those who are real to you andd seek for their company. those who refuse to be wit you in times of troubles are not to be considered friends only if you are sure that they don't have problems greater than that of yours. Another thing, if there are no people around you to help you for the moment, dont despair. maybe it isn't just the right timing. you can also always help yourself more than anyone can do to you. try to seek for solutions yourself instead of adding other problems on your mind like "your friends not being there for you" or "your ex-bf refusing to help you". I am sure you can find solutions yourself and it is better than thinking of other problems to add to what you already have. Good luck!
13 Oct 09
thank you for your reply i am sure that i can do by myself i should be stronger sometime i can't understand why they become so realistic? i want to know the answer?