can someone still chat even if she is committed?

October 12, 2009 8:22pm CST
well this is about me. i used in chatting with different races because i find it interesting knowing their lifestyles etc but is this okay when i am already committed?
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5 responses
@redphile (2265)
• Philippines
13 Oct 09
as long as theres no flirting or sharing intimate informati0n during chat. Its also better if you are open to your partner and that she or he is aware of this activity.
13 Oct 09
oh yes you are right. but i am afraid to tell my guy that i am chatting because he might get upset.
@grey26 (254)
• Philippines
13 Oct 09
Hi there, in my opinion it is okay chatTing online , internet while you are commited to someone. You know yourself, you know what is bAd or wrong and goood. If you did not do any bAd or wrong that can cause problem and suffering in your relationship with someone it is okay. Or you should reccomend and invite your love oNes chat too. To know him that you doesnot do any thing that is bAd. Keep mylotting.
@weasel81 (2501)
• Australia
13 Oct 09
i'm not fussed on the chat thing, but will use if on face book. with old friends, who i can't see that often. but when you've got friends on the net and round the world. i used to use icq, bout 10 yrs ago to chat to someone in the uk. don't know if they were in a relationship or not, we only talked horses and he was lot older than me. but it's changed a fair bit now. i don't see why you can't chat, to others. maybe get your partner to come and join in on the conversation as well, so he knows what your doing what you talk about etc. if you read cosmo they had an article on what is classed as cheating now, last month out here in australia. the online bit was, if you send flirty messages emails and txt to others they class it as cheating. but it all falls back to how you feel about it, i'm not against it.
@Q_Savvy (131)
• India
13 Oct 09
I believe that chatting is permissible as long as there aren't any dialogues that might compromise the already existing relationship, for example getting too close to someone, spending a 'lot' of time chatting with them etc. Although some might consider it to be harmless, a little jealousy 'might' pop up in your boyfriends mind! So just in order to be careful, spending just a little time and getting to know people would be good. Also, hiding that wouldn't be a good idea because if found out later, it might cause big problems! :O Try telling him slowly, get to know whether he chats as well and just to induce more trust you could even show him and share in some of the discussions! I hope things stay great for you! :)
• United States
13 Oct 09
I should hope its ok. Being in a relationship should not bar you from anything you want to do, especially something as innocent and harmless as making friends. Meeting people of different cultures and getting to know them will greatly enrich your life and enable you to grow as an individual- a relationship should encourage this, not prohibit it.