Do you accept your ex

Sometimes reason has nothing to do with feeling, you know. If there were rules to follow in relationships, every story would develope in similar ways. I agree that if one of the two left and let the other suffer he or she shouldn't forgive so easily. But what's the meaning of forgiving if it was given only when the offensive part was unguilty? I guess eveybody must decide by themselves, as in all situations. Sorrounding people could give advice, opinions, but in the end there's no "right thing to do".

you know..is easy to forgive him or she, if you think that he really don t want you any more is ok...this is life, but is more harder to forgive yourself, and this is my problem...to forgive myself because i let him hurt me...any way, sometimes life is so strange, and can t find an answer for everything, maybe is bette to say; what will be will be; nothing more

Well, just to think that what will be will be is a little too... sad, isn't it. Seems like it's not your life your taling about. I would say i you really care for something just try to fight for it. If you find out it's impossible, well, at least you tried. If the other part doesn't love you anymore, or decides to leave you, you can live your life desperately asking yourself what was wrong, or just find a way to be happy by yourself again. When I met my husband-to-be, it wasn't long after I had broken up with my ex. At that time I felt bad because it was me who left him and he was hartbroken. I felt I was the bad one and I didn't want to have any other relationships. So, when I met him (the one I am merried with now) I told him I wanted to be happy by myself. I said I didn't want to be with someone because I was feeling bad by myself. I wanted us to be toghether because we would feel BETTER that way.