Am I attractive?

United States
October 13, 2009 12:52pm CST
My Boyfriend and I were watching television the other day... I think that the movie was called Mean Girls... Well anyways its about these pretty teenage girls that are really MEAN! I made a comment and said "I don't know why they act that way" Than my boyfriend adds "If you were pretty you would probably be the same way" What the heck is that suppose to mean? Am I not attractive to him? Later when I asked him what he meant by saying that he said that he didn't mean it, in that way, he meant if I was young and lived the way they do! Ok?!?! Now what should I believe? I know darn well I am beautiful from the inside and need a little make up on the outside! But HOW RUDE!
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6 responses
@SanSiim (159)
• Estonia
13 Oct 09
If this is you on your profile pic then I'd say you are attractive ;). And I'd say guys can sometimes make stupid sarcastic jokes so I would not mind what he said.
• United States
13 Oct 09
Hi SanSiim! I am just hurt that he would even joke about it! Aughhhhhhhhhhh Men! Can't live with them and can't live without them! Thanks for responding!
@SanSiim (159)
• Estonia
13 Oct 09
Yes well sometimes men don't realize what impact their words can have I would say. Hope you get better and forget about it =)
• United States
13 Oct 09
In time! He is what you can say punished! Lol!
@xfahctor (14113)
• Lancaster, New Hampshire
13 Oct 09
WOW! Dumb the oaf now and do yourself a favor. You ARE pretty, quite beautiful in fact, this guy is either blind or an idiot, either case, he doesn't deserve ya, ditch him and get someone more worthy, this guy is an epic fail from the word go.
• United States
13 Oct 09
Hi xfahctor! Thanks for the compliment! I can't dump him over this, but if he was just kidding around, he owes me BIG TIME! A Nice diamond bracelet would be nice! Thanks for responding!
@jbrooks0127 (2329)
• United States
13 Oct 09
I think your boyfriend is either losing his eyesight or has rocks in his head. You are not only beautiful on the inside but very beautiful on the out. It is difficult at times for men to understand how important it is to a woman that he find them attractive. It is no doubt one of the most important things as it makes you feel so much better. Depending on how long you have been together he may have began to take your looks for granted. I have no doubt that he found you very attractive when you first met. You are so right that he was rude. And kind of stupid for the moment. We can be that way all too often. My guess is that in this regard he thinks that very attractive women can get away with anything and some try. Why he would relate that to you in the way he did is a mystery.
• United States
13 Oct 09
Hi Jbrooks! Well thank you so much for the compliment! You've made me smile! Well I think my boyfriend has some rocks in his head, he is so hard headed! Lol... We have been together for about four years now! I still find him attractive, well when he doesn't pass gas at least, hahahaha! But thanks! I needed a little pick me up today! And you sure did it! Have a nice day!
@ehsanji (492)
• Pakistan
13 Oct 09
He said that because he was kidding, that's how it looks to me. He wasn't serious, you know. It's like when sometime people call each other names and then they don't take it serious.
• United States
13 Oct 09
Hi Ehsanji! Thanks for responding! But there was no laughing nothing! He said it in a serious tone! But Maybe your right! I am probably taking this to serious!
• United States
24 Dec 09
well your profile pic is pretty attractive if you ask me. and i think what he meant was that you are attractive but not as attractive as the girls in the movie i have never seen that movie so i am unable to make a comparison. but if you think he really cares about you then you should not worry
@ehsanji (492)
• Pakistan
13 Oct 09
Oh yeah and sorry to mention that your profile photo says that you are an attractive lady! So he probably was kidding. Hey by the way, how did you e a r n today? :P