What is the best topic to discuss with a girl?

China
October 15, 2009 6:09am CST
I am 24 years old and haven't had a girlfriend, mostly because I feel speechless being with a girl. The conversation betteen me and my roomates or malefriends can last several hours but when it cames to talking with a girl I turn to silence and embarrassment. What topics do girls like to discuss with boys?
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• United States
15 Oct 09
Asking her if she's seen any good movies lately or read any good books lately are good conversation starters. Ask her what kind of music she listens to if she likes music. Just relax and don't put pressure on yourself to have a long conversation. Treat the conversation like you're talking to one of your friends.
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@tutul0045 (2631)
• India
15 Oct 09
Hey, I tell u what, u r not the only one having this problem. I too have similar problems and I dont really feel comfortable talking to a girl. I guess its all about confidence and feeling comfortable. U have to be yrself first and then try to communicate. In my case, iam a good lsitener and girls are usually talkative. So that makes my job easier, lol. Cheers, Tutul
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@hexeduser22 (5853)
• Philippines
15 Oct 09
It's all about trial and error and of course a little confidence. You must try to engage a conversation leading to what you always do and your hobbies, hoping to find something in common during the conversation. It could also be helpful to ask this question to a girl and you can start with it and also you must know how to listen and be sensitive to the girl you're talking to.
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• Philippines
6 Nov 09
There's really no specific topic girls want to talk about.Well,maybe it depends on the girl you are talking to.But in my opinion,just talk,ask questions,and be sensible.And add a crisp of sense of humor.Girls like men with a great sense of humor.
• Philippines
17 Oct 09
Well, you just have to stay natural when you talk to a girl and do not pretend as they would easily notice you. A girl would not able to know you better if you do not start a conversation unless the girl is very talkative..then you would not have a problem as probably she would be the one to make all the interrogation to ask you. However, most girls like a guy who make a good conversation, know to be funny and the most things is being respectful with the way you treated a girl with her parents, friends or with any people. The topics mostly from asking her name, her favorites or just keep on asking or telling stories that would be a hit, especially the funny one and with a lot of common sense. Finally, you need to have a great sense of humor.
• Philippines
16 Oct 09
Anything you are passionate about. Well, except politics, religion, s ex and exes. Good luck!
@anning (88)
• China
16 Oct 09
i think we are the same kind person.when i face a boy i just do not know what to talk about even the boy has interest in me and i like him too.I think the reason is my character.it is not that we can not find a common topic the reason is we do not dare talk directly what we think. the suggestion i give is that just speak out what do you think and go out a girl who talk much and you will turn better some day.
@carolbee (16241)
• United States
16 Oct 09
Finding a common interest sometimes isn't easy but you can try to start with safe subjects such as sports, movies, television programs or music. Once you get a lead on what the girl likes, you are open to dive right in there and contribute anything you can to keep the conversation moving. Good luck and be sure to simply be yourself.