What would you change about your best friend ?
By nagikka
@nagikka (407)
Italy
October 17, 2009 1:50pm CST
Is there something you would change about your best friend ? something that gets on your nerves but that you try mot to notice because you love your friend too much, faults included ?
I remember my last best friend was a girl in school and she was always happy, very active, giggly and she loved life. I liked the fact she was interested in things, always willing to learn. She was creative, I even loved the weird way she dressed and used makeup. I just couldn't stand her continuous trying to show off, to collect a different guy every weekend with which she used to go to bed. That's her choice of course and I never criticized it, I just didn't like her showing it off, just as If those guys were throphies.
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@jugsjugs (12967)
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18 Oct 09
There are alot of thing i would change about a few of my friends.The first would be for the ones that are two faced as well as back stabbers the second would be their attitude towards the way they live their life and the third is for them to do a few more things about the way they live.
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@sonuherenz (258)
• India
19 Oct 09
Hi Nagikka..
I love this sentence of yours " I just didn't like her showing it off, just as if guys were throphies...Ha Ha
To me accepting a friend to best friend means accepting both his/her goods and bads...
I will only tell the things which i cant stand of him or her, not that i ask him/her to change that thing for me....but not to do or act which i dont like in front of me...yes, i know its his or her's life but as a best friend i can remind him or her of goods and bads...if i can't, then i won't make him or her my best friend.
Woooohhhh....so philosophical....can't believe i wrote this..hope you might understand if not leave it....dont try to break your head..Ha Ha
@jc_star10 (953)
• Indonesia
18 Oct 09
I think the only thing that i would like to change about my best friend, is only if i think it will ruin her life. Right now, I don't have anything to change about my best friend though, so i don't really able to point out which one. If only her bad habit will ruin her life, like going out with many guys, or went too much clubbing, that I will try to change her, or at least give her advice. But if not, I don't think I will change her at all...
@Weizen (144)
• China
18 Oct 09
sometimes I 'll change to my best friends ,becasue sometime ,what he said make me surpised so that I have to change my thought ,of course just you said because I love him so much ,so that I can not see his fault ,this make me lost the judge ,so that sometimes .I hope I could change about my best friends
@gracefuldove (1668)
• Malaysia
18 Oct 09
He is overtly sensitive. He is oftentimes unforgiving, both to the other person and to himself.so,if there is anything that he needs to change is to be less sensitive. He should let the world go by and have the 'que sera sera' attitude. If you cannot change the world change your self. If you cannot change yourself, learn to let go. Do not pent up your feelings. He ought to learn to forgive. If he wants not to forget as a learning point, that is alright but he must forgive.That will take off a huge burden from his chest!
@zhangmingyuan (60)
• China
18 Oct 09
hi,in my view,we should give her some advice,if she is your bestfriend,she will accept you advice,if she donot listen to you ,you just let it go,this is can dofor her,youdnot feel guilt.
@doormouse (4599)
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17 Oct 09
the only thing i would change bout one of my best friends,is that she gets a back bone and stands up for herself with certain people,other than that i would not change a thing
