How to get with boyfriend well ?

China
October 18, 2009 11:19pm CST
I get with my boyfriend five years ,all the time ,we enjoy ourself when we are together and I am sure I love him very much ,he ,too .But lately I am not comfortable when I stay with him ,I begin to hate to meet him and afraid to meet him .When we talk about some topics ,he felt too relazeed ,as if he was with a friend not a lover ,I feel afraid about our relationships ,who can tell me how I should do ?I look forwards to you !
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• India
19 Oct 09
I think my gf too had the same problem with me. Talk to your bf about this. Tell him that you ain't comfortable with his behavior. Tell him what you want. I'm sure he'd understand. There's this small problem with guys. Once they are in a relationship, they feel that they have everything (Oh i feel the same way too). But its important that we give attention to our relationship. Once you are a couple, the relationship can't just last forever. We need to keep it up, always give the same attention to your bf/gf that you used to at the start of the affair. Just think this way, if you'd have faced this problem in the first six months of your relationship, then wouldn't you have gone straight to him and talk it out ? Well this is how problems are solved, go up to him and tell him what matters to you... All the best !
• China
22 Oct 09
Thank you for my friend .After seeing what you said ,I talk about the matter with my boyfriend ,we have a happy talking and also find a way to solve this problem ,now ,we are getting along much better than before .Thank you for your word !
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• India
22 Oct 09
Yes, talking is the best solution friend. There are many things in a relationship that we tend to assume and talking makes everything alright... If any of your friends have love problems, tell them to talk to their partners too... Lets make this world a lovelier place to live in...
@buping (954)
• China
19 Oct 09
hi xinerbeauty. do not worry about this situation too much. you know you have been with him for 5 years, you feel no fresh to each other. sometimes you feel more a friend than lover. i think you can apart for a few days, maybe 15 days. you do not meet each other in 15 days. i am sure you would miss each other in these days. when 15 days pass, you would feel you are lover again.
• China
22 Oct 09
Hi buping ,thank you for your advise ,I will take a try ,maybe you are right .Express good wishes to you and happy everyday !!
@irene3184 (900)
• Philippines
19 Oct 09
I've heard from my friends when you are in a relationship for a very long time. I'm in my 8th month now of having a well-surrounded relationship. Me and boyfriend give each other time to spend time together with my friends without him and he takes his time also to spend time together with his friends without me. We are not too absorb with our relationship for us not to get each other bored. We always take a time for our self and for our relationship and we try to discover something new everyday for us to feel always the excitement.
• China
22 Oct 09
It is a good idea to give some time to each other ,thus we can keep love alive .Thank you for your words ,I will to take a try .Express good wishes to you ,happy everyday !