What to do with a friend who's a complete flirt?

Trust me, the best thing you could do is allow her to live her life the way she wants. Flirting is not something that can be changed by advices or talks. It's our minds desire & can be reduced only by a true love, or a guy for whom she can sacrifice her desires. This is the only option, because we know it better. However, good or bad, friends are friends. By the way you can introduce her to me. Happy Lotting

hmmm..if you already told her shes a flirt right infront of her face and shes still don't get it, then it really is a problem. Ughh, I have a friend like that in high school and shes a big time flirt knowing we're all very young back then. But the truth is, theres nothing we can do about her personality or her being a flirt. Its always her decision if she want changes in her life, the ugly thing about it, is that you're her friend and she doesn't listen or even take your advices. Hmmm..let her do her thing and for sure she'll meet the consequences of her actions. But continue to let her realize that it isn't a nice thing to do. Tell her to chill and relax..hahaha.. theres so many guy out there she'll never run out of it.

Try to tell her nicely that she's being a complete flirt? Since you said nowadays, there are only the 3 of you together, including her, right? So you and the other could try and tell her to tone down a bit. Not for yourselves, but for her own good. If she can take it, that's good. But you said she slammed the phone down whenever you guys tried talking to her. Sounds like she's a quite hot-tempered person. Well, the best is to be there for her when she's down and needs an advice. If no advice is needed, it's best to just keep quiet and don't care so much. Hopefully, this is just a passing phase, because different people react differently to a break up.

Never follow her flirtatious nature and be cautious with your actions.Boys never appreciate and adore girls who are flirts, they hated it and they never take you seriously all the way to the altar. Gently remind your friends that being flirt is not a surefire to success, whatever her purpose of being flirt. If she would not listen then do not follow her example and avoid the occasion where you will be in an awkward situation with boys. Some boys judge you also as a flirt if they see you in a company of flirt girls.

Try to organize a meet up along with your closest friends. Confront her in a nice way. Talk to her and tell her the thin gs she's doing. Tell her the probable consequences. Show her that you along with her other friends are really concerned about her.

it can't be changed, in order to change you pretty much have to change the entire person.

Let your friend have their fun. My friends were total flirts as well, and I just learned from their mistakes. I let my friends flirt and make mistakes, so that I can take down notes, correct them, and tell them where they went wrong. I learn from other people's mistakes.

I understand your concern but things like this cant be change by other people neither her parents.She would until she will realize what she had done.It says a person learn from her/his mistake.It seems like she's enjoying herself by doing this.Who knows, it might be her way of covering up her feelings from her break up.Perhaps as her friends, even if your against with what she's doing just always there for her because we never really know whats her real feeling.She might be hurting and just tying to cheer up herself by gaining attentions from guys.

Since you've already tried talking to her and she's not interested in what you have to say, leave her alone and let her find out for herself whether or not her behavior is wins or loses the guy.

Your friend behavior is really a kind of addicted to some flirting to someone else. What you need is that just inform her that she doing wrong and that is not the right thing revenge what happen to her life...Flirting is really a behavioral instinct and not bad if not that serious where goes to secluded place...Have a nice day!

give her the cold shoulder after you've told her you won't tolerate her behavior. if she cares about your friendship then she'll stop if not then maybe she's not worth keeping as a friend.

If she's slamming the phone down, she's not interested in your opinion. Let her go. You might just make it clear that you have boundaries, though. If she is a flirt who breaks boundaries, she might be flirting with your boyfriend. That's behavior you do not need to put up with. Also if she flirts with the wrong guys while she's with you, then she might get you into trouble. That is also behavior you do not need to deal with. As her friend, make sure she understands what you will accept. Then let her do her thing.

Hi buddy... happy mylotting.... from your words i guess she is not a girl who changes according to others advice.. may be she will realise her mistakes after getting into some horrible problem only... try giving her a last piece of advice... if she doesn't take it, let God teach her a lesson....

Well, the three of you are still friends, right? Then that's the best thing you could do right now, being her friends. Let her does her habit. You have told her your feelings about it, she got furious, but then the three of you are still friends afterward. Really, you should treasure friendships. But whenever her habit backlash on her, you need to say "I told you so!" btw, is she pretty (tsk tsk tsk...shame on you, you dirty old man...)

Depending on how close you are with this friend, you can either tell her it bothers you and you are concerned for her. Knowing she doesn't want to listen to such things, you can let her know you don't want to know about her endeavors when she starts telling you.

hello aixsha, It must tough pressure right now that you're friend is doing everything she could to get over the pain that she'd gone through since that break up. but i think she's doing the wrong way and it's gonna hurt her even more in the end. what was the cause of the break-up? stopping her is the best way, before she could emotionally hurt herself and those other people she's flirting with. I remember a TRUE story once from the News Paper, I think it was from the INquirer a few years back. this girl had a boyfriend and it's her child-hood friend but he was enemy number one at school, till one day she found him cheating. after that, this girl had been spending out with guys and sleeping with them. they said she's a happy person but i think the broke up broke her badly that she tried to get over it by spending night with other men, sleeping with them. i just can't imagine, their whole lives crushed and had to go through this process before they can move on, she did pick up the pieces of her life in the end. help your friend, before she end up hurting herself more and others, emotionally.

I say do nothing who is she hurting? you knew she was a flirt in the begining it didn't bother you then why try to change her now.

well yuou could tell her about it in a good way .. make sure you don sound rude or else she might fell bad or make her go stronger in what she is doing.. make her understand flirting is not a great thing to do and theres is nothig special about it..but above all i think one should understand it by himself/herself ,,pretty much nothing others copuld do about it

you should keep in touch with your best friend that can make you feel better if you manage to meet them routinely, you may have some spare time to meet them, they miss you so much, you miss them also =)

If it's my stuiation I will do something I need to do as a "friend" don't think about too much,you know ,just try to get happy and be happy,you thing too much her ex or something else is not good for a "friend" you know ,be friend for what?just for happy,ha ha ha ha .Life is short ,play more.