did you experience having fights here from mylotters?
By xannebull
@xannebull (1793)
Philippines
October 19, 2009 8:56am CST
i have notice some other discussions here in mylot have disagreements, it's as if they are having fights with each other and i could see the discussion's comments were all from the two of them alone because they continue on posting, defending their own opinions and beliefs.. do you experience it here in mylot?
7 responses
@gunagohan (3414)
• India
19 Oct 09
obviously...i have had like this many times, even i gave up many times, but my friends would never give up...
later i decided not to make the mylot as a debate, just i wanna post my response..
happy mylotting..
@jndlponti (2402)
• Philippines
19 Oct 09
Yes that's it. We will just spend our time here building friendship with other myLotters instead of arguing with them. But truly there are some cases that sometimes we could not stop ourselves from commenting on about the comment they maid. I guess we just need to be patient and respect their opinion. Anyway anyone is entitled of their own opinion.
@gunagohan (3414)
• India
20 Oct 09
yes, you're absolutely correct...building friendship with others by giving respect to their posts..we should not argue that they are wrong, we should accept others points too, even if we that they are really wrong, we can send them a private message..
because i dont like disappointing anybody in public and i love to have peace everywhere i show up...
happy mylotting...
@suzzy3 (8342)
•
21 Oct 09
No I don't even bother with all that nonsense if someone disagrees with me then thats life.I don't like bad feeling and will avoid anyone that trys it.I have taken one freind off because he kept trying to row with me.I have many good friends on mylot so hey losing one does not matter to me.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
19 Oct 09
hello friend,
It did happen to me several times,not in my own topics,but with topics that i responded.
If i feel the topic header won't give up,i would just ignore it and says "happy mylotting"
@lordcaocao2025 (4098)
• Indonesia
19 Oct 09
Yes, i ever do it that too. But it is not a long debate since i decide to giving it up with not responding the other person. I see no point since we know that no one will give up their own opinion. And by responding we will end up fighting and flaming each other ( which is forbidden by mylot )
@jndlponti (2402)
• Philippines
19 Oct 09
No not yet so far... That would be very unlikely if it did happened... But I have experience exchanging of responses with others who responded to my discussions, We made about maybe 4 responses back and forths together but we are not fighting we are even complementing each other. It is what you call interacting with the other.having a real conversation.
@LiveLove (443)
• United States
19 Oct 09
I have done it before but I state my opinion, support it once more and then I am done. I can't say I had a long drawn out battle where the same statement was being repeated rather than just throughly explaining my side and leaving things be. I just don't get why things have to get so personal sometimes in battles because of differing opinions. I have been insulted and I have thrown insults out but that is not the kind of mylotter that I want to be. I love this site and I like the verall friendly nature of the site.
