To my fellow married ladies out there....

United States
October 20, 2009 3:14pm CST
On your face book account do you have your maiden name + married name? only maiden name? only married name? Just curious as privacy is a big things these days. I used to just have my last inital then hubby got on FB and I added him as my spouse & well the cat's out of the bag persay on my last name. So I just have my married name on their now. I don't know if I should add my maiden so folks can find me? You know from HighSchool & such... Though my mom dated someone who was not a good person & in a not so favorable crowd and if there is some bad blood I don't want them finding me on there KWIM? So I"m on the fence myself on this one.
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@menolly22 (217)
• United States
21 Oct 09
I have both my maiden & married name on there. But my account is private. So if you want to see anything at all including what town I live in you have to be a friend. So even if there is bad blood out there they cannot find you without you accepting their friend request.
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• Philippines
21 Oct 09
I put my name, my maiden and my married name in complete details. You should put complete details if you want to find other relatives and friends. There are also people that uses multiple accounts for their full maiden name to be displayed. If you dont want a person to be added on your account you can ignore them isn't it? I think that's what I do if I dont know or want that person.
@mehale (2200)
• United States
20 Oct 09
I just have my married name on there and not my maiden name. Honestly most people that we stay in touch with now days know me by my married name anyway so it really isn't that big of a deal. I haven't used my maiden name in so long that I am not even sure I would answer to it, lol!
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@katsmeow1213 (29047)
• United States
20 Oct 09
Since I joined I only had my married name, but I was having a problem whenever I'd go to add a friend from high school, sometimes they'd send me a message "Sorry, who are you?" And I'd have to tell them my maiden name, then they'd know. So after that I decided to put my maiden name on there, but it doesn't show up in every post. It only shows up when you search for me or when you go to my profile. But if I were to post on your wall it would only show my married name.
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