younger or older???

Philippines
October 20, 2009 11:39pm CST
I you are to choose a partner what do you prefer? younger of older than you? Why?
9 responses
• Philippines
21 Oct 09
choosing a partner doesn't requires age. no matter what. for as long as what you both feel is true love. why not? it is wrong to say that its better to choose an older one coz they are mature, that's not the basis i think. how would you explain those who are old enough in age, but immaturely acts. it is wrong to say to choose the younger one because they are more affectionate and sweet, because there are older ones who are also sweet. love your love without considering your age.
• Philippines
21 Oct 09
You got a good point there.. thanks for sharing raine
@EARLZHAN (934)
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
Haha.. I think miel will learn a lot from you rain. Rain is right miel age doesn't matter. As long as you love each other and your happy with each other so go on and enjoy the the happiness of being in love..
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
cool! hahaha...if you want to be happy be contented.
@maean_19 (4662)
• Philippines
21 Oct 09
If love struck us, age can never be a choice whether young or old. I had experienced having a relationship with a younger guy, same age and older one. I found out that age is not actually a factor in a relationship. On the other hand, I prefer an older one because I want someone to be more mature than me. It's hard to find mature young guys. Most of the younger guys are easy go lucky and irresponsible.
• Philippines
21 Oct 09
I totally agree with you
@okoyskabo (186)
• Philippines
21 Oct 09
neither. i have a friend, her husband is 20 years her senior. they live in two different worlds. they quarrel a lot. i guess it could happen when you have a younger partner. you two would often clash, i guess.
• Philippines
21 Oct 09
thanks for the comment
@love_all (308)
• India
21 Oct 09
i would choose a younger partner.. but i don't know why i always get attaracted towards elder ones.. is there something mental about this?? i am really not sure about this.. hope you mighthelp me out in this..
• Philippines
21 Oct 09
I think so..maybe the reason why you are attracted to older girls is that you are long for a sister or brother figure which you found in the character of that person. But I don't see anything wrong with that..
@tatiana07 (498)
• Philippines
21 Oct 09
hi mielshare. i usually prefer 4-5 years older than me.but my ex'es are younger than me.lol. and then when i met my husband oh he's only 1 year older than me. anyways age is not a preference in love. what matters most is you're in love with each other. (",) happy mylotting!
• Philippines
21 Oct 09
yah I agree..but I think the level of maturity of these persons will also affect there relationship.
• India
21 Oct 09
I don't think age or height or complexion or body type matters for a true love..its the Brain which matters most..recent study shows that Love does not stay in Heart, but it always stays in the Brain. So for a good love relation, 2 compatible Brain is very important, so that both understand each other well, and everything. Its a new Hormone discovered for a love relationship to mature. The Hormone discharges when one love another..that's the scientific fact of life.
• Philippines
21 Oct 09
Thanks for the new info naren.. I'll keep that in mind.
@irene3184 (900)
• Philippines
21 Oct 09
I set ideals before when I am going to choose a partner but then it comes that I fall in love to someone opposite to my ideals.So you can't either foresee whom to fall in love if it's younger or older than you.
@EARLZHAN (934)
• Philippines
21 Oct 09
Well.. Here we are again talking about partners. If I'm going to choose a partner. I would choose the one who is older than me. I am the youngest among my siblings and I can say that I really have to be mature enough to handle a relationship. However, Age doesn't matter for me. Even if a girl is younger or older than me as long as I love her and she loves me.. I will be grateful to love her the way she is and stay by her side till We grow old..
@Drsunny21 (558)
• India
21 Oct 09
Hi Age doesnt matter if you are in true love...ya but if i m 25 and she shouldnt be 50 definitely...