How do you value a relationship?

Philippines
October 21, 2009 8:36am CST
Many people said that relationship is a vital part of one's life but how to we value it? What do we and should do to take care of our relationships??? Share share share.. Thanks my lotters!!
7 responses
@JohnJeff (720)
• Malaysia
21 Oct 09
The best way to measure our relationship with somebody is are we happy.Are you happy with your boy/girlfriend.Are you happy with your friends.Do you feel pleasant and safe with someone you love.If the answer is no there must be something wrong.
• Philippines
21 Oct 09
yah..when there is something wrong with your relationship with someone what do you do?
• United States
21 Oct 09
Read the bible about marraige. It tells you to love one another! What ways can you show someone you love them - The little things work for me! Open the car door, Bring me a rose after work, Cook a nice romantic dinner and have a little indoor pic nic suprise! enjoy each other and have fun!
@akotalagato (1334)
• Philippines
21 Oct 09
do not take your relationships for granted. this is what i have learned. especially marriage. when two people are married, they often do tend to take their relationship for granted. always thinking that if you love one another, you will always be there for each other. this is when things start to go wrong.
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
21 Oct 09
Thats a tough question to answer really...first off there are many types of "relationships" that we all have in our lives and how we may value one wont be the same as another....For example, I value my relationship with my kids more and above anyone else in my life or any other relationship..next would be my hubby and friends in a tied position...but sometimes I value my hubby more and other times my friends depending on whats goin on etc...
@getbrowser (1708)
• China
21 Oct 09
For me, I regard my friends as my family. As you have said above, relationship is a vital part of one's life. Without it, people may feel lonely and have no people to share their sorrow and happiness, especially when we are in trouble. Always be honest to your friends, share your amazing experience with them. When they are in trouble, as a friend os them, we should give them a hand other leaving away from them. Happy myLotting here.
• India
21 Oct 09
Any relationship is a part of our life.It depends upon how much you give importance to them.It may be relationship between your dad,mom,sister,brother or your bf or gf. You should learn to respect relationship. In relationship of lovers, they face lack of immaturity like jealous , trust , respect & all. There should be lots of trust in any relationship, if there is no trust in between then no relationship will work for a long time.
@mishaela (29)
• Romania
21 Oct 09
Of course that we should take care of our relationship if we're getting along with that person.Probably it is important in our life and we should take that person near us,because who knows where we are going to...marriage?If u fight with your boyfriedn/girlfriend a lot u should take a good thinking if it worthes.I'm speaking from my experience.It's nice to have someone in your life,but sometimes is better to be alone,if u don't find the right person(and maybe i speak for me).No,i don't think is vital,i know persons who are single at the age of 60 years and they are very happy with themselves!