Marriage is very important for life or not

India
October 21, 2009 1:20pm CST
HI friends I want to ask you that marriage is very important for life or not ? because according to me it is not such as important because you have to lift alots of responsibilities on your shoulder so life seems happy in starting but after few months what is reality i beleive bacheolor lives more happy and one moments many people wants to get married just to make physical relation is this right ? lets see what do you think guys?
4 responses
@jalucia (1435)
• United States
21 Oct 09
Depending what kind of person you are and what kind of life you are looking to live, marriage can be very important. I do know that it is very important that, if you do decide to get married, you decide to do it right. If you are gonna have children, it's important to consider marriage because it does make a difference. I think that the most important thing to do, as far as marriage goes, is try your hardest to do it the right way. Don't take it for granted.
@jalucia (1435)
• United States
21 Oct 09
Thanks Sach!
• United States
21 Oct 09
I guess its 50 50, If your not married you always wonder what it would be like to have your other half. Someone to share life responsibilitys with and just be able to love as much as you love yourself. On the other hand you have to worry about what someone else wants and you have to share and be fair and considerate. Compramise comes to mind. So Like I said just 50 50 depends on the person
@getbrowser (1715)
• China
21 Oct 09
That all depends. But for me, marriage is reall important for my life. Although I am still very young to discussion this discussion, I will treat marriage as a part of my real life when I have gotten married. Yes, as you have said above, people who get married have to lift a lot of responsibilities on their shoulder. But people who own a good wife will benefit a lot from their marriage, which is really the key. Of course, if you want to have a free life, you can hold the idea that marriage is not such as important.
@1anurag1 (3580)
• India
21 Oct 09
I think we are very young to discuss on that. if you really want to know the value of this i think better to go to your grandma or grandfather if he is alone. how he misses his wife and feel the lonelyness. i think marriage is noting , its an ideal system made by some intellectuals. we as youngesters think about it for the physical relation but they persists for some years after marriage. the purpose of a life partner is to share the whole life , all the troubles , sorrow and happiness. you can share your secrets , your goods and bads with her even those you cant share with your friends. i am not talking about some exceptional cases. And finally when you will become old you will see the importance when no one is there and only your spouse will be in front of you to share all your silly things. silly things not for you but for the next generation. you will be of same importance at that time for your spouse as you are now. and when she leaves you alone forever then you will come to know that your life was a bit easier with her.