Lying One of the Ultimate Betrayal in any Relationship

By fler
@feodda (579)
Philippines
October 22, 2009 1:12am CST
What is the worst lie you ever heard? The Funniest? or the worst you ever told? Before me and my ex have broke-up the worst lie he have ever told just to cover up his another woman. It was a biggest lie I ever heard. A lie that cannot be forgotten. Through that many people are involved. He told me that he was threaten by a well-known family in our town. There was a girl who flirted with him and the boyfriend of that girl happen to have a big name in our society. That's why he didn't what to see me. And wanted to protect me. The boyfriend of that girl threaten him, by killing him, me and his family. He never knew that I have a connection with that family. When I ask a friend of mine, who happen to be a part of that family. They told me that was a lie. From there on, I suspected him of a lot of things. It was his stories to cover up his other affair.
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4 responses
@JamesKYTan (1607)
• Malaysia
22 Oct 09
I believe you are a Christian and as Christian we are ask to forgive just as Our Lord Jesus forgave those we crucified him by saying, " Father, forgive them for they do not know what they are doing. Did your ex-boyfriend know what he is doing? I suppose he knew. Thus look for another whom you can trust and who loves you unconditionally. OR unless he repents and promises to love you and not to ever lie again and most of all to make you happy. God loves you always.
@feodda (579)
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
Yes, I am a Christian Catholic. It is really hard to forgive a person who give you the biggest scar in your life and with all the humiliation, not just that lie. As a christian, we are taught to forgive. May time goes by, you might forgive the person but not forgetting the things he done to you.
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• Malaysia
24 Oct 09
It is easy said than done. It is very hard to forgive if the hurt is very deep. As the saying goes: " The wound heals but the scar remains." We want to forgive, but each time we look at our 'scars' it reminds us of the hurts. We are human and we need God to help us to forgive.
@ybong007 (6658)
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
The funniest lie I can recall was when I was courting my girlfriend then (now my wife). She's a year older than I am but she said she wants her boyfriend to be older than she is believing that older people have that level of maturity, to which I totally disagree. So I said I was 3 years older than her. She said "yes" after a few weeks courting. She was mad when she found out after a few months, but what can she do we're "on" already. Cheers!
@feodda (579)
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
That was funny, making lie to be with the woman you love.
@ybong007 (6658)
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
Yes there are what we consider white lies that serve a purpose, and it's one of those. A lie would still be a lie but I guess it boils down to what your real intention is. Cheers!
• United States
22 Oct 09
Yes, it is a betrayal in a relationship, but there are some truths that should never be told. Before my relationship with my boyfriend, my past was horrifying bad. I made some really bad mistakes, and I did somethings that to this day I have trouble forgiving myself for. Two of these things I never told to my boyfriend because I think it would completely destroy our relationship if I did. I do not want to hurt him. As long as I have been in my relationship with my boyfriend, I have been on my best behavior, or I have done my best to be. I drank, I partied, and I ran away from home a lot before I met my boyfriend. I was no angel. Do I regret a lot of it, yes, I do, but can I change the past, no. All I can do is learn from my mistakes, and do my best never to make the same mistakes again.
@feodda (579)
• Philippines
22 Oct 09
Sometimes past is a learning experience which makes the experience a best teacher of life.
@Hatley (164471)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Oct 09
the worst lie I ever heard was the one my own dad believe from a letter by a girl with the same first and last name as my maiden name. I told him there was no way I would have sent a filthy letter about myself to my own parents and not til he saw the postmark showing this girl lived clear across the state of South Dakota did he realize that I had not written this piece of crap. This girl even once took money out of my account and I found that almost impossible to believe as they had a thumb print you had to show to draw out money at that time. so she must have been very persuasive to have got away with it., but I went to the police she was tracked down and her irate dad mailed me his check to cover what she had stolen. I told a little white lie to a grocery store delivery man who was asking me if I had a certain eclectronic giZmo and just to shut him up I said yes. so next time he asked a bunch of technical questions about the thing and I had to admit I had fibbed. most embarrassing indeed.