Women want many things in life

India
October 22, 2009 2:05pm CST
good husband, good children, big house, car, jewels, costly dresses, shoes, talk a lot etc etc... Their desires, wants, needs seem to be endless... What are the things that women don't want?
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18 responses
@dpk262006 (56170)
• Delhi, India
3 Nov 09
Hi there! It is true, whatever you have stated, however its opposite is also true that men also wish to have big house, good clothes and shoes and cars and bikes. You see each man and woman keep desiring about new things and their desires never end.
@jerimiyah (232)
• Philippines
3 Nov 09
well, it depends but one thing we have common is we hate liars, if a guy doesnt say anything even though it is so obvious that he has problem and a few more but i cant think of it right now.
@eshaan (6193)
• India
28 Oct 09
bad husband, bad children, small house, old two wheelers, very few old dresses, old sandals....are the things that women dont want.....ha ha ha...just made the opposites of what u wrote, when you know so much what is the need of asking...still want to discover women more???...i think u just keep doing general research and investigations...all women are not same kind...actually i don't like cars..i like two wheelers as i feel suffocating in cars..next jewels..also i hate...feel just like status symbol..i don't like overloading and over-showing...just love and care are the things i want and i crave for...nothing else..rest are secondary things..yes..good children i like...
• Philippines
26 Oct 09
Not only woman have many wants in her life, also the men. Me I want a peaceful life, I want money to provide for our needs. I want many friends. I want to achieve my dreams. I am not on the material things like clothes or shoes, I want to buy laptop instead of it. It is endless for the reason of humans have no satisfaction, and woman like us change ideas quickly. About we don't want, of course poor life , poor health,problems and misunderstanding, which I guess men don't like too.
@andy77e (5165)
• United States
25 Oct 09
They don't want... you to spend your money on anything else, or complain when you pay for their big house, car, jewels, costly dresses, shoes, cell phone to talk, and endless other desires.
@zandi458 (27952)
• Malaysia
24 Oct 09
What woman don't want is a cheating husband.
@maplegeo (126)
• India
24 Oct 09
I don't think every woman is like that.I am also a wife ,obviously I don't want a cheating husband,but I can understand his financial problems and earnings.An understanding woman won't do like that.If start demands that will be the end of their peaceful life..After gaining all things you mentioned,have to search for love...
• Philippines
24 Oct 09
personally speaking,I love the following:food,clothes,money,shoes,perfume,lingerie,beauty products,travels,accessory,hanging out with friends,my family,and living life happily.I adore powerful women who have a good work and family life balance.I am all for women power.what I don't want are contacting an incurable disease,losing a loved one,pollution,discrimination in work place,rude men,jokes that degrade women,and women/animal abuse.
@bellis716 (4806)
• United States
24 Oct 09
Not all women want all the things you listed. I believe that what women want most is respect. Fidelity is extremely important, but if a man really respects his wife, he will be faithful. Usually, if a man respects his wife and backs up her decisions, the children will respect her, too. If the woman receives respect and trust from her husband regarding their finances, she will be responsible in that area. We do have brains!
@coolcoder (2020)
• United States
23 Oct 09
I don't think it's fair to lump all women into one category. If I found a guy who had a good character--honest, unafraid to stand up for what he believes, etc.--then the money doesn't really matter. Yes, you need some to buy food, a house, and all of the other basic needs, but when it comes down to it, the character of the man far outweighs any material possession he might have. There are some women who want all of the things you've mentioned, but it's not all of us. Me, I'm learning how to sew my own clothes--it's far less expensive, and you can get the right fit every time. Jewels don't mean a darned thing to me, either. Yay...someone's put a value on a bunch of different colored rocks. Whoop dee doo. That's all they are, though--shiny rocks. Shoes? All I want is a decent pair of tennis shoes for winter wear, some nice church shoes (not high-heeled, as I have ankle problems), and some flip-flops for the warmer weather. I don't need 100 pairs of the same style of shoe; that's just ridiculous.
@JohnJeff (722)
• Malaysia
23 Oct 09
Hello vijayanths, is that what your impression about woman?.I think what woman want in their lives is influenced by their background.If their came from rich family off course their want the same thing.I want to be fair here.All of us want to be happy.No one (if they can avoid) to be poor.
• China
23 Oct 09
first not only women but also men ,and half women half men have desire.human without desire wont progress,because they wont try hard if they dont have dreams ,goals and desire.everyone is like what you say. i think that everyone have dreams,goals,desires,....but some people will choose his partner ,his relatives , or happy life or sth etc if he have to select between material and those things. if your gf is like what you say and she will select other things but not you,and you cant give her what she want,you cant stand this kind of values,i think you 'd better say goodbye to her,because the difference between basical values is too diffecult to fit.the basical values is nearly impossible to change unless one's life appear some great change.the values has no fault ,it has only fit for or not. this is my opinion.
@fifileigh (3619)
• United States
23 Oct 09
i dont know. it really depends on the individual women.
@jaiho2009 (39019)
• Philippines
23 Oct 09
Hello dear brother, Of course,who wants to have a husband with an empty pocket huh? I don't want to stare at the ceiling with growling stomach and crying children for hunger. And i can't imagine living in a home without a house(hahaha) And,who wants to keep running with buses and stand on trains for a long journey (ugh!!!) I want to live like a princess (hahahahahahahaa) I am not a materialistic person my dear brother. Until now,i don't demand for material things. Material things are not permanent,it is like mobile phones that has an endless new features added to attract users. I want a simple life,simple and happy family. A house is not a home without a father or a mother and could not even be called a family when there is no kid/children to make a noise. Honestly,i couldn't ask for more. What i am looking in this present time,is,to see my children reach their dreams. And life would be complete for me
@vathsala30 (3723)
• India
23 Oct 09
women wants all the things you have mentioned above. But do all they get it. It is the fancy of everyone dreaming about their desires and only a few poses all those they wish. But women don't want a man who is lazy, idle, unfit,uneducated and fit for nothing and good for nothing. A women hates a man who is a drunkard and a chain smoker and depends only on her earnings.
@sexyposh (576)
• Philippines
23 Oct 09
Hi Vijayanths! Your post made me think and ask myself, am I like that??? Maybe in some ways, yes I demand too much in life has to offer. Like to have a house, a car, a phone, nice clothes, slick shoes, to smell good, fine meal, loving husband, happy children, its because I just want to feel more secure. Now, the things I really hate is a mess up life. Things that didn't went well and not my way.. Some kind of control freak eh??? lols! But I guess I was designed to be like this, has too many demands and a contol freak (hehe!!), to bring out the best of a man....
• United States
23 Oct 09
That's funny, that is how I think men think too. We all want things, and have dreams, or expectations. Just saying it is women is kind of sexist you know.
@jugsjugs (13045)
22 Oct 09
Well am am a woman who do not want a man to be lazy or a man who do not want me.