As a manager - is it important that your employees like you?

October 23, 2009 3:08pm CST
Today one of my colleagues said: "I really hate my boss. He is so annoying!" Another colleague answered: "So what. He's good at his job. You don't need to like him!" That made me think. It's true, it is not the managers job to be liked, but to do a good job, guide the team, achieve objectives. But if the team doesn't like the boss, they won't like the job, they won't be motivated and therefore not work as good as they could and might leave. Do you think it is an important that employees like their manager?
6 responses
• Boston, Massachusetts
24 Oct 09
I don't mind if my staff/subordinates don't like me. I will organize activities that will strengthen teamwork so that they will still be motivated to work efficiently even if they don't like me as along as they are happy with the team (of course that includes me) but they will be more passionate with their job and eventually establish that positive and friendly but professional relationship with me. Positive stroking and recognition will keep them motivated and as a boss i am so generous in providing this.
• Boston, Massachusetts
26 Oct 09
Giving recognition and acknowledgment is a big factor in keeping our staff motivated to work. This will create a positive environment in the workplace and this is a result of a good management/leadership. There's no reason for not liking you as the boss.
25 Oct 09
I guess if you are positive and give them recognition, that already helps being liked. I also say - my staff needs to respect me and to like me. I don't necessarily need to be their best friend, though.
@aachen (26)
• Germany
17 Nov 09
Manager is the one who gets the work done, so it might happen that when a lots of work is delegated the employees might not like the Manager. It again depends that the Manager has to wisely delegate the job or get the work done. Few managers behave such that they are god or the ultimate which is not wise. Yes its important that the employees look at you as a good lead.
16 Dec 09
I agree - a manager needs to be a good lead and give his staff direction. Thanks for the comment.
@hireshd (490)
• India
24 Oct 09
Yes as a manager it is important that your employees like you otherwise the manager only can raise the spirits and if he is not liked then the employees wont listen to him and which in turn reduces the productivity, also if you are not liked employee faith is lost and in turn also affect the company somewhere
25 Oct 09
That all goes back to being a good and strong team where one can rely on one another. Good points. Thanks.
• United States
24 Oct 09
As a manager, it is extremely important that you remember you are a manager only as long as the employees allow it. Most of people's success is garnered from others doing their jobs well. Too many managers get sloppy and have the "I deserve this" attitude. If a manager goes to lunch one day and returns to find all the empoyees got fed up and walked out...what would be left to manage? Wouldn't it be nice to allow empoyees to vote in their manager, or vote out the manager that is not a team player. Life would be interesting. In too many cases, a manager has been appointed by another manager higher up the rungs. When employees begin to complain, they are generally let go and another is brought on board. The manager that did the original appointing definately does not want to admit he made a mistake. This allows the appointed manager to operate on his own terms without consideration for the people that are working under him. 'People skills' should be at the top of the list when any candidate is being considered for management.
24 Oct 09
Yes, it often feels as if you can't say anything against a manager who doesn't treat you right. But unfortunately we all depend on our job. Fair companies hopefully listen to both manager and staff. People skills should always be part of a managers job description. I agree.
@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
24 Oct 09
Hi,i don't know is it important or not,but a successful manager has to satisfy both higher officials as well as subordinates.He can't loose subordinates at the cost of his good looks at this boss.So it is very difficult job.A good manager in the company looks may not good to sub-ordinates and vice-versa..... Have a nice day.
24 Oct 09
I guess the trick is then to get the balance right - keep a happy team and a happy senior management.
• United States
24 Oct 09
Hi, Yes...It is VERY IMPORTANT I think for the employess to like their manager. I happen to be a dept. manager. I can honestly say there is nothing my associates would not do for me to help our dept. be the best. First let me start by saying, I am not a push over. Meaning i let them do what they want, so they would like me. Its just that I give them respect and I get respect in return. You do not have to be a bossy manager to get results. I have been doing this for 20 yrs. I have watched other managers and how they treat their associates. What I have noticed, is their associates do not produce as well, they quit or sooner or later the manager is no longer working with us. Part of being a good manager is having the respect of your employees. Manager's are leaders. Their job is to produce results, teaching and always remembering that as a whole, manager and employees work as a team towards success. I think what a lot of managers forget, without the employees there will be no success.
25 Oct 09
I guess every manager is different and as a manager you also need to adjust to your stuff. Gaining your staffs respect certainly should be on top of the list.