how much do you trust him/her?

@jen20ixm (165)
Philippines
October 24, 2009 12:13pm CST
im currently dating someone for about three years now, we started as friends and ended up being boyfriend/girlfriend. we been through alots of agruments, trials, problems, so on and so forth but even though we argue alot, we still love and care for each other, im no strict kind of girlfriend and hes not too strict because we do know our limitations. last week a friend of mine currently engaged someone had cool off or cancelled her big day for some reason her man cheating on her. we talked for hours online. she just talked and talked and i just listen, she brags about honestly, blah blah blah. then one question hit me "HOW MUCH DO YOU TRUST HIM" and i was stocked by asnwering her "i trust him but i dont know how much" so guys, what about you? HOW MUCH DO YOU TRUST THE ONE YOUR DATING OR CURRENTLY INVOLVED WITH?
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@cchaos (17)
• China
24 Oct 09
Sorry for you. I trust in my girl in everything of every aspect. As a Chinese boy, we are much tradional than you can think. I met my girl 7 years ago,and we are very happy when together. And after a while, we fell in love with each other. After all, though we fought a lot, we can make it right after sometime not long. We dont make love, cause we think that's not allowd before our marriage, love is just filled between us, and we planned to get married after I get my doctor's degree,that'll be in 5 years, it's a long time, but we'd love to wait. Things is different from me and you, but ,I think ,when you fell in love with someone, you must trust him/her, or your love wont last too long, this is my point.
@jen20ixm (165)
• Philippines
24 Oct 09
thank you for very insightdul point. im saying i trust him but i dont know how much, to what extent i expect my self to trust a guy? i've met a lot of couples and mostly girls/ woman dont trust much of their partner for some reason for flirting to other girls/ cheating behind their back but im not saying that girls dont do that things too. in my point of view, yes you are right that when you fell in love with someone, you must trust him or her, but also we do have sayings that trust should be earned first. and trust is something when you broke is hard to get back. and im happy for you, i think you had a very nice relationship with the one your currently involved with, i hope you'll stay strong as what i see to your opinion and best of luck.
@cchaos (17)
• China
24 Oct 09
Thank you for your words. I am lucky to have my girl, we are supposed to become one person. what I want to say is , when you come into a relationship like mine, you will find out that it's impossible to live without him/her, that's why I trust her, and I dont know how much, coz it's my whole life, uncountable. Best wishes!
@mohitseth (568)
• India
25 Oct 09
according to me truth and trust are the foundation for long relationship. we should share every thing with our partner if we lie to each other then our relation will die sooner. trust is the biggest factor for a relationship-if we let him/her to do what ever they want and keep our faith in them then it will increase our bonding.so we should trust each other because our love will bind us together. happy mylotting.
@l33tgirl (289)
• New Zealand
25 Oct 09
I am naturally a very jealous person so trust has never come easily for me. However I trust my partner completely. It's just his personality, he is very honest and would not be capable of telling lies and he trusts me as well. Possibly this is due to us being friends before we dated as well, we already knew each other well.
@shadow41 (2356)
• Philippines
25 Oct 09
I trust my girl completely. I don't have doubts or any suspicions to her. Though sometimes I check her not because she's doing something but because of those people around her. I trust my girl but not the people around her. Easy. :p shadow41
@hexeduser22 (5855)
• Philippines
25 Oct 09
My story is almost the same as yours, even the years, the only different thing is we are now maintaining a long distance relationship and if you ask me trust and understanding is the most important thing in this kind of relationship. I trust my girl with my life because I know her but it never hurts to have a little reservations for yourself.
@lynnemg (4540)
• United States
24 Oct 09
I trust my husband completely, but not blindly. In other words, I trust him to say and do as he tells me he is going ot, but I am not gullable enough to overlook things when he is being dishonest. My husband and I are both insecure, and for the both of us, trust is important. If he calls me, he knows that I am where I tell him I will be and doing what I said I am going to do. If I call him, I expect the same. This simple thing greatly increases trust and security for the both of us.